10/26/2025
Decide to live your dream.
I was reminded of that last night at the Oldfield Opry, where I settled into a seat on the chilly, rainy evening. The free Christian County music show is a remarkable volunteer effort, and I enjoy visiting every few weeks. Despite these many visits, I have to say: At no previous show have I ever seen an attendee in a floor-length blonde wig.
While I noted the style choice, I figured it wasn't my business what someone else did with their hair. Turns out, though, I soon learned more when the lady spotted me and said, "Kaitlyn, it's me — Patty, your neighbor!"
Yes, I do have a neighbor named Patty. One whom I never would have recognized as she sat at the Oldfield Opry in that wig and told me that she was there to make her stand-up comedy debut.
She, her daughter and a friend were there for the show because they knew that in the opry's second half, they allow guests to come up and perform for a few minutes. Traditionally those guests are musicians, but Patty, in her 80s, decided to take the opportunity to be a comedian.
I was so surprised — and then so inspired. She told me that she just figured if not now, when? So last night was the night.
Afterwards, she told me she was scared to death but still went forward, performing material she put together (and yes, it did involve the wig). And she did a good job.
I admire her decision to get up and do something scary, and remind us that often we defer aspirations out of fear. Let's be inspired by Patty's decision to do something about the dreams in our own lives that seem too late or too out of reach. Many times, they don't have to be if we decide otherwise.