
07/25/2025
HERE’S REAL HOPE FOR THE FAMILY
To know and serve the Lord effectively it’s of paramount importance to understand His heart on a matter.
In a world where the family has become so disarrayed, disjointed and dysfunctional, it seemed a good exercise to get back to God’s Word to rediscover what God’s wonderful plan for the family actually is. For this is the only hope for the health and survival of the treasured institution we call “the family”.
[NOTE: Just today I discovered a translation I had never seen before, the NIRV. I liked it so much I used it for the vast majority of text references.]
#1 GOD INVENTED THE FAMILY, AND KNOWS HOW IT’S MEANT TO THRIVE!
“So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. Then God blessed them, and God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.’ ” Gen. 1:27-28
#2 GOD SPARED A REMNANT FAMILY FROM THE JUDGMENT OF THE FLOOD!
“Then the LORD said to Noah, ‘Come into the ark, you and ALL YOUR HOUSEHOLD, because I have seen that you are righteous before Me in this generation.’ ” Gen. 7:1
#3 GOD PROVIDENTIALLY INTERVENED TO SPARE THE LIFE OF MOSES & HIS FAMILY!
“Then the king of Egypt spoke to the Hebrew midwives … and he said, ‘When you do the duties of a midwife for the Hebrew women, and see them on the birthstools, if it is a son, then you shall kill him; but if it is a daughter, then she shall live.” But the midwives feared God, and did not do as the king of Egypt commanded them, but saved the male children alive.” Exo. 1:15-17
Moses Is Born
“And a man of the house of Levi went and took as wife a daughter of Levi. So the woman conceived and bore a son. And when she saw that he was a beautiful child, she hid him three months. 3 But when she could no longer hide him, she took an ark of bulrushes for him, daubed it with asphalt and pitch, put the child in it, and laid it in the reeds by the river’s bank. And his sister stood afar off, to know what would be done to him.
Then the daughter of Pharaoh came down to bathe at the river. And her maidens walked along the riverside; and when she saw the ark among the reeds, she sent her maid to get it. And when she opened it, she saw the child, and behold, the baby wept. So she had compassion on him, and said, ‘This is one of the Hebrews’ children.’
Then his sister said to Pharaoh’s daughter, ‘Shall I go and call a nurse for you from the Hebrew women, that she may nurse the child for you?’ And Pharaoh’s daughter said to her, ‘Go.’ So the maiden went and called the child’s mother. Then Pharaoh’s daughter said to her, ‘Take this child away and nurse him for me, and I will give you your wages.’ So the woman took the child and nursed him. And the child grew, and she brought him to Pharaoh’s daughter, and he became her son. So she called his name Moses, saying, ‘Because I drew him out of the water.’ Exodus 2:1-10
#4 GOD ESTABLISHED LAWS THAT INSURED THAT A FAMILY’S NAME & POSTERITY WOULD BE PRESERVED & CARRIED ON!
“But if the man does not want to take his brother’s wife, then let his brother’s wife go up to the gate to the elders, and say, ‘My husband’s brother refuses to raise up a name to his brother in Israel; he will not perform the duty of my husband’s brother.’ Then the elders of his city shall call him and speak to him. But if he stands firm and says, ‘I do not want to take her,’ then his brother’s wife shall come to him in the presence of the elders, remove his sandal from his foot, spit in his face, and answer and say, ‘So shall it be done to the man who will not build up his brother’s house.’ And his name shall be called in Israel, ‘The house of him who had his sandal removed.’ Deut. 25:7-10
“Then Boaz said, ‘On the day you buy the field from the hand of Naomi, you must also buy it from Ruth the Moabitess, the wife of the dead, to perpetuate the name of the dead through his inheritance.’ ”
And the close relative said, ‘I cannot redeem it for myself, lest I ruin my own inheritance. You redeem my right of redemption for yourself, for I cannot redeem it.’
Now this was the custom in former times in Israel concerning redeeming and exchanging, to confirm anything: one man took off his sandal and gave it to the other, and this was a confirmation in Israel.
Therefore the close relative said to Boaz, ‘Buy it for yourself.’ So he took off his sandal. And Boaz said to the elders and all the people, ‘You are witnesses this day that … Ruth the Moabitess, the widow of Mahlon, I have acquired as my wife, to perpetuate the name of the dead through his inheritance, that the name of the dead may not be cut off from among his brethren and from his position at the gate. You are witnesses this day.” Ruth 4:5-10
#5 GOD DELIGHTS IN SAVING ENTIRE FAMILIES!
