That Rosy Life for Realz

That Rosy Life for Realz I was stuck, existing in a toxic environment, until I broke free and discovered the power of feminine energy.

I’m 60+, having adventures with my new husband who treats me like his queen. Sharing what I’ve done to transformed my life and how you can too!

09/16/2026

News flash- a date where you split the bill is NOT a date… it’s just two people hanging out.

How to find the man you want to marry, in 4 easy (ok, maybe hard, kind of uncomfortable) steps -My life finally changed ...
08/28/2026

How to find the man you want to marry, in 4 easy (ok, maybe hard, kind of uncomfortable) steps -

My life finally changed when I stopped listening to advice of people that tell you “just be yourself!” Uhg. No!

I knew what I was doing wasn’t making me happy and it could potentially push away something really great.

I knew I needed to grow, to develop into a person my dream man would be attracted to.

We always need to be striving to become the next best version of ourselves and to stop relying on habits we call our personality.

We are not the sum of our behavior. If those behaviors are not serving us, it’s time to do something better…

Here’s the game plan I followed-

🩷 Work on yourself like it’s your second job.

Heal in whatever way you need.

If you have anxious attachment, learn how to change those patterns.

Learn everything you can about feminine energy and start practicing getting out of your masculine energy.

Completely let go of anyone who makes you confused and/or sad.

Become the woman who will attract the kind of man you want.

Learn how to be part of a heathy relationship.

🩷 Take all the time, effort, and moolah you need to be the best looking version of yourself.

Like it or not, men are first attracted to what they see.

Eat well. Exercise. Healthy is attractive.

Take the best care you can of your hair, brows, teeth, nails, and skin.

Learn how to do your makeup to be the most flattering for you.

Lean into your unique style.
Learn what colors and style of clothes suits you.

Wear the best clothes you can that make you look your best, suited for whatever activity you’re doing.

Get rid of any clothes that don’t make you look and feel your best.

Develop routines for self care, including always being clean, fresh, with hair and makeup suitable for whatever activity you’re doing.

🩷Get out and meet people!

Do something fun, in a setting where you might meet someone, at least once a week.

Join a club.

Take a fun class.

Go out with friends.

Build a life that makes you happy.

When someone asks you out, go.

Practice talking to new people.

Make new girlfriends and do activities together.

Only hang out with women who are generally happy, with a good attitude.

Cut out anyone who is down on marriage and relationships.

Listen, Mr Right is not gonna knock on your door while you’re sitting around in your jammies watching Outlander. Darn!

It’s hard to get started, but worth the effort. I met such great people and we still doing things together.

Men want a happy woman, not someone he has to make happy.

It’s a wonderful feeling to be happy together, with the love of your life.

I want that for you.
So go get it, Sis!
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Captions give timeline and where I was able to meet my husband, one year ago.

Thank you, Dolly. You tried warn us🎶Here you come againJust when I've begun to get myself together…..I should have liste...
08/26/2026

Thank you, Dolly. You tried warn us🎶Here you come again
Just when I've begun to get myself together…..
I should have listened and taken Dolly’s words to heart, but I didn’t.

I really enjoyed my season of single, but…

I also did a whole lot of bawling my eyes out over a couple of guys who were really attentive…except when they weren’t.
Could have saved myself a lot sooner….

🎶You waltz right in the door, just like you've done before
And wrap my heart 'round your little finger
Here you come again
Just when I'm about to make it work without you
You look into my eyes and light those dreamy eyes
And pretty soon I'm wondering how I came to doubt you
All you gotta do is smile that smile
And there go all my defenses
Just leave it up to you and in a little while
You're messing up my mind and filling up my senses
Here you come again
Looking better than a body has a right to
And shaking me up so, that all I really know
Is here you come again, and here I go🎶

That’s what happens when you don’t truly release the wrong man.

And until you truly and completely release him, you cannot move on.

Luckily my eyes were suddenly opened and in an instant I knew that I would never entertain his attention ever again.

I was completely done.

Exactly one week later 💘 Cupid struck me and James.

Even though we had met one month prior, he was not even on my radar. Why?

I wasn’t ready. Even though I was no longer seeing Mr. Wrong, I was still hung up on him.

There was no space for Cupid to land.

I know it feels uncomfortable to truly let go of the fantasy of being with someone who is making you so confused and you feel like “if only this or that”.

But what if your true love is about to pass you by?

Take a chance.

Release what’s wrong so your hand is available for the most wonderful man you’ve ever been with, and the greatest love of your life.

How to not waste your life crying over jerks…. I spend a lot of time talking about the attributes a man should have befo...
08/25/2026

How to not waste your life crying over jerks…. I spend a lot of time talking about the attributes a man should have before you marry him.

But how does it happen that a man falls in love with you and proposes in less than a year?

When a man falls in love with his dream girl, he will do everything he can to win her, to be the man who gets to have her by his side for the rest of his life.

So how do you become a dream girl? Feminine energy, baby!

You are Simon Cowell and he is the America Idol contestant.

You sit back and observe his actions. He works for your attention, not the other way around.

You decide if he’s the one, and if a life with him is going to be the best thing you’ve ever experienced.

Men WANT to work for what they want. They do not value anything that is freely given to them.

So stop giving yourself away.
Stop doing things for him.
Appreciate what he does for you!

Stop trying to control him and the outcome. Observe. Trust him until he proves untrustworthy.

Stop giving wifey energy to a man who is not your husband.

Stop rearranging your schedule and your life for someone who asks you to go 50/50 on so called dates.

Stop giving your love and devotion to someone who hasn’t even made you his exclusive woman.

