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I Am Madison Xarlista Luxury Xpat Lifestyler / Author / Sharing the Wisdom of My Life Experiences Madison Xarlista here. I am a tremendous advocate for the holistic wellness industry.

Holistic therapies helped me to reverse a diagnosis of advanced cervical cancer with a prognosis of 3-6 months. That was in in 2002. I was so inspired by my healing experience that I got certified by I-ACT and became a colonic therapist. I then went on to earn my PhD in Naturopathic medicine. I wrote a book about my wellness journey and toured the US sharing my story. I leveraged my business acume

n from my work experience in corporate America - capitalizing on my understanding to buy / transform / sell wellness spas at a profit. Over the last decade, I have worked in other industries utilizing AI and have experienced firsthand how AI technology has supported client retention and expanded the outreach of new clients. At the updated writing of this profile, February 2025, we are experiencing some very unusual and rapidly evolving times. The stress of everyday living is ushering a call for leaders in the holistic wellness industry to step up and lean into the technological advancements of AI to better support their clients as well as the business itself. I am returning to my calling to work with my fellow holistic healing artists and leaders in the holistic wellness industry. We are going to be needed now more than any other time to support humanity. My purpose is to help our leaders leverage AI technology within our industry.

TWO THINGS CAN BE TRUE AT THE SAME TIME - I Am …There have been many people experience me in various facets of my life. ...
29/05/2026

TWO THINGS CAN BE TRUE AT THE SAME TIME - I Am …

There have been many people experience me in various facets of my life. So, when you hear someone say, “Madison is a pure BITCH.”
And then you also hear someone else say, “Madison had such a powerful impact on my life.”
Believe them both.
This is the example that two things can be true at the same time because, even my dual personalities have dual personalities.

Depending on the reality of where you enter or exit my world and the energy you responsibly or irresponsibly bring with you, is all predicated on who / how you will meet Me … Me … Me … or Me.
This does not make me less authentic, but more so exemplifies my talent for adaptability. It is within the outward appearance of my contradiction that I Am merely responding to the environment around me.

In shadows of yesterdays, you may have quite possibly met me when I was in straight up survival mode and had to question everything and everyone around me as my hypervigilance had me on guard - On Guard because … the one closest to me was my faux amis dressed in a band on the third finger and fugazi Versace.

Now out of the darkness and into the light, you will meet me on any given day relishing in my flaneurs of pink champagne tickling my nose and caviar bumps deliciously licked from the crevice of my thumb somewhere along a riviera.

Both of these planes in time exist, yet neither one defines me and I am not required to show up the same. Every environment will require something different from me.

Energy has a language and I speak vibration in various frequencies.
To those who are my safe haven vs. those that audaciously think they are privileged to my rare air - differently will you receive what I give you in due measure.
I offer my light around respect, and I cast darkness to choke those who are intrusive.
I expand with those who listen, and I retreat from those who want to consume. That’s not inconsistency Dearheart - that’s me being fully aware.

I was not brought here to be a one dimensional being.
I am layered.
I am contextual.
I am ever evolving.

But here my dear is the even deeper truth … It matters not when you have met me or when you meet me, because the Truth of it all is this …

YOU ARE MEETING YOURSRLF IN MY PRESENCE.

You are meeting your greatness.
You are meeting your failures.
You are meeting your truth and all of your lies – whether you choose to be accountable to them or not.
You are meeting your capacity to hold nuance without needing control.

I had someone say to me recently that they felt like they were meeting a whole new version of me. What they were saying is that they encountered me during my decade plus of living in survival.
I am consistent in my values, not the expectations you are trying to project onto me.
So, if I lean in or step back, it is my truth in the moment.

I am the poster God of what it looks like to know thyself and know before whom you stand, even when the foundation beneath my feet begin to quake.
Still, I stand.

So, when you hear someone say, “Oh, she is a pure BITCH.”
And then you also hear someone else say, “She had such a powerful impact on my life.”
Believe them both.
This is the example of how two things can be true at the same time.

💛💜🖤

DON’T TAKE IT PERSONAL … ALTHOUGH IT FEELS PSRSONALI read this post and felt it all the way down in my shaanana …Your fa...
26/05/2026

DON’T TAKE IT PERSONAL … ALTHOUGH IT FEELS PSRSONAL

I read this post and felt it all the way down in my shaanana …

Your family and friends will ask you, “how’s your little coffee shop doing?” All the while, sipping from a fresh Starbucks cup.

