09/16/2026
“He had his hands in the air, and he wasn’t safe.”
On the red carpet at the Terence Crutcher Foundation’s 10th Anniversary Memorial Gala, the Rev. Joey Crutcher recalled the moment that forever changed his family’s life.
On Sept. 16, 2016, Rev. Crutcher was waiting for his son at Antioch Baptist Church. Terence had begun a music appreciation class at Tulsa Community College and was supposed to meet him afterward.
Instead, Rev. Crutcher received the devastating news that Terence had been shot and killed by a Tulsa police officer.
Rev. Crutcher had taught his son—and generations of young Black boys—to raise their hands during encounters with police so officers could see they were unarmed.
“He had his hands in the air because that’s what I used to teach the young boys about interacting with the police,” he told The Black Wall Street Times. “Let them see your hands, and you’ll be safe. He had his hands in the air, and he wasn’t safe.”
Ten years later, the Crutcher family continues to carry an unimaginable loss while ensuring Terence’s life is remembered through advocacy, service and investment in North Tulsa.
“Ten years later, we have kept Terence’s name alive,” Rev. Crutcher said.
We remember Terence Crutcher—not simply for how his life was taken, but for the father, son, brother, student and beloved member of the community he was.