Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

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Psych Saturday: Will It Work for MeI am accosted every day with sponsored posts, infomercials, and other advertisements....
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Psych Saturday: Will It Work for Me

I am accosted every day with sponsored posts, infomercials, and other advertisements. We live in a world where we are constantly being sold solutions to our problems. Like many others, I would love help with a wide assortment of issues, including my hearing loss, overall wellness, weight management, fitness as an ever-aging man, and, of course, elevating my riding skill and ability.

Horse people share in this experience. The internet is flooded with solutions to a million different challenges riders face. There are products and services to fix one unsoundness or another behavioral issue. Promises, promises, and more promises.

I was recently reading a discussion in a Facebook group started by a rider facing fears. As is often the case with fear-related posts, the conversation was flooded with goodwill. People offered compassion and shared their personal stories of overcoming fear. Many normalized the experience and then offered solutions or resources that worked for them.

I do not often feel compelled to respond directly to these posts, but something about this one drew me in. I realized what had caught my attention: the conversation paralleled the way solutions are presented in the commercial world. Read this. Follow this strategy. Work with this person (including a generous endorsement of Riding Far). All of your problems will be solved. Promises, promises, and more promises. All well-intentioned.

There are obvious problems with this marketing strategy. Perhaps the most important is that no single approach or solution works for everyone. We are individuals. Certainly, there are commonalities, yet there are also differences in nearly every aspect of our being. Many times these small, subtle differences in neurology, physiology, psychology, or behavior make all the difference in whether a particular solution works for us.

What if, instead of playing off people’s problems and fears and offering amazing products and services that promise to solve everything, we elevated people and organizations that make it their mission to develop broad and deep knowledge drawn from a wide range of sources and perspectives? Imagine a service that begins with the question, “Who are you?”, honoring the individuality of both person and experience. A service that partners with you in creating a plan that makes sense for you and works with your strengths. A service that actively connects and integrates multiple perspectives and knowledge bases, rather than operating in a silo—or worse, offering services with limited education, knowledge, or expertise.

What struck me in that Facebook conversation, and what continues to shape my own work, is the realization that people do not need more promises. They need to be seen, understood, and supported in ways that make sense for them. I have experienced firsthand the allure of quick fixes, and I have also felt the deep satisfaction of discovering solutions tailored to who I am, not who someone thinks I should be. That is the kind of service I believe in and strive to provide: one that respects individuality, integrates diverse knowledge, and builds genuine partnership. In the end, it is not about selling certainty. It is about walking alongside others as they find their own way forward. Join me in championing those who ask, “Who are you?” and empower us to find solutions as unique as we are. ~ Paul

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Psych Saturday: The CrucibleI remember my first introduction to a crucible in my high school chemistry class. Mr. Smith ...
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I remember my first introduction to a crucible in my high school chemistry class. Mr. Smith had a knack for engaging adolescent boys. The element of danger, heightened by his repeated warnings to wear protective gear and tuck away our ties to avoid catching fire, was all we needed to be captivated.

I have no recollection of the specific experiments we conducted in those labs, only vivid memories of molten metals and superheated reactions. What stuck with me was the idea that dramatic change often requires intense energy, and sometimes, it takes extreme heat to spark transformation. I was also fascinated by the crucible's ability to contain and support those powerful reactions.

I’m certain everyone has experienced the real-life version of, “When it rains, it pours.” Challenges in life rarely come one at a time. Often, they pile on, leaving us feeling stressed, exhausted, and overwhelmed. These moments, with their intense alchemical reactions, are the very essence of life and growth.

So, here’s my question for you today: Do you have a crucible to support you during these times of intensity and transformation? Who or what surrounds you, helping to protect and contain you as you navigate the seeming chaos of growth? For me, I am eternally grateful to my family, my horses, and my team at Riding Far for being my crucible. ~ Paul

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This time last week we were at the 9th Appalachian Trainer Face Off put on by the Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue! Justin...
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This time last week we were at the 9th Appalachian Trainer Face Off put on by the Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue! Justin judged his second year and Paul supported those he coached through the Rider Wars program. This competition is a wonderful effort to give horses a chance they would otherwise not have. Congratulations to all of the trainers who did right by their horses in such a tricky competition!

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