Let's Talk Polyamory Podcast with T&A

12/26/2025

A clip defining what an **sm is from our latest T&A Alphabet Series podcast episode - O is for Open Relating, Or***ms, Oral & Other Ohs… 👀✨

This episode dives into everything O — from open relating and obligations to oral, outercourse, and a perfectly timed climax on or**sms.

We talk consent, communication, pressure (external and self-imposed), pleasure beyond performance, and how to have better conversations about s*x and intimacy — without shame or scripts.

🎧 Listen now on or wherever you get your podcasts. Link in bio link tree!

12/10/2025

Join us tonight for a live talk!! We speak at 8! See you there!

12/08/2025

✨ New Episode Alert! ✨ We just released a freshly re-recorded instalment of our T&A Alphabet Series — The Nine N Words You Need to Know!

From non-negotiables and names, to neediness, numbers, nudism, necrophilia and more… this episode is packed with insight, clarity, and a few laughs.

🎧 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1jVA8EZ9asbOr5FtFjcaj1?si=h9K1G_hATLGVhnrH3Gd-Mg or your favourite podcasting platform!

Let us know which N word stood out for you!

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12/04/2025

✨Sending out a BIG THANKS to our Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast listeners for tuning in and helping our podcast grow!

We are so 💕grateful and humbled than so many of you listen to us! We love sharing with you and hearing your stories about how the podcast has helped you! Let us know in the comments what your fav episodes have been and what you’d like to hear more of! And please like, review and subscribe on your favourite podcasting platform - it helps others find us! Links are in the bio linktree!

And thanks for our summary - this is AWESOME!

11/28/2025

From our latest podcast release, M is for the 5 Ways to Make Sure Your Communication Isn’t Miscommunication, this might be one of the clearest ways we’ve explained active listening — using a sports analogy about shooting and receiving the puck to show how communication works when you’re actually playing on the same team. 🏒💬

Listen to the full episode — link in bio to where we’re streaming (and for other goodies too).

11/12/2025

What is ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT mean to you? Let us know in the comments 👉

Consent isn’t just about saying yes or no — it’s about communication, clarity, and connection. 💬

In our latest podcast, we dive into what enthusiastic consent really means — how it looks at dates, parties, and clubs, and why “ask once” and “ongoing consent” aren’t a thing!

We explore some of the frameworks that help us understand consent — from FRIES, CRISP, SSC, and RACK to the Yes, No, Maybe List — and how real consent happens through ongoing, in-the-moment communication. Plus the legal side of consent.

🎙️ Listen to Consent is S*xy: Why Enthusiastic Consent Is So Important wherever you get your podcasts. Links in bio link tree!

💋 Want to hear T&A live? Join them Dec 10 at the Mermaid Lounge for Reconnect Wednesday — details also in bio!

11/11/2025

Consent isn’t just about saying yes or no — it’s about communication, clarity, and connection. 💬

In episode 69 of the Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast which is now streaming, we dive into what enthusiastic consent really means — how it looks at dates, parties, and clubs, and why ongoing consent and “ask once” don’t apply.
We also discuss the frameworks that help us understand consent — from FRIES, CRISP, SSC, and RACK to the Yes, No, Maybe List — and how real connection happens through ongoing, in-the-moment communication. Plus the legal side of consent.

🎙️ Listen to Consent is S*xy: Why Enthusiastic Consent Is So Important wherever you get your podcasts. It’s available on Spotify here - https://open.spotify.com/episode/2RzCDuhK9yMM3GgkU5ebPg?si=D83pZA_hTxqytu-WvZ-fAg

💋 Want to hear T&A live? Join us on Dec 10, 2025 at the Mermaid Lounge for Reconnect Wednesday — information about the Mermaid Lounge and how to get tickets can be found in the first comment.

*xy

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11/06/2025

In our latest Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast episode - S*x & Lifestyle Clubs 101: What to Expect and How to Prepare - I was live on location at the Mermaid Lounge (attached to the X-Club) just outside Toronto with Event Host Amy! 

Together, we explore what it’s like to visit a lifestyle space — from the vibe and etiquette to safety, consent, and connection — and take you on an tour of the newly renovated lounge and club.

We also share practical insights for how to:
✨ Plan your visit before you go (what to wear, what to bring, and what to talk about with your partner)
💬 Create a plan for check-ins during the night — so you can navigate any emotions or unexpected moments with care
💞 Debrief after your visit and use aftercare to strengthen connection
🚫 Avoid common first-timer pitfalls around expectations and consent

Whether you’re curious, nervous, or simply exploring new sides of your s*xuality, this episode will help you feel prepared, confident, and secure walking into your first (or next) lifestyle event.

🎧 Listen on your favourite podcasting platform. Link in the bio link tree!

And if you’re local — join T&A at the Mermaid Lounge on December 10 for their live talk: The 7-Step Securely Non-Monogamous Framework, where they’ll dive even deeper into communication, jealousy, and relationship design in non-monogamy.

*xclub

11/06/2025

In our latest Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast episode - S*x & Lifestyle Clubs 101: What to Expect and How to Prepare - I was live on location at the (attached to the X-Club) just outside Toronto with Event Host Amy! 

Together, we explore what it’s like to visit a lifestyle space — from the vibe and etiquette to safety, consent, and connection — and take you on an tour of the newly renovated lounge and club.

We also share practical insights for how to:
✨ Plan your visit before you go (what to wear, what to bring, and what to talk about with your partner)
💬 Create a plan for check-ins during the night — so you can navigate any emotions or unexpected moments with care
💞 Debrief after your visit and use aftercare to strengthen connection
🚫 Avoid common first-timer pitfalls around expectations and consent

Whether you’re curious, nervous, or simply exploring new sides of your s*xuality, this episode will help you feel prepared, confident, and secure walking into your first (or next) lifestyle event.

🎧 Listen on your favourite podcasting platform. Link in the bio link tree!

And if you’re local — join T&A at the Mermaid Lounge on December 10 for their live talk: The 7-Step Securely Non-Monogamous Framework, where they’ll dive even deeper into communication, jealousy, and relationship design in non-monogamy.

*xclub

11/05/2025

Ever wondered what it’s really like to go to a s*x or lifestyle club for the first time — and how to make sure it’s a positive, pressure-free experience?

In this week’s Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast episode, I went live on location at the Mermaid Lounge (attached to the X-Club) just outside Toronto with Event Host Amy!

Together, they explore what it’s like to visit a lifestyle space — from the vibe and etiquette to safety, consent, and connection — and take you on an tour of the newly renovated lounge and club.
They also share practical insights for how to:

⚡️Plan your visit before you go (what to wear, what to bring, and what to talk about with your partner)
💬 Create a plan for check-ins during the night — so you can navigate any emotions or unexpected moments with care
💞 Debrief after your visit and use aftercare to strengthen connection
🚫 Avoid common first-timer pitfalls around expectations and consent

Whether you’re curious, nervous, or simply exploring new sides of your s*xuality, this episode will help you feel prepared, confident, and secure walking into your first (or next) lifestyle event.

🎧 Listen here ➡️ https://open.spotify.com/episode/5ZAzbkxiBtbyXhExVXonsg?si=0E_szFMQSZWozdRA2ooAgQ

And if you’re local — join T&A at the Mermaid Lounge on December 10 for their live talk: The 7-Step Securely Non-Monogamous Framework, where they’ll dive even deeper into communication, jealousy, and relationship design in non-monogamy.

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