💛💜🖤

NOT ALL HARM ANNOUNCES ITSELFNot everything that harms you ATTACKS you.Some people are poisonous there’s no bite, no sti...
04/05/2026

NOT ALL HARM ANNOUNCES ITSELF

Not everything that harms you ATTACKS you.

Some people are poisonous there’s no bite, no sting.
You’re affected simply by prolonged exposure:
Conversations, environments, patterns you absorb over time.
You feel confused, smaller, tired, but cannot point to a single wound.

The body knows before the mind names it.

Others are venomous … the harm is deliberate, sudden, and unmistakable.
They bite.
They inject intention.
Their harm is sudden, undeniable, and often rationalized as truth or love.
The shock awakens you.

Do not ask whether the harm was intentional.
Neither requires hatred.
Both require wisdom.
Wisdom is not just knowing the difference - It’s knowing when to remove yourself and when to defend yourself.

Grace does not mean endurance.
Love does not mean absorption.
Discernment is not judgment, it is stewardship of your life force.

You are not here to survive toxicity.

Poison teaches you to limit exposure.

Venom teaches you to set boundaries or bounce.

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12/04/2026

SO I WAS READING THE BIBLE AND …

Yes, I do read the Bible.
I do not interpret the writings in the same way as when I was “in the church” and lost, so many years ago. I read it now more for context and reference.

As I was in meditation this evening, I remembered the passage from Matthew 7: 13-14

“Enter through the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the road broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who go through it.
How narrow is the gate and difficult the road that leads to life, and few find it.”

I have emerged on the other side of the deepest spiritual healing excavation - digging deeper to heal yet Another layer of repressed emotional / spiritual / mental gunk.

Why?

I had to detox all the toxicity I allowed myself exposure to.
The detox was more than physical.
It was emotional / mental / spiritual.
It was necessary in order for me to actualize myself as GOD in this life.

When I was “in the life and life of the party”, I was around a lot of people.

When it was time to let go and lock in
on healing, I looked around and I found myself in the darkest void of NoThingness. No where and no one to turn to.
Not everyone can fit thru the gate that I Am destined to walk thru.

There are people that would rather walk around hurt than healed, because that’s just how tough it is digging down to the deepest of depths to heal.
But once you heal … BaaaBeee, you Pheonix a version of yourself that is UNFUXWITHABLE.
NO BODY can F*x with you. PERIODT.

You’re not weak.
You're just broken and baby,
anything broken can be fixed.

💛💜🖤

17/11/2025

PATTERNS SPEAK LOUDER THAN PROMISES

DON’T BE MY PEACE …Be at peace with yourself - so you don’t disturb mine.There will come a time when you will have to ma...
18/08/2025

DON’T BE MY PEACE …

Be at peace with yourself - so you don’t disturb mine.

There will come a time when you will have to make the decision to leave. The peace you tried to give or be for someone … baby take that peace with you.

You are not a rehab center. It is not your job to heal anyone. We are all responsible for Our Own healing.

Don’t worry about what it Looks like - DO the Work to BE it.
Peace.

The KING has spoken.

💛💜🖤

27/07/2025
SUFFERING FROM CPTSD?I am a survivor of advanced cervical cancer.I was given a prognosis of 6-12 months. That was in 200...
18/02/2025

SUFFERING FROM CPTSD?

I am a survivor of advanced cervical cancer.
I was given a prognosis of 6-12 months. That was in 2002.
I has to first release and heal from childhood emotional trauma.

I put myself in a situation for 15 years where I allowed my traumas to be retriggered - putting my health in crisis again.
I went from running 15 miles a week to barely able to walk.

I allowed myself to be emotionally manipulated to be in environments where I felt unwelcome and even sometimes unsafe.

Love should NEVER put you in situations of compromise for your mental / emotional / physical and Financial health. NEVER.

Know This … … … you cannot heak in the same environment that made you ill.

SiStar … ALWAYS remember …YOU are the GIFT of GOD.
19/01/2025

SiStar … ALWAYS remember …

YOU are the GIFT of GOD.

DisEase begins as EMotion
19/01/2025

DisEase begins as EMotion

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