A. God Saved Rahab’s Entire Household!
“But Joshua had said to the two men who had spied out the country, ‘Go into the harlot’s house, and from there bring out the woman and all that she has, as you swore to her.’ And the young men who had been spies went in and brought out Rahab, her father, her mother, her brothers, and all that she had. So they brought out all her relatives and left them outside the camp of Israel. But they burned the city and all that was in it with fire… And Joshua spared Rahab the harlot, her father’s HOUSEHOLD, and all that she had. So she dwells in Israel to this day, because she hid the messengers whom Joshua sent to spy out Jericho.” Josh. 6:22-35
B. God Saved Cornelius’ Entire Household!
Peter preached Christ to Cornelius’ Household, which included all the household servants as well as Cornelius Extended Family.
“The word which God sent to the children of Israel, preaching peace through Jesus Christ—He is Lord of all… God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Spirit and with power, who went about doing good and healing all who were oppressed by the devil… whom they killed by hanging on a tree. Him God raised up on the third day, and showed Him openly … to testify that it is He who was ordained by God to be Judge of the living and the dead. To Him all the prophets witness that, through His name, whoever believes in Him will receive remission of sins’ … While Peter was still speaking these words, the Holy Spirit fell upon all those who heard the Word. Then Peter answered, ‘Can anyone forbid water, that these should not be baptized who have received the Holy Spirit just as we have?’ And he commanded them to be baptized in the name of the Lord. Then they asked him to stay a few days.” Acts 10:38-46
C. GOD SAVED A GOVERNMENT EMPLOYEE’S ENTIRE HOUSEHOLD!
Paul preached Christ to the Philippian Jailer’s entire Household, which included all the household servants as well as Cornelius’ Extended Family.
“And the (head guard) of the prison, awaking from sleep and seeing the prison doors open, supposing the prisoners had fled, drew his sword and was about to kill himself. But Paul called with a loud voice, saying, ‘Do yourself no harm, for we are all here.’
Then he called for a light, ran in, and fell down trembling before Paul and Silas. And he brought them out and said, ‘Sirs, what must I do to be saved?’
So they said, ‘Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you AND YOUR HOUSEHOLD.’ Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all who were in his house… And immediately HE AND ALL HIS FAMILY WERE BAPTIZED … Now when he had brought them into his house, he set food before them; and he rejoiced, having BELIEVED IN GOD WITH ALL HIS HOUSEHOLD.” Acts 16:27-34
#6 GOD LOOKS AFTER THE NEEDS OF THOSE WHO MAY NEED A FAMILY AND A PLACE TO CALL HOME!
“God sets the solitary in families.” Psa. 68:6
“Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit ORPHANS and WIDOWS in their trouble” James 1:27
“But suppose a widow has children or grandchildren. They should first learn to put their faith into practice. They should CARE FOR THEIR OWN FAMILY. In that way they will pay back their parents and grandparents. That pleases God.” 1 Tim. 5:4, NIRV
#7 GOD HAS ORDAINED PARENTS TO PROVIDE FOR THEIR FAMILIES.
“But if anyone does not PROVIDE FOR HIS OWN, and especially for those OF HIS HOUSEHOLD, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” 1 Tim. 5:8
“If any believing man or woman has widows, LET THEM RELIEVE THEM, and do not let the church be burdened, that it may relieve those who are really widows.” 1 Tim. 5:16
“She also rises while it is yet night, and provides food for her HOUSEHOLD, and a portion for her maidservants.” Pro. 31:15
“That the older women likewise, be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things— that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, HOMEMAKERS, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.” Tit. 2:3-5
#8 GOD USES THE ALREADY DEVELOPED NETWORK OF TRUSTING RELATIONSHIPS AMONG FAMILY AND FRIENDS AS A NATURAL PLACE TO EVANGELIZE.
“Jesus was getting into the boat. The man who had been controlled by demons begged to go with him. Jesus did not let him. He said, ‘GO HOME to your own people. Tell them how much the Lord has done for you. Tell them how kind he has been to you.’ ” Mark 5:18-19, NIRV
“The next day John was there again with two of his disciples. He saw Jesus walking by. John said, ‘Look! The Lamb of God!’ The two disciples heard him say this. So they followed Jesus.
Andrew was Simon Peter’s brother. Andrew was one of the two disciples who heard what John had said. He had also followed Jesus. The first thing Andrew did was to FIND HIS BROTHER Simon. He told him, ‘We have found the Messiah. Messiah means Christ. And he brought Simon to Jesus.”
