Let's Talk Polyamory Podcast with T&A

09/25/2025

The 💋TORONTO TABOO: Everything to Do with S3X Show is on October 17-19, 2025 and we have passes to give away!
👉https://events.letstalkpolyamory.com/taboo2025draw

We are once again featured speaker and will have a booth at this year’s show and have free passes to give away to our community! If you already have a ticket, AWESOME! Please make sure you stop by at booth 322 and/or our talks on Friday at 6:30PM and Saturday at 8:30PM.

We will be answering your questions about non-monogamy, doing some hot seat coaching and will have a very special offer for show attendees!

No purchase necessary to enter. If you post a review of our podcast you'll get a bonus entry!

Enter to WIN a FREE PASS to join T&A at the 2025 Toronto Taboo Show! Bonus second entry if you do a review of our podcast!

09/23/2025

💖💜💙 September 23 is Bisexual Visibility Day! Comment and share your experience!

Marked since 1999, this day is to celebrate bisexuality and also recognize the challenges posed by biphobia and bisexual erasure. Many in the consensually non-monogamous community identify as bisexual and so it is an important day to encourage greater visibility, understanding, and appreciation of our diverse experiences, fostering a more inclusive and supportive society!

👉Listen to our podcast episode on B is For BISEXUALITY: Our Identity, Expressions and S*xual Desires - part of our T&A Alphabet Series!  

We talk about bisexuality and being bisexual, stats and myths around this as well as covering other related identities and expressions such as being fluid, omnisexual, pansexual, q***r, bigender, androgyny and more!

We also talk about how people who identify as bisexual are perceived by others. For example you may have heard it said that that people who are bi are “tourists” and haven’t “picked a side”, yet a study from Cornel University showed something a little different! We cover invisibility, erasure and biphobia and more!

Listen on Spotify here or on your favourite podcasting platform. Link in bio link tree!

09/20/2025

We’re back with a brand new episode in our T&A Alphabet Series on the Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast!

This time, we dive into the letter K — and wow, did this one take us in a lot of directions.

Here’s a taste of what we cover in this episode, K is for Kink, Kitchen Table Polyamory & Kissing + Other K Words:

✨ Kink – what it is, common myths, where B**M fits in, and why communication & consent matter.
✨ Kitchen Table Polyamory – and why it isn’t the ideal or only way to do polyamory.
✨ Kissing – including André’s story of being taught to “kiss like you’re eating a peach,” plus how to handle boundaries and even bad kissers.
✨ Knights (Overnights) – how staying the night or taking trips with partners can be joyful and tricky.
✨ Plus: Kites & Strings, Kuddling, Kidversations, K**a Sutra, and more.

We also slid in some bonus topics like vetos, poly-saturation, and metamours.

🎧 Listen now on Spotify here - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7FOrTjvfhxOB2Il9BLoNwc?si=XnDiQwPUTX-lvum-PNW_Gg - and all major podcast platforms. And check out the podcast show notes. Lots of juicy extras and resources including the link to our original K is for Kink talk where we go even deeper into kink basics with an expert in the field.

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Let's Talk Polyamory Podcast · Episode

09/09/2025

𝘋𝘰 𝘭𝘢𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘯𝘰𝘯-𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘰𝘨𝘢𝘮𝘺 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘭𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘺—o𝘳 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘢 𝘣𝘰𝘹 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘧𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰? 🤔

In our latest Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast Episode, 𝙇𝙖𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙨 𝙞𝙣 𝙉𝙤𝙣-𝙈𝙤𝙣𝙤𝙜𝙖𝙢𝙮: 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩’𝙨 𝙍𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 (𝙤𝙧 𝙉𝙤𝙩) 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙈𝙚? we cover:

�✨ What labels mean (and whether they even matter)�
✨ GSERD—Gender, S*xual, Erotic, Relational Diversity as a means of identifying oneself�
✨ The Styles of Non-Monogamy diagram—including how to explore different styles and transition between them (for a deeper dive, check out our other episode: How We Love: What Style of Non-Monogamy is For Me?)�
✨ Deciding what labels (if any) align with your values�
✨ What you’d like your partners to call you—boyfriend, girlfriend, boo, FWB, or something all your own

🎧 Listen now on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/1FEOdrnJZfCxxOKT24uHTk?si=t4Cy3TGaRtymQMsADl5eDwor your favourite podcasting platform.

