09/17/2026
Dear Men,
When you treat your woman right, you may not realize how much you are building inside her heart.
When you treat a woman right, you make submission easier for her because she feels safe, valued and respected.
A woman who feels loved, respected, appreciated, protected, heard and cared for becomes a different woman.
When you treat your woman right, these things happen:
She becomes more emotionally secure.
She feels comfortable being herself around you.
She becomes more willing to communicate with you.
She appreciates the little things you do.
She becomes your biggest supporter.
She can face difficult seasons with you because she knows, “At least I have someone who cares about me.”
And please, men, understand this: not every woman’s problem is money.
Some men think, “What does she want again? I give her money.”
My brother, sometimes she is not asking for money. Sometimes she wants you to sit beside her and ask, “How was your day?”
Sometimes she wants a hug.
Sometimes she wants you to notice that she is tired.
Sometimes she wants you to listen without trying to fix everything.
Sometimes she simply wants to hear, “I appreciate you.”
Money is important, yes. But attention, love, affection, respect and genuine care are also important.
Remember, women are often moved by what they hear. Don’t become too comfortable and forget to say sweet things to your woman.
Some men will chase a woman, call her “my love,” “my baby,” “sweetheart,” “my queen,” and send good morning messages every day when they are trying to win her heart.
Then they finally get the woman or get married, and suddenly the vocabulary disappears! 😭😂
Before marriage:
“Good morning, my beautiful queen. Did you sleep well?”
After marriage:
“Mama baby, where is my shirt?” 😂😂
Before marriage:
“My love, I miss you.”
After marriage:
“Ma boy, have you seen my phone?” 🤣🤣
Chaiiii! Some of you men need to bring those sweet names back ooo! 😂
Marriage should not be the place where romance goes to die.
Don’t stop dating your wife just because you married her. Don’t stop complimenting her because you now see her every day. Don’t stop saying “I love you” because you assume she already knows.
She may know you love her, but hearing it from you still matters.
And remember, when you consistently treat a woman poorly, something begins to change.
She may stop sharing her feelings.
She may stop asking for your attention.
She may stop expecting anything from you.
She may become emotionally distant.
And sometimes, what looks like a woman suddenly changing is actually a woman who has been asking for love, attention and care for a very long time and has finally become tired of asking.
Dear men, love your women intentionally.
Appreciate her.
Listen to her.
Respect her.
Speak kindly to her.
Notice her efforts.
Give her affection.
Make her laugh.
Tell her she is beautiful.
Tell her you appreciate what she does.
Because sometimes, the woman beside you isn’t asking for the whole world.
She just wants to know that in your world, she matters.
The First two men who told their wives “I love you” today will get 2k data from me,
When last did you say I love you to your woman indicate in the comment section, the two will be chosen randomly 👇🏼✍️Sheila fashion ✍️ I love you all
Stay blessed 🫶🏻