Stop being focused on someone who isn’t completely, entirely and over the moon obsessed with you…in the best way possible.

How is it that a man who told me he’d never marry without living together first suddenly pop the question and marry me 3 days later….
after less than 4 mths of dating?

This was his answer…

“Because you required it.”

When a man truly wants you, he will step up.

The right man will make you feel like the divine goddess you are.

But he’s not gonna show up if there’s no space for him.

Stop giving all your energy to the wrong men.
Let go of the fantasy of being with someone who is not sure about you… and maybe, just maybe…

Mr. Right will show up and sweep you off of your feet.

Marry the man who is right for you. The right man will…🩷 be absolutely sure he wants to be with you…🩷 never make you de...
08/24/2026

Marry the man who is right for you. The right man will…
🩷 be absolutely sure he wants to be with you…
🩷 never make you decode his behavior…
🩷 want to do things for you…
🩷 learn your likes and dislikes and do his best to make you happy
🩷 want to provide whatever he can, in every way he can
🩷 is proud to be with you
🩷 loves and/or accepts all your curves and edges…
🩷 make it known that desires you and keeps up the chase to “be” with you
🩷 discuss the future and make goals and plans as a couple…
🩷 think you’re the most beautiful woman, inside and out…
And I don’t know if they all do this, but my husband thanks me for going with him on dates.

As soon as the heat wave broke we got back on our bikes.

This trail is almost 10 miles long and we did almost the whole thing.

I love St Louis because there’s just so much to do! There’s so many parks and well maintained trails. This one is pretty flat. Very easy.

We took a little detour and had lunch at St Louis Bread Co, aka Panera Bread. Very refreshing!

Also refreshing was the lemonade stand. So cool that kids are still doing this. These days they take Venmo 😳😄

08/24/2026

Anyone who doesn’t agree with this is fooling themselves. If you’re wanting to open the door to another man’s attention, you shouldn’t be married.

Marry the man you don’t have to teach how to love you. Did we get married quickly? Yes. Are we a lil’ bit crazy? Also ye...
08/22/2026

Marry the man you don’t have to teach how to love you.
Did we get married quickly? Yes. Are we a lil’ bit crazy? Also yes. Did we rush in too quickly, and make a mistake? No.

This man has shown love and devotion to me since day one.

As long as I stay in my feminine energy, I believe he will stay in his masculine, caring for me in every way he can, ready, willing, and able to be the best husband I could ever ask for.

08/21/2026

Marry the man who has no problem telling everyone and showing how much he adores you.

“He loves her hard and treats her like a queen BECAUSE SHE…” Sis, here’s the key to happiness. Let the man be the man. I...
08/21/2026

“He loves her hard and treats her like a queen BECAUSE SHE…” Sis, here’s the key to happiness. Let the man be the man. If you insist on leading, chasing, doing, then he will either slide into his feminine or he will leave.

Marrying a “bad boy with a heart of gold” is not for everyone. But for me, there’s no one more 💘 romantic. Here’s some ...
08/18/2026

Marrying a “bad boy with a heart of gold” is not for everyone. But for me, there’s no one more 💘 romantic. Here’s some benefits to being with this type of man…

💛 He likes to have fun. Life with him is never boring.

💛 He is attentive, always making sure you’re feeling good, emotionally as well as physically.

💛 He’s easy on the eyes 🔥… which means other girls may be attracted to him, but his best smile is reserved for the woman he adores.

💛 He’s 😎 cool. He looks sxxy on a motorcycle.

💛 He’s not afraid of anything, including showing affection in public. He doesn’t care what people think.
(Obviously in our own little world when photos were being taken at the Toby Keith Tribute concert.)

💛 He’s adventurous. Life is meant to be lived to the fullest.

💛 He’s good in 🛏️. He’s passionate and up for anything 😜He loves and respects women. He started young and learned a lot along the way. He cares about your needs as much as his own.

💛 He is a provider. He takes care of you and anything else that comes up.

💛 You always feel safe knowing he can handle anything or anyone.

💛 He’s empathetic.
His childhood was extremely rough. Early adulthood wasn’t much better, so he understands how hard life can be.
He does what he can to help anyone going through💩.

💛 He’s not selfish or spoiled and he’s very down to earth.

💛 He’s loyal, sweet and caring.

💛 He’s a little wild, and pushes the limits, takes risks. Exciting!

💛 He’s intelligent, but also very Street smart. He can read people and situations, to spot danger easily. He’s resourceful and quick thinking.

💛 He’s romantic 🥰 He pays attention to what you like and creates special moments in everyday life.
He will dance you around the kitchen and make you feel beautiful, even when you’re a mess.
He will kiss your hand and make you melt.

💛 He adores his woman and shows it in everything he does.
He waited a very long time to find the love of his life and he wouldn’t dream of doing anything to lose her.

There’s plenty of cautionary tales about giving your heart to this type of man. Most will tell you to stay far away. To be completely transparent, you’re definitely taking a chance.

But if you find one that feels so right and aligns with you so well….

if he’s matured and worked on himself….

if he’s taken responsibility for his past and no longer does anything actually BAD…

if he treats you like gold…

if everyone in his world has great affection for him and you can tell they think he’s a good guy…

if you stay in your feminine energy, give him all the respect he deserves, trust and appreciate him….

he could turn out to be the best husband you could ever ask for.

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The Tribute band put on a good show. The singer does look like Toby Keith but unfortunately does not sound like him at all.

It was hot and humid and I didn’t really want to go. But he did, so I happily obliged.
We had a great time, and even danced up front, when no one else was up there.
It was also really nice to hang out with friends.

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