✨ And grab the free companion worksheet What Style of Consensual Non-Monogamy is Right for Me? Link in first comment.

Let's Talk Polyamory Podcast · Episode

08/25/2025

We’ve just wrapped up our summer road trip through Quebec and the Maritimes, where we discovered parts of 🇨🇦Canada we’ve never visited and were blown away! Along the way we recorded bite-sized Carversations and have been sharing them via the podcast!

In this third instalment, we discuss whether love can really be repaired and what it takes—things like willingness, trust, communication, reflection, action, and sometimes even taking breaks (and, we have a healthy debate about this!).

We also talk about attachment styles, misaligned values, and why determination alone isn’t enough to repair things!

🎧 Listen on Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/episode/6fVj4Rwrs1ulyKazhQpSso?si=GqQsNozWT4GpcTGsGY7hKg or on your favourite podcasting platform!

Have you ever repaired a relationship? Let us know in the comments!

Side note - this trip was made even more awesome (and affordable) by using the 🏡Home Exchange Platform. Find our more and join via our link for 250 bonus points (enough for a 2 night stay in most places). See the first comment!

Let's Talk Polyamory Podcast · Episode

08/13/2025

🎙 Our next Carversations episode is now streaming!

🚗 We’re continuing our summer road trip through the Gaspésie in Quebec and into the Maritimes—and we recorded a new episode of The Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast: Road Trip Relationship Check-In.

We share two ways to do a relationship check-in, including the RAADAR Method (from Multiamory + our extra “A” for Affirm & Connect; a practice we teach to our clients and in our Poly Newbies Digital Course) and how it helps keep these reviews structured, connected, and productive.

We get personal by answering some starter questions ourselves:
- How are you feeling in your relationship right now?
- Any wins or highlights lately?
- Anything you’re struggling with?
- Anything you’re excited about coming up?

🎧 Listen now on Spotify here - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3s5N4SCvmtKhcTyUsyeiAn?si=9E65kG5CTZKWS4jCKEDjvg - or on your favourite podcasting platform!

💬 What questions do you love asking during check-ins? Have a story from a road trip that brought you closer to your partner(s)? Share in the comments of the episode or right here!

Let's Talk Polyamory Podcast · Episode

08/09/2025

NEW PODCAST EPISODE: Carversations: Travelling When Polyamorous or Open

We hit the road along Quebec’s Route 132 and into the Maritimes, chatting about how to make travel amazing when you’re polyamorous or openly non-monogamous. From finding community and choosing the right destinations to solo travel tips and must-know considerations—plus our S*x Clubs Around the World List—you’ll be ready for your next adventure.

Listen on Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/episode/5KIL4RSyr4T7sZymJLjxbD?si=mZsxR5oiSyCE2iZRSIcTNA or on your favourite podcasting platform

07/26/2025

T&A Beach Day! Anyone else at Hanlon’s today? We’re near the flag pole!

07/16/2025

Are you struggling to attract the right partners—or frustrated that they don’t stick around?

In this week’s podcast release we’re pulling from the archives to talk about one of the most common questions we hear:
How do I attract (and keep) great poly partners?

We share some fun stories (including our first date 👀), explore how your dating profile might be landing with others, and walk through how our Securely Polyamorous Framework helps you meet people who actually fit.

🎁 Bonus: Grab our FREE Online Dating Guide
✅ Top dating sites for non-monogamous folks
✅ Profile writing tips
✅ Online dating checklist
✅ Links to trainings + podcast episodes
👉 go.letstalkpolyamory.com/onlinedatingguide - link in bio link tree

✨ Listen to the full episode now on a Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/episode/33wOni8yUXUKBnbPtzc6ud?si=XKrTj2ucS3isichLRKZkmg or wherever you get your podcasts! Links in bio link tree!

