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12/25/2025

Love having our whole crew together this Christmas! All the big kids are home! Cayla from Guam, Corey from VMI, Chris from Norfolk, and Collin from upstairs. ☺️ Merry Christmas to you and yours! 💚🤍❤️

12/24/2025

It’s interesting how certain seasons reveal what’s underneath the surface.

One of you is thinking about budgets, savings, and January.
The other is thinking about memories, generosity, and right now.

And neither is wrong.

The tension isn’t about money,
it’s about learning how to honor both security and celebration.

Because wisdom in marriage looks like this:
planning for the future without missing the joy of the present. ❤️

💬 During this season, do you lean more saver or spender — and how do you and your spouse navigate it together?

12/23/2025

The default of marriage isn’t connection.
It’s disconnection.

Not because you’re doing it wrong —
but because life happens, expectations collide, and disappointments go unspoken.

Most disconnection is tied to a disappointment we never learned how to talk about.
And if we can’t name what hurt us…
it’s really hard to find our way back to each other.

The good news?
Disconnection doesn’t have to be permanent.
It can be cleaned up. It can be repaired. ❤️

💬 What do you think causes the most disconnection in marriage — unspoken hurt, unmet expectations, or lack of communication?

🎧 Listen to the full conversation on this week’s episode at danache.com/podcast (link in bio)

12/22/2025

Holiday stress has a way of turning up the volume on things we’ve been avoiding all year.

Unspoken expectations.
Unclear boundaries.
Needs we never learned how to name.

The tension isn’t always about the holidays themselves —
it’s often about the conversations we never had.

And maybe this season isn’t just about getting through it…
maybe it’s an invitation to finally talk about what matters. ❤️

💛 If this resonates, pause for a moment and ask yourself:
What’s one conversation you’ve been avoiding that might bring relief instead of more stress?

12/20/2025

When you choose presence over presents,
something shifts.

The pressure fades.
The expectations soften.
And suddenly the holidays feel less about performance
and more about connection.

Moments become memories.
Time together becomes the gift.
And what once felt stressful starts to feel sacred. ❤️

✨ What helps you stay present during the holidays — or what tends to pull you away?
I’d love to hear in the comments.

12/18/2025

This is what real love-language conversations look like in marriage.

One of us is saying,
“Time together. Words of affirmation. Just write me a love letter — it’s free.” 💌

The other is saying,
“Giving is how I love. This is how my heart shows up.” 🎁

Neither is wrong.
Marriage isn’t just about asking for what you need —
it’s also about learning to value how your spouse naturally gives love.

Connection deepens when appreciation goes both ways. ❤️

💛 What’s your primary love language — and which one do you give most naturally?

🎧 Hear the full conversation on this week’s episode at danache.com/podcast (link in bio)

12/17/2025

This has been an extremely full month. I had 26 speaking engagements this year. 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Glory to God!! Today, I get to speak to over 70 leaders at the National Association of Government Communicators’ webinar. This opportunity is another moment, and reminds me of something I’ve said before, “You don’t have to strive to thrive in your purpose.” God knows where you are, and he has specific assignments that are just for you. No panicking, people-pleasing, or paving your own way necessary.

I don’t share these posts to brag, but to encourage you that what’s on the other side of your faith is greater than anything you could’ve planned for yourself. I’ve learned to trust God more in 2025 than I did in 2024. And he has shown up Every. Single. Time.

I think it’s fitting that I’ll be ending this year preaching at my home church on Sunday… New Life Church (Town Center campus). This is the place where I am rooted.

12/16/2025

This moment stopped me in my tracks.

So much of how we love our spouse didn’t start with us —
it started with what we watched growing up.

My husband learned how to be a giver by watching his mom give…
to family, to church friends, to anyone in need.
And that generosity didn’t just shape him —
it shaped our marriage and now our kids are saying the same thing:
“It always comes back.”

Giving isn’t about holding tight.
It’s about trusting God, loving freely,
and believing that what you pour out matters. ❤️

💛 Who modeled generosity for you growing up?

🎧 Listen to the full conversation on this week’s episode at danache.com/podcast (link in bio)

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12/11/2025

I say this all the time because it’s so real…
you can do a lot to protect your marriage,
and praise God — He protects it even more. 🙌

But that doesn’t mean we don’t have a part to play.

One of the biggest threats to affection and connection?
Family drama.
If you’re not careful, it will slip into your home and slowly erode the closeness you’ve worked so hard to build.

When drama comes knocking, you don’t have to open the door.
You can choose peace.
You can choose boundaries.
You can choose to protect your marriage first. ❤️

🎧 Listen to the full episode at danache.com/podcast (link in bio).

💛 How do you keep family drama from affecting your marriage?

12/10/2025

Character is who you are when no one’s looking…
and that’s exactly where God does His deepest work.

It’s the choices you make in private,
the integrity you walk in when no one is applauding,
the consistency you keep when no one is checking.

Those hidden places shape the kind of spouse, parent, friend, and believer you become.
And the beauty is this — God sees it all, and He honors the work you do in the quiet. ✨

💛 What’s one private habit or discipline that’s helped strengthen your character this year?
Share it below — your answer might inspire someone else.

12/09/2025

One of the quickest ways affection fades in a marriage is when we start taking each other for granted.
Not intentionally… just quietly.

It happens when the little things stop:
the “please,”
the “thank you,”
the small moments of noticing what your spouse does every day.

But those little acknowledgments?
They matter more than we think.
They soften us. They connect us. They remind us that we’re seen.

And if you’re the one feeling taken for granted—this might be the moment to gently open that conversation. Honest communication is how connection gets restored. ❤️

🎧 Hear the full conversation on this week’s episode at danache.com/podcast (link in bio).

💛 What’s one small act of appreciation that means the most to you in marriage?

12/08/2025

Resilience isn’t just surviving the hard things…
it’s who you become because of them.

It’s the strength you gain after the breakdown,
the wisdom you carry after the heartbreak,
the growth that happens when you let God meet you in the mess.

Real resilience is rising, not as the same person you were before—but as someone stronger, wiser, and more rooted than ever. 💛

💛 What’s one moment in your life that made you more resilient?
Share it below—your story could strengthen someone else today.

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Have you ever wondered how relationships come “easy” to some people, yet it’s such a struggle for you? Like no matter how much you reach out to find friends, better yourself to be a good spouse or partner, nothing changes? Is there a secret to healthy and happy relationships that you don’t know about?

Truth is, there is no secret.

But there are strategies.

I’m Dana Che, and I love helping people build healthy relationships. I’ve been married to my love, Shaun, for 20 years, and we have four little monsters, two who are adults now. We’ve done this marriage thing wrong . . . a lot! But praise God, we also woke up and have been doing it right for a while now. And what a difference it has made! We want to share our story of a broken love and a restored marriage through God’s grace, forgiveness, and making wise choices!