Epitome of Living, Temecula, CA (2026)

07/27/2023

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05/04/2022

Wine tasting experience in Temecula, California is loads of fun.
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We started off with an early morning at 5:45am in a hot air balloon ride overlooking the beautiful vineyards. We enjoyed champagne in the sky, saw coyotes and rabbits, and watched the sunrise over the hills.
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We met with our host around 10:30 at Maurice Carrie Winery and it was all downhill from there. JK. We started wine tasting right away and hopped on our private limousine party bus and were greeted with Mimosas. Yes there was a pole and music 🙃
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We hit 3 different wineries, don't ask me which ones but I remember seeing an alpaca and some goats. This was about a 4 hour tour. The photography comes with the tour also. The cost was a little less than $300 but I know it can vary. We used which I would recommend to anyone thinking about a trip out to Temecula.
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Thanks again Jules for setting it up and to these wild mofos who made this day special and full of laughs.

05/03/2022

What advice would you give to your younger self? Tell me in the comments.

-Success isn’t having tons of money, it’s waking up happy.

-No degree of education or career title will bring you as much fulfillment as love does. Continue to strive to the top, but it will not you won’t find fulfillment if you’re there alone. Take time to Invest in building/nurturing meaningful relationships.

-Be kind to yourself. Love and support yourself the way your best friend does, unconditionally.

-Don’t let negativity stunt your growth. I’ve never met a hater doing better than someone they’re hating on. This is just a reflection of deep seeded issues stemming from dissatisfaction with oneself. Be happy you’re not in that position.

-Failure is just feedback. Don’t be afraid to take risks. Some of the best stories come from taking chances. It’s part of the journey

-Focus on your strengths. You don’t have to be great at everything, just be creative with your work arounds and know when to seek help.

-There is no shortcut to the best things in life.

-You May not be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s ok. Focus on bringing value to those who find inspiration in you.

So this is 36? In just a Years time, I’ve grown so much. It’s been quite the emotional roller coaster but I’m in a better place now than ever.

I want to thank everyone who was able to celebrate my birthday this past month and even for those who couldn’t be here, I know you’re there in spirit.

I especially want to thank my person, who made everything happen. I am exceptionally terrible at planning. Definitely one of my biggest flaws. I’m an ideas person. But the details tend to be made up on the go. Luckily for me, I have someone who fills in those gaps. Love you

04/29/2022

There are only two reasons I go to LA; the airport and The Magic Castle.

This is one of my favorite things to do in LA and I highly recommend a visit here. So what is it? The Magic Castle is a unique venue where talented magicians from all over the world come to perform. You start off the night with a fancy dinner then, you can explore the castle and have various options of performers to check out in several different rooms. You can stop at a bar in between shows and even the bartenders have amazing performances. They often get the audience to participate which is so fun. I've been many times and they never cease to amaze me.

The venue has very strict rules. No inside photography and you must meet their dress code requirements. Evening gowns and formal wear. I love an excuse to dress up 🥰 Men must have a tie and jacket. If not, they will provide you with a ridiculously oversized one 😅 I've seen it happen and it's entertaining.

There is a catch. You cannot just reserve a night here. This is an exclusive venue and you have to be invited. How do you get in?
1. You need to be invited by a member or magician.
2. If there’s a performer you want to see, You can look at the list of upcoming magicians on the website and kindly reach out to try to get on their guestlist.
3. You can book a stay at the Magic Castle Hotel which is next door to get tickets.
4. You can Apply to be a member (I heard you must audition).

This is one of my favorite experiences in LA. Have you been to yet?

04/26/2022

If you hear something enough times, you will start to believe it. What you expose yourself to has a huge impact on your mental well-being. Your mindset determines your ability to be successful. That's why affirmations are so effective.
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These quotes are from my favorite peloton instructor . Waking up every morning, I start my day with a ride and she is always bringing this level of motivation that just inspires you to let go of excuses, take control of your life, and be the best you.

Surround yourself with inspiration and motivation.
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03/25/2022

Have you ever been disappointed by someone? Maybe even feel hurt, deceived, or betrayed?

The younger me would find every reason to place blame on the other person. But assuming the victim role makes you feel powerless and never solves anything. So now I reflect on the role that I played and what lessons I could take away.