07/13/2025

🗓️ Two other Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy themes are 𝗣𝘂𝗯𝗹𝗶𝗰 & 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲 and 𝗟𝗮𝘄 & 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗼𝗰𝗮𝗰𝘆. These themes highlight the complex realities many non-monogamous people face when it comes to being seen, supported, and protected.

Visibility is powerful—but it’s not the only path. And it’s not the only issue.

🔐 𝗣𝘂𝗯𝗹𝗶𝗰 & 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲
Not everyone can or wants to be “out” about their non-monogamous relationships. Parenting, jobs, family dynamics, and safety concerns make visibility a deeply personal—and sometimes risky—choice.
Some people are visible. Some are not. Both are valid.

⚖️ 𝗟𝗮𝘄 & 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗼𝗰𝗮𝗰𝘆
Most laws weren’t created with non-monogamous people in mind. From hospital visitation to parenting rights, many families fall outside what legal systems recognize. In some places, we’re seeing rights rolled back, making advocacy more important than ever.

🎙️ We also released a new podcast episode this week: “What Does it Mean to Be Visible? Being Out and Open as Polyamorous”

We share our personal stories of being out (or not), talk about how visibility shows up in relationships, and explore how cultural and legal systems shape our choices.

𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗼𝗻 𝗦𝗽𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗳𝘆:
👉 https://open.spotify.com/episode/52wa8DHaqAswUV8BwfcY0T?si=iqQJoonrSXeIH5DGUI4vhA

💭 𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗥𝗲𝗳𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀:
👀 What does visibility look like for you?What does privacy protect—and what might visibility offer?
What does privacy protect—and what might visibility offer?
⚖️ Where have you felt unseen or unsupported by the system?
📣 What kind of recognition or protection would help your family thrive?

✅ 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻:
– If you feel safe doing so, share your story (anonymously or publicly):
👉 https://www.weekofvisibility.com/shareyourstory
– Research organizations advocating for non-monogamous families and relationship rights.
– Support or join legal and cultural advocacy efforts that align with your values.

More at: https://www.weekofvisibility.com

07/09/2025

Do any of these sound familiar? Let us know in the comments 👇
“You just want to sleep around.”
“You’re afraid of commitment.”
“You must not really love your partner(s).”

Today’s theme for Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy is 𝗠𝘆𝘁𝗵𝘀 & 𝗠𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀—and there are plenty to unpack.

🎙️ On our Let’s Talk Polyamory episode Debunking Common Myths About Polyamory - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0rst1t9Jv2x6xlgkJE2fYP?si=GjB8w0bwT_m1v_8zXJJoCQ , we take on the stereotypes and share what’s actually true for many of us.

𝗧𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆’𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗳𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻:
❌ What myths did you believe or hear when you started exploring CNM?
💡 What changed once you began living it?

𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻:
✅ Listen to the 𝗗𝗲𝗯𝘂𝗻𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗠𝘆𝘁𝗵𝘀 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗣𝗼𝗹𝘆𝗮𝗺𝗼𝗿𝘆 episode
✅ Write down one myth you want to challenge publicly or within your circles.
✅ Share a personal truth or insight that helps dispel a common misconception.

More at: https://www.weekofvisibility.com

07/09/2025

Our identities shape the way we love—and how we want to be loved in return.

Today’s Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy theme is Identity & Inclusion. Race, gender, sexuality, class, disability—all influence how we experience non-monogamy and how included we feel in its spaces.

🎧 In our Let’s Talk Polyamory episode 𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝙒𝙚 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 we explore how identity shapes your path—and how figuring out your style of non-monogamy starts with knowing who you are.

Today’s reflection:
🌈 What parts of your identity shape your relationship choices?
🌱 Where do you feel included—and where do we need to do better?

Take Action:
✅ Listen to the 𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝙒𝙚 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 episode on the Let’s Talk Polyamory podcast here - https://open.spotify.com/episode/2wQiiMrHCFltYorI7bdEGs?si=mZJMsbPHQM6Mpf5Y4nbBOQ
✅ Check out resources or groups that focus on intersectional non-monogamy or identity-affirming relationship spaces.
✅ Reflect on what inclusion means to you and how you can contribute to making spaces more welcoming.

More at: https://www.weekofvisibility.com