Gray Benko

Gray Benko Mother to two redheads. Lover of color. Host of Happy to Be Home on The Magnolia Network.

One week ago today, my baby became a teenager šŸ˜­ā¤ļø everyone told me how fast the years would go but it’s hard to grasp un...
08/31/2025

One week ago today, my baby became a teenager šŸ˜­ā¤ļø everyone told me how fast the years would go but it’s hard to grasp until it happens to you. I’ve spent the last week going through old photos and videos of my sweet Charlie Barley and am just overwhelmed with how lucky I am that God picked me to be his mom. I could not be more proud of his amazing, gentle soul, and I cannot wait to see what the next year has in store for him. In no particular order:
1. His first day of 7th grade 😭
2. Every year, on the night before their birthdays I ask them how old they are, until they fall asleep, so I can soak up every last second of their littleness. They pretend to hate it but they secretly love it.
3. My best cuddler.
4. The hardest sleeper you’ve ever met. One time I found him fast asleep, after falling onto the floor, with his feet still up on the bed.
5. Forever afraid of thunder.
6. The most handsome boy I’ve ever seen.
7. Never would admit to being on a date with his mom but butter knives to the face are fair game.
8. Loves his sister so hard.
9. My little philosopher.
10. Never met a boat he didn’t like.
11. His favorite game when he was little was to play pretend airplane in the hallway with his sister and me.
12. His second favorite game was ā€œfeet airplaneā€. He would make me do it over and over again until my legs gave out.
13. Always frustrated with Alexa, like the rest of us.
14. I can’t think of a single shenanigan he won’t get into.
15. Messiest eater on the planet.
16. Loved his great grandmother so hard. He was always so gentle with her.
17. Same with babies.
18. My literal twin.
19. The way he used to say ā€œready, steady, goā€ 🄹
20. The day after he was born ā¤ļø I don’t think I’ve ever seen a prettier baby.

It’s Friday night and you know what that meansssss šŸ¾šŸ’ƒšŸŖ©šŸø JK seconds after I took this photo I put on my sweats, slippers,...
08/02/2025

It’s Friday night and you know what that meansssss šŸ¾šŸ’ƒšŸŖ©šŸø JK seconds after I took this photo I put on my sweats, slippers, granny panties, started sipping on my magnesium, and did a puzzle by myself. #šŸ‘µšŸ»

Farris just got back home from spending four weeks at . This camp holds such a special place in my heart. It’s where I w...
07/31/2025

Farris just got back home from spending four weeks at . This camp holds such a special place in my heart. It’s where I went as a child, where my sister went, and my mom was even a counselor there when she was a young girl. It holds so many of my childhood memories and I was beyond ecstatic to send Farris there this summer. Four weeks is a long time so I was anxiously stalking the daily photo albums, multiple times a day, looking for her smiling face (sharing some of them here). When her time there came to an end, I drove to NC, jumped out of the car to hug her, and she soon relayed to me that she had just had the best summer of her life. She’s already making her plans to go back next year and I can’t even begin to tell you how happy it makes me that we get to have this amazing shared experience ā¤ļø Scroll through to the end to see a photo of me there, wearing the same Sunday attire that they have always worn, over 20 years ago šŸ˜‚

Ps- she might actually kill me for sharing the 7th photo but it made me lol when I saw it. Every summer (even back when I was a camper) they take the camp on a trip to Sliding Rock. It’s always a favorite for 99% of the campers but I HATED it because the water is FREEZING and it’s clear Farris felt the same šŸ˜‚ she told me later that she was about to slide down with a group of friends, when she chickened out at the last minute, tried to stand up to leave, and accidentally fell and slid the whole way down by herself šŸ˜‚

Proof that even a builder basic home can feel special with a little bit of paint, the right wallpaper, and a sprinkle of...
07/14/2025

Proof that even a builder basic home can feel special with a little bit of paint, the right wallpaper, and a sprinkle of antiques. I questioned and second guessed myself to death over if this wallpaper/paint combination was the right choice but I am SO glad that I trusted my gut and took a chance. This house is finally starting to feel like home 🧔 Scroll for the before!
Wallpaper is our very own Nana’s Kitchen in Auburn.

Turns out I have a type: sustainably made, ridiculously good-looking, and not afraid of a bold print.Swipe to meet some ...
06/20/2025

Turns out I have a type: sustainably made, ridiculously good-looking, and not afraid of a bold print.
Swipe to meet some of my favorite scene-stealers from .

The Tailored Tuxedo Sofas in citrine cabana? Like sunshine in a classy pinstripe suit.
The Blush Linen Accent Chair? She’s a lady.
This Skirted Track Arm Sofa in woodland print? Basically nature, without the bugs.

Incredibly comfortable, wrapped in quality fabrics, and covered in prints that feel custom (because they kind of are).
Highly recommend sitting on them. Or just staring lovingly. Either works.
Use code GRAY50 for $50 off orders of $150+!

Releasing my own wallpaper/fabric line has been a dream of mine for 3+ years.  This past month,  and I made both of our ...
05/15/2025

Releasing my own wallpaper/fabric line has been a dream of mine for 3+ years. This past month, and I made both of our dreams a reality. I’m so excited to give you a closer look at our first wallpaper release! Seven patterns, each with 3+ color ways! Head to www.graybenkohome.com to order your samples! Which one is your favorite??
In order of appearance:
1- Partial group photo
2- Strawberry Fields
3- Can’t Keep It Straight
4. Mary Lennox
5. Pati
6. Flora
7. Nana’s Kitchen
8. Piper, Nooooo

Link in my bio.