I’ll share some points from a chapter in Jay Shetty's book "Think Like a Monk".

The fact is you cannot control people. Not their behaviors, their values, their feelings…

A mistake often made is we assume that everyone operates the way we do. We believe they value what we value and what we want in a relationship is what they want. When we think everyone is a reflection of ourselves, we fail to see the reality as it is.

The feelings of disappointment happen when your expectations aren’t met. It’s important to set realistic expectations based on what they actually give you, not what you want them to give you or what they say they will give you. Remember, We learn more about a person from behaviors than promises.

Trusting everyone and trusting no one are two extremes that will leave you hurt. Most of us are somewhere in the middle but sometimes we trust people too easily and for the wrong reasons. We give too much trust when we like or are attracted to someone but rather, our trust should correspond to our actual experience with them. Not their likability or appeal.

Be mindful and observe behaviors. When people show you who they are, believe them. Trust is earned, not owed. As the poem goes, “people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime”. The role they play in your life may not be the role you play in theirs.

Sometimes it takes more strength to let go than it does to hold on.

02/27/2022

I'll be honest, I don't actually read much. I listen to audiobooks on 1.5-2x speed. It's the only way to keep my attention. Nonetheless, thought I'd share some of my favorite books from the past year with you. Let me know if you've read these. What are you reading now?

02/23/2022

Listen to your heart ❤️
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Chasing my passion is what has gotten me to where I am today. But any level of success in life doesn’t come without hurdles. Lately, I’ve shared some vulnerable and personal struggles and a few responses I’ve gotten are “you don’t seem like you have ___” (ADHD, self esteem issues, etc).
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What this means to me is either people don’t understand what ADHD entails and/or on social media we concentrate too much on wins and not enough about the sacrifices and failures we endure to get there. The journey is just as, if not more important than the outcome.
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We all come against obstacles that push us down. But when your passion drives you to a goal, you don’t let failed attempts keep you down. You learn, get up, and move forward. Never quit.
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02/22/2022

We were all born into this world dependent on another human being to survive. Our strengths as human beings are at it's greatest when we work together and lift each other up. So why is it that we are so resistant to asking for help when we need it? Is it pride? Fear of vulnerability? Feelings of inadequacy?

Here are a few things to keep in mind:
1. Society pushes the idea that success is independently driven. But this does not mean you have to "tough out" every obstacle on your own. Getting help in areas of weakness is being resourceful and much more efficient than trying to learn to be good at everything and handling it all on your own.

2. Asking for help is a STRENGTH. To have the self-awareness and acknowledgement of your limitations puts you a step ahead of most others. If you can't recognize where you need help, you will have a harder time trying to figure out a solution to a problem you can't identify.

3. Too many people allow their pride to get in their way and assume they can "handle it." If you are in a position where you are stressed and overwhelmed and it starts affecting your relationships or you overreact to something you normally wouldn't, are you really handling it? Don't wait until you've reacted in a way you will regret before you seek help.

4. It takes more courage to step out of your comfort zone and ask for help than it does to let fear of judgement stunt your growth. Many people are too fearful to reach out for help because of what they perceive it means to them. They can be paralyzed by their own ego, fear of vulnerability, or feeling like a burden. It takes bravery to not only acknowledge that you need help, but to ask for it.

The only person that can get in the way of your personal growth and success is you.

02/19/2022

One year ago, I experienced subzero temperatures for the first time, taking a trip to a winter destination. I went to Alaska when it was -20F!!! This little Cali girl learned alot about surviving the winter.

With a bit of help from the wonderful community on this platform, I was given great advice on a must-have list of clothes to bring and this worked out wonderfully.

-- I learned that snow could be so dry that you cannot make a snowball (so we didn't get to have snowball fights).
-- People living off the grid may not have running water because the pipes freeze so they have to collect and store gallons of water in a reservoir each week.
-- During the winter solstice, the shortest daylight hours can range from 3.5-6ish hours.
-- The northern lights aren't always visible by the eye, sometimes more easily seen through a camera
-- 75% of the state is inaccessible by car, including the state capital, Juneau.

It's interesting to see just how different life is on this side of the world. But the best part was all the fun winter activities: dog sledding, ice fishing, snowmobiling, glacier climbing, exploring nature. Check out my Youtube Vlog on my trip to Alaska, Link in bio.

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