10/19/2025
I spent an hour at the bank with my dad today. He needed to transfer some money, and as we waited in line, I couldn’t help myself.
“Dad,” I said, “why don’t we just activate your internet banking?”
He looked at me curiously and asked, “Why would I do that?”
I smiled, ready to convince him. “Well, it would save you so much time! You wouldn’t have to stand in line or come all the way here. You could transfer money, pay bills, even shop for groceries — all from your phone. Everything would be so easy!”
I was proud of myself for bringing him into the modern world, excited to show him how convenient life could be with just a few clicks.
He was quiet for a moment. Then he asked softly, “If I do that, does that mean I won’t have to leave the house anymore?”
I laughed. “Exactly, Dad! You can do everything from home now. You’d never have to step out for errands again.”
What he said next made me stop talking altogether.
He said, “Son, since I walked into this bank today, I have met four of my old friends. I chatted with the staff, people who have known me for years. You know I live alone now. This… this is my company. I enjoy getting ready, going out, seeing faces that smile back at me.”
I just sat there, listening quietly.
He went on, “Two years ago when I fell sick, the man who sells me fruits every week came to visit me. He sat by my bed and cried. A few days ago, when your mom slipped during her morning walk, our local grocer saw her and rushed her home in his car. He knew where we lived because we talk, we connect. Tell me, would I have that kind of human touch if everything I did was online?”
I didn’t know what to say.
He looked at me with kind eyes and added, “Why would I want to live in a world where everything is delivered to my door but no one really knows me? I don’t just want to buy from a seller. I want to know the person behind the counter. It creates relationships. It makes life feel real. Tell me, does Amazon deliver that too?”
And at that moment, I understood.
Technology can make life faster, but it can never replace the warmth of a smile, a conversation, or a familiar face.
Spend time with people, not just with devices. Because one day, those small human connections might mean more than all the convenience in the world. ❤️