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As an inspirational speaker and , I help people strengthen & deepen their relationships

01/15/2026

One of the deepest needs men carry is the need to feel safe.
Safe to be honest. Safe to be vulnerable. Safe to be seen without being shamed or diminished.

For many men, friendship hasn’t always provided that space. So when a wife becomes the one place where his heart can rest, where his story is protected, and where his weaknesses aren’t weaponized, that bond runs deep.

But when trust breaks, when vulnerability is met with judgment or dismissal, walls go up fast. Not because he doesn’t care, but because emotional safety matters more than most of us realize.

Intimacy grows where safety lives.
And distance grows where trust feels fragile.

👉 What helps you feel emotionally safe in your relationship?

01/14/2026

Avoidance can feel like peace in the moment.
No conflict. No tension. No hard conversations.

But over time, what we don’t talk about doesn’t disappear.
It quietly creates distance.

Intimacy isn’t protected by silence.
It’s strengthened by courage.

God heals what we’re willing to bring into the light.
Avoidance keeps intimacy stuck.
Truth opens the door to connection.

💬 What’s one thing you know your marriage needs talked about?

01/13/2026

Shame is quiet, hidden, and incredibly powerful.
It doesn’t always show up as chaos or conflict.
Sometimes it shows up as distance. Disconnection. Numbness.

You can look “fine” on the outside and still be carrying a deep, unhealed shame on the inside—from what you’ve done or from what was done to you. And then marriage comes along, and suddenly the places you thought you had buried start to surface.

Marriage doesn’t heal shame.
Marriage reveals it.

And that’s not condemnation, it’s an invitation.
Because what’s brought into the light can finally be healed.

If this resonates, you’re not broken.
You’re becoming aware. And that’s where freedom begins.

🎧Hear the full conversation on this week's episode at danache.com/podcast (link in bio)

01/12/2026

Diamonds don’t become precious by accident.
They’re formed under pressure.

If your marriage feels heavy right now, it doesn’t mean it’s failing.
It may mean something strong is being formed beneath the surface.

Pressure doesn’t destroy what’s solid.
It reveals it.

What pressure are you walking through right now?

Comment 💎 if you’re choosing growth instead of giving up.

01/11/2026

If you knew what I knew, you'd look at your trials differently. Right now, you might be thinking:
"This is going to be the death of me."
"I can't believe I'm going through this."
"I didn't sign up for this."
"I just want to be happy."

But here's what changes everything: These trials aren't working against you. They're working for you.

The Bible says they're producing something in you—praise, glory, and honor that will be revealed when Christ returns. Not for God. For you.

So when you're in the thick of it and can't see past the pain— remember this isn't the end of your story.
It's building something eternal in you.

✨ Hear the full conversation on this week's episode at danache.com/podcast (link in bio)

💬 What trial are you learning to see differently?

01/10/2026

There’s a moment in almost every marriage when you quietly wonder,

“Is this a sign something is wrong… or just hard?”

The tension.
The distance.
The conversations that feel heavier than they used to.

We’re quick to label that season as failure.
But what if it isn’t?

What if the tension you’re feeling isn’t proof your marriage is breaking, but evidence that it’s being formed?

Formation is uncomfortable. It stretches us. It exposes patterns we didn’t know we had and invites us to grow beyond them. And growth, by nature, creates friction.

Strong marriages aren’t built by avoiding tension.
They’re built by staying present in it—learning, refining, and choosing each other again.

💬 Where do you feel tension right now—and what might it be teaching you?

01/09/2026

You've prayed all the prayers.

"Lord, I'm unhappy."
"I feel unloved."
"My spouse has changed."

And you've been waiting for something to shift.
Here's what changes everything: "Nevertheless, not my will, but Your will be done."
That's surrender.
And deliverance is right on the other side.

So many give up before they get there, then wonder why the breakthrough never came.
Will it happen overnight? Probably not. But God will only leave you in the process as long as you need to be, and not a second longer.

✨ Tune in to the full conversation on this week's episode at danache.com/podcast (link in bio)
💬 Have you experienced breakthrough after surrendering control?

01/07/2026

"Why does it always have to be so hard?" You've probably asked that question more times than you can count.

Why the constant tension? Why can't things just be easy?

Here's what most couples miss:
The pressure isn't proof that something's wrong. It's actually doing something.
Refining you. Strengthening you. But when we're in the thick of it, we stop seeing the value.
We start seeing our spouse as the enemy. We draw lines. We disconnect even more.

What if the hard seasons aren't meant to tear you down, but to build you up?

✨ Hear the full conversation on this week's episode at danache.com/podcast (link in bio)

💬 What's one trial in your marriage that ended up making you stronger?

01/06/2026

What feels like delay in marriage may actually be God developing depth.

Depth takes time.
Trust takes pressure.
Intimacy is often formed in the waiting, not the rushing.

If you’re in a season where growth feels slow, conversations feel hard, or progress feels invisible, don’t assume God is absent.

He may be doing His most important work beneath the surface.

Strong marriages aren’t built quickly. They’re built deeply.

👉 Where do you feel God inviting your marriage to grow deeper right now? Share in the comments.

01/05/2026

It’s been a long road to get to this point. Maybe you can relate… In marriage, there will be highs and there will certainly be lows. There will be celebrations and silent treatments. There will be laughter and tears. There will also be seasons where you don’t necessarily feel anything. I call that “the middle.”

I wrote Tried and True for marriages in the middle. You’re not in crisis, but things aren’t great either. Maybe you’re feeling the tension, the pressure, the stagnation. You know there’s more but how do you get there?

Meet me at my book launch where I’ll share more. Building a great marriage isn’t magical, it’s a marathon.

📍 New Life Kempsville (Chapel), Va. Beach
📅 Sunday, Jan. 25th
🔗 RSVP at danache.com/launch (link in bio)

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Our Mission

Have you ever wondered how relationships come “easy” to some people, yet it’s such a struggle for you? Like no matter how much you reach out to find friends, better yourself to be a good spouse or partner, nothing changes? Is there a secret to healthy and happy relationships that you don’t know about?

Truth is, there is no secret.

But there are strategies.

I’m Dana Che, and I love helping people build healthy relationships. I’ve been married to my love, Shaun, for 20 years, and we have four little monsters, two who are adults now. We’ve done this marriage thing wrong . . . a lot! But praise God, we also woke up and have been doing it right for a while now. And what a difference it has made! We want to share our story of a broken love and a restored marriage through God’s grace, forgiveness, and making wise choices!