12/13/2022
Keep experiencing the same thing with every person you date? Always attract the crazy people? Or angry people? Always find yourself with the same emotions and results in your relationships?
This might help:
When it comes to relationships of any kind (not just romantic) the patterns people often repeat, are patterns they developed very young. These patterns are based off of and developed through experiences with various relationships we see and/or are a part of from a very young age. These experiences form our internal models and attachment style. This would include Experiences with one or more of the following: the caretaker(s)/child, caretaker/caretaker, and sometimes can even be heavily impacted by child/teacher relationships in early years of schooling. Any time a negative pattern in relationships exist, it’s a two part issue. Each person has their own attachment style and models that were developed. They’re almost always a match. Meaning the fundamental emotional state, or “feeling” is reinforced from one to the other. To address the problem, you have to recognize what your patterns are and take accountability for addressing them. Or you’ll repeat the same thing over and over.