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07/24/2025

Thailand Triggers International Crisis by Opening Fire on Cambodian Forces

07/19/2025

Well done. I like that 🤗

My favorite childhood ice cream, I made it vegan 🌱 🩷

Ingredients Ice Cream

(13 oz) silk vegan whipping cream

(11 oz) sweetened condensed coconut milk

1 tablespoon vanilla extract

¼ teaspoon salt

(¼ cup) freeze-dried strawberry powder

Shortcake Crumble

(10-ounce) boxes of “Back To Nature, golden crème sandwich cookies”

1 cup freeze-dried strawberries

2 tablespoons vegan unsalted butter, melted

06/21/2025

Men just dont ever grow up

Most Boyfriends Don’t Want Love—They Want Mothering
They say they want a good woman.
But what they mean is:

“Cook for me.
Clean for me.
Listen to my problems…
…but don’t bring me yours.”

1. You Want Her Care—But Not Her Voice
You love when she holds you…
But flinch when she speaks truth.

You say she’s “nagging”
Any time she sets a boundary.

You expect her to soothe your wounds—
But call her “too much” when she asks for healing of her own.

2. You’re Not Building—You’re Draining
She’s the one:
– Texting you to eat
– Reminding you of appointments
– Holding space for your moods

But when she cries?
You say, “What now?”
Or worse—“You’re so dramatic.”

She’s not your mother.
She’s not your therapist.
She’s your partner.

Start acting like it.

3. You Don’t Want Partnership—You Want Parenting
You don’t want to grow.
You want comfort.

You don’t want feedback.
You want praise.

You don’t want equality.
You want emotional babysitting in a woman’s body.

Final Word: You Don’t Need a Girlfriend—You Need to Grow Up
She’s not breaking down because she’s unstable.
She’s breaking down because she’s exhausted.

Stop asking her to love you into maturity.

Grow yourself.
Meet her there.
Or let her go before she forgets how to breathe.

Credit: Liana J.

06/17/2025

Most Women Don’t Want to Be Worshipped—They Just Want to Be Matched
She gave up her last name.
Her body.
Her timeline.
Her freedom.

All for a man who still asks:
“Why are you always tired?”

1. She Changed Everything—You Changed Your Relationship Status
She moved cities.
Lost friends.
Started over in your world.

You?
You just made a post:
“Wifed her up 💍”

And thought that meant you were even.

2. She Sacrificed Her Identity—And You Kept Yours
She became a wife.
Then a mom.
Then a manager of everything.

You’re still “chill.”
Still working late.
Still gaming.
Still you.

She evolved.
You stayed comfortable.

3. You Call Her Angry—But She’s Just Unseen
You joke that she’s always upset.
But never ask why.

She’s not mad about the trash.
She’s mad that her life became a cycle of picking up after someone
Who said he’d lead—
But never lifted.

4. You Want the Perks of a Woman—But Not the Price
You want love.
Support.
S*x.
Peace.

But don’t want to match her energy.
Her care.
Her load.

You’re not overwhelmed—because she’s holding it all for both of you.

5. You Call Her “Lucky to Have You”—But She’s the Prize
She bent her life to fit yours.
She shrunk.
She adjusted.
She poured.

And you still say she “changed.”

Of course she did.
You left her no choice.

6. Final Word: If You Want a Soft Woman, You Have to Be a Solid Man
She can’t be gentle when she’s surviving.
She can’t be sexy when she’s exhausted.
She can’t give you peace
While drowning alone.

You want the goddess?
Match her grind.
Match her growth.
Match her grace.

Or leave her the hell alone.

Credit: Naomi C.