“The next day Jesus decided to leave for Galilee. He found Philip and said to him, ‘Follow me.’
Philip was from the town of Bethsaida. So were Andrew and Peter. Philip found Nathanael and told him, ‘We have found the one whom Moses wrote about in the Law. The prophets also wrote about him. He is Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph.’
‘Nazareth! Can anything good come from there?’ Nathanael asked. ‘Come and see,’ said Philip.
Jesus saw Nathanael approaching. Here is what Jesus said about him. ‘He is a true Israelite. Nothing about him is false.’
‘How do you know me?’ Nathanael asked.
Jesus answered, ‘I saw you while you were still under the fig tree. I saw you there before Philip called you.’
Nathanael replied, ‘Rabbi, you are the Son of God. You are the king of Israel.’ John 1:35-37 ; 40-42; 43-49
#9 GOD USES THE RELATIONSHIPS IN CHRISTIAN FAMILIES TO EVANGELIZE & DISCIPLE GENERATIONS TO COME.
“I thank God, whom I serve as did our people of long ago. I serve God, knowing that what I have done is right. Night and day I thank God for you. Night and day I always remember you in my prayers. I remember your tears. I long to see you so that I can be filled with joy. I remember your honest and true faith. It was alive first IN YOUR GRANDMOTHER Lois and IN YOUR MOTHER Eunice. And I am certain that it IS NOW ALIVE IN YOU ALSO.” 2 Tim. 1:3-7
I want you to continue to follow what you have learned and are sure about. You know the people you learned it from. You have known the Holy Scriptures ever since you were a little child. They are able to teach you how to be saved by believing in Christ Jesus.” 2 Tim.3:15
#10 GOD USES THE FAMILIES & HOMES AND OF BELIEVERS TO GATHER & GROW CONVERTS.
“Greet Apelles. He remained faithful to Christ even when he was tested. Greet those who live in the home of Aristobulus. Greet Herodion, my fellow Jew. Greet the believers who live in the home of Narcissus.” Rom. 16:10 – 11
“Greet Priscilla and Aquila. Greet those who live in the home of Onesiphorus.” 2 Tim. 4:19
#11 GOD HAS DESIGNED THE FAMILY TO BE ORDERLY IN TERMS OF ROLES AND RESPONSIBILITIES.
“Wives, follow the lead of your own husbands as you follow the Lord … Husbands, love your wives. Love them just as Christ loved the church ... A husband also must love his wife. He must love her just as he loves himself. And a wife must respect her husband.
Children, obey your parents as believers in the Lord. Obey them because it’s the right thing to do. Scripture says, ‘Honor your father and mother.’ That is the first commandment that has a promise. ‘Then things will go well with you. You will live a long time on the earth.’ Fathers, don’t make your children angry. Instead, instruct them and teach them the ways of the Lord as you raise them.” Eph. 5:22-6:4
# 12 THE PROVING GROUND FOR CHURCH LEADERS IS THE FAMILY. GOD USES THE OBEDIENT LIVES OF CHURCH OFFICERS TO LEAD CHURCH FAMILIES BY EXAMPLE.
“Here is a saying you can trust. If anyone wants to be a leader in the church, they want to do a good work for God and people … He must be faithful to his wife ... He must be worthy of respect. He must welcome people into his home… He must manage his own family well. He must make sure that his children obey him. And he must do this in a way that gains him respect ... An elder must be without blame. He must be faithful to his wife. His children must be believers. They must not give anyone a reason to say that they are wild and don’t obey.” 1 Tim. 3:1-4 ; Tit.1:6
# 13 GOD WANTS THE CHRISTIAN HOME TO BE PROTECTED AGAINST FALSE TEACHERS & FALSE TEACHING.
“Suppose someone comes to you and doesn’t teach these truths. Then don’t take them into your house or welcome them.” 2 John 1:10
“I, the elder, am writing this letter. I am sending it to the lady chosen by God and to her children.
Many people have tried to fool others. These people have gone out into the world. They don’t agree that Jesus Christ came in a human body. People like this try to trick others. These people are like the great enemy of Christ. Watch out that you don’t lose what we have worked for. Make sure that you get your full reward. Suppose someone thinks they know more than we do. So they don’t follow Christ’s teaching. Then that person doesn’t belong to God. But whoever follows Christ’s teaching belongs to the Father and the Son. Suppose someone comes to you and doesn’t teach these truths. Then don’t take them into your house or welcome them. Anyone who welcomes them shares in their evil work.” 2 John 1-11
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