Guysssss! I did a thing and I’m so incredibly nervous/excited to tell you about it!  and I have spent the last several m...
05/07/2025

Guysssss! I did a thing and I’m so incredibly nervous/excited to tell you about it! and I have spent the last several months working on this new adventure for . We have obsessed, meticulously, over every detail of it in order to get it to where we wanted it to be and now it is finally time to let it out into the world and see what happens! We could not be more thrilled with it and we just hope that you all love it as much as we do! This feels a little like showing up to class naked but here goes nothing! Introducing…’s very own wallpaper/fabric line! Our entire first collection is officially available for order on the website! Seven wallpaper patterns, each with two coordinating fabrics, in multiple color ways. Eeeeek! Link in my bio.

When  asked to collaborate, we cleared our calendar faster than our clients say ā€œactually, I’ve been looking on Pinteres...
04/23/2025

When asked to collaborate, we cleared our calendar faster than our clients say ā€œactually, I’ve been looking on Pinterest...ā€ This Rowan Canopy Bed has the presence of sophistication but at a price point that won’t force you to skip your vacation. Win-win.

Their fabric library made our decision paralysis look professional—we call it ā€œthorough sourcingā€ when we spend three hours comparing options.

What our clients don’t know: this bed withstood our team sprawling across it post-installation (professional testing, obviously). Historic homes meet modern durability in this Interior Define x Gray Benko Home mashup—because nothing says ā€œsophisticated adultā€ quite like a four-poster bed that can handle your kid’s impromptu trampoline sessions.
Make sure to use code GRAY20 for 20% off of your purchase!

I recently had the great fortune to go on a trip to India with  and, let me tell you, it was the experience of a lifetim...
04/10/2025

I recently had the great fortune to go on a trip to India with and, let me tell you, it was the experience of a lifetime. We got to see things I never thought I would be able to see (The Taj Mahal at sunrise…how???), meet the most incredible artisans, immerse ourselves in the beautiful culture, eat the most delicious food, and make wonderful new friends along the way. I am still pinching myself and processing all of the unbelievable experiences we were able to squeeze into our time there. I will never forget it.

This was ’s first annual Kala Yatra trip and I was so lucky to be able to attend. Kala Yatra translates to mean ā€œartistic journeyā€ and it more than lived up to it’s name. I left India feeling more inspired than I have ever been in my life. If you have a love for art, design, or just want to have an incredible travel experience, then this is something you truly do not want to miss. I am strongly considering going back next year because I think I left a piece of my heart behind ā¤ļø

2026 dates are Feb 6th-12th and I’ll put a link to sign up in my bio! If you’ve been looking for a reason to visit India, this is 100% it.

I have had so many people messaging me and asking when I am going to share photos of whatever amazing new historic home ...
02/28/2025

I have had so many people messaging me and asking when I am going to share photos of whatever amazing new historic home I decided to buy. The truth is that this house is far from that. This is a brand new house with white walls, an open floor plan, builder grade everything, and ceiling fans (gasp). This house is also the beginning of a new chapter for me. This house is me getting back on my feet. This house is a pause. A chance for me to catch my breath and exhale for a while. This house is most likely temporary but I am going to try my very best to make it my own. It’s also half the size of my old house and has exactly zero shelves so trying to stuff all of our belongings inside of it has been interesting (as demonstrated in this photo). I am beyond exhausted, my shoes are still somewhere in the pile of boxes and bags in the garage, I’m pretty sure I lost all of Charlie’s clothes in the move, but I have my babies and I have my pink sofa, so I am home šŸ  ā¤ļø

When we first moved into this house, I always dreamed of seeing it blanketed in a cloud of white at Christmastime. I als...
02/13/2025

When we first moved into this house, I always dreamed of seeing it blanketed in a cloud of white at Christmastime. I also thought this would be my forever home. I spent the time that we had here making it our own. I poured so much of myself into every aspect of it’s design. So many hours peering through the wavy glass from my favorite perch in the living room. It’s 200+ year old walls became my friends; it’s ghost stories felt like family. The time we spent here was full of laughter and tears, celebrations and heartbreaks. I watched my children grow here. I loved them so hard here. So many memories will be left behind. Some beautiful and some painful, but mostly beautiful. I will miss so many things about this place. I’ll miss the cozy nights spent cuddled up with my babies in front of the fire. I’ll miss the old oak tree in the corner of the property (I’ve heard it told that it’s the second oldest living thing this side of The Mississippi) and that peaceful illusion that walking into the back yard creates, like you’re all alone in the world. I’ll miss the old fig tree in the side yard that bore so much incredible fruit for us over the years. I’ll miss the way the floor boards creak beneath my feet. I’ll miss my amazing neighbors who have loved us so well. I’ll miss the sounds of my children playing in the pool. This house was so much more than just a house to me and it will forever have my heart. However, I know it’s time to move on. The kids and I are starting a new chapter next month and I have to believe it will be even more beautiful than the last one. I’m so thankful for the time we have had here and so glad I finally got to see it blanketed in snow šŸ¤

It has been stated by my 15-year-old daughter and also some bored people on the internet that I dress like I’m from Litt...
02/12/2025

It has been stated by my 15-year-old daughter and also some bored people on the internet that I dress like I’m from Little House on the Prairie. To them, all I have to say is ā€œEat your heart out Laura Ingallsā€ šŸ„”šŸ‘āœØ

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