As an inspirational speaker and , I help people strengthen & deepen their relationships
09/25/2025
The best marriages aren’t just about romance.
They’re built on friendship — the kind where you can laugh until your stomach hurts, share your wildest dreams, and be fully yourself without fear.
It’s the kind of love that feels safe and fun.
Intimate and easy.
Passionate and playful.
Because when your spouse is both your lover and your friend, you don’t just have a marriage…
You have a lifelong teammate.
Do you and your spouse feel more like lovers, friends… or both?
09/22/2025
Are you tired of the same rote relationship advice? 😑
Everyone who has a healthy relationship knows that the best advice often comes from the unexpected, overlooked habits. ✅
Which of these five relationship tips stuck out to you? Comment below and DM “connection” for my free “Conflict to Connection” playbook.
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09/18/2025
Only God can take our trauma… and turn it into treasure. ✨
The arguments, the disappointments, the seasons of distance — they don’t have to be the end of your story.
In God’s hands, even the painful parts of marriage can become the very places He grows intimacy, understanding, and grace.
Nothing is wasted in His hands. ❤️
👉 Which part of this speaks to your marriage today? Drop it in the comments so we can remind each other of God’s faithfulness.
09/16/2025
Your marriage isn’t just part of your life.
It’s your ministry. 💍
Before the job title, before parenting, before the hustle — God calls you to love your spouse as Christ loves the church. ❤️
That’s why marriage isn’t secondary. It’s sacred. It’s your greatest calling.
How do you keep your marriage at the center of your calling?
09/14/2025
You are your spouse’s #1 discipler.
And they are yours. 🙌
That sounds big because it is, but it’s not about perfection or lecturing.
It’s about the way you live, lead, and love every single day.
So, what kind of student are you being?
Are you teachable, humble, and ready to grow… or stuck, defensive, and doing life alone?
09/12/2025
Even when we fall short, God’s love never does. 🙌
His faithfulness is steady, unshaken by our weakness.
And that kind of love becomes our model — the way we learn to love our spouse, our family, and our neighbor. ❤️
It’s not about perfection, it’s about reflecting the One who loves us perfectly.
👉 What’s one way you try to mirror God’s love in your relationships?
09/11/2025
I will never forget the day… I was brushing my teeth in my pink bathrobe, a few months pregnant with Cayla. The Today Show played in background on my TV as I got dressed for my morning like I did every day. I took a look at the TV screen and moments later, I saw the second plane fly into the World Trade Center. I could not believe what I was seeing… TBH, I didn’t know what happened inside the World Trade Center. I was 20 years old and thought it was a place where foreign countries traded animals and foreign currencies. No lie. Again, I was 20 years old.
I sat on my bed,  switching between CNN, The Today Show, and GMA, completely mesmerized for the rest of the morning at what had just happened to our country. We had never been attacked on our own soil. Like every other American, I was in a state of shock and disbelief.
But it’s what happened afterwards that made me truly proud to be an American (well, other than the senseless racist attacks aimed toward Arabic people). For the most part, we banded together as a nation. We took care of each other. We cried together, processed together, and helped each other. What the enemy meant for evil, God used for good.
But then we forgot…
We went back into our corners. The racist rhetoric amped back up. We allowed the politicians to divide us again. We stopped asking questions and we started believing in our own assumptions.
We forgot…
We forgot that united we stand and divided we fall. We forgot that most people are afraid, and it’s fear that drives hate. We forgot what it was like to allow others to love us in our vulnerable places. We forgot that we are our brothers’ keeper.
As I reflect on the 24th anniversary of 9/11, I vow to remember.
MLK Jr.’s wisdom echoes in my mind: Hate cannot drive out hate. Only love can do that.
So my fellow Americans, will we remember, or will we forget… again?
#911
09/10/2025
A fulfilling marriage isn’t just about sparks ✨ It’s about something deeper.
Chemistry can fade, shift, or change with seasons… but your covenant?
That’s the anchor. ❤️
Because when your commitment to each other is rooted in something bigger than feelings, your marriage can weather anything.
👉 So tell me — do you think marriage is built more on chemistry or commitment?
09/07/2025
It’s me. Hi. Sometimes I’m the problem. 🙋🏽♀️
But here’s the thing: taking responsibility in marriage doesn’t have to mean shaming yourself.
It’s not about blame, it’s about growth.
When we own our part with honesty and grace, that’s when real change can happen.
If you’re feeling stuck in old patterns, my Marriage Reset Workshop will help you make 3 simple shifts that create lasting intimacy.
Sign up now at danache.com/marriageworkshop (link in bio)
09/05/2025
It’s easy to get caught up in the past — replaying mistakes.
Or to get lost in the future, worrying about what’s ahead.
But marriage thrives in the present, when you draw strength from what’s within: character, faith, and love.
That’s what sustains a relationship through every season.
👉 Do you find yourself dwelling more on the past, the future, or staying present?
05/11/2025
Mother’s Day 2025 🩵🩵🩵 Love my boys. Just missing our Cayla Cay.
03/31/2025
As women’s history month comes to a close, I am so thankful for all the amazing, trailblazing women who came before me… Standing up when others told them to sit down, speaking up when others told them to stand down. Women who were resilient, courageous, and knew their purpose and place in history. I honor you.
And to Jesus, who protected women,
empowered women,
honored women publicly,
released the voice of women,
confided in women,
was funded by women,
celebrated women by name,
learned from women,
respected women,
and spoke of women as examples to follow.
I honor my fellow women who know that raising a family does not have to conflict with raising a generation. To those who know your place is both inside and outside the home without dichotomy. To all the women who confidently walk in your calling and purpose even when no one else claps for you, acknowledges or appreciates you. You are seen. You are championed. And you have a place of honor in God’s big family as both leader and follower.
We stand on the shoulders of giants… That great cloud of witnesses who have gone before us. You don’t have to shout to be seen. Just shine your light. And those the Lord draws to you will be drawn to you.
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Have you ever wondered how relationships come “easy” to some people, yet it’s such a struggle for you? Like no matter how much you reach out to find friends, better yourself to be a good spouse or partner, nothing changes? Is there a secret to healthy and happy relationships that you don’t know about?
Truth is, there is no secret.
But there are strategies.
I’m Dana Che, and I love helping people build healthy relationships. I’ve been married to my love, Shaun, for 20 years, and we have four little monsters, two who are adults now. We’ve done this marriage thing wrong . . . a lot! But praise God, we also woke up and have been doing it right for a while now. And what a difference it has made! We want to share our story of a broken love and a restored marriage through God’s grace, forgiveness, and making wise choices!
Experiencing loving relationships is what you’re made for. It’s not easy, but it is worth it!
Shaun and I had no mentors. No real examples. But you can.
Join and connect with us on our journey to see relationships reconciled, restored, and renewed. You’re at home here. No judging allowed.
