Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

This year has been very exciting and a little wild! After playing with some Working Equitation schooling shows last year...
10/30/2025

This year has been very exciting and a little wild! After playing with some Working Equitation schooling shows last year, we decided to step things up and enter a few licensed shows this season. The result has been Kola and I coming in first at the Regional Championships, bumping us to number one on the national leaderboard in our division!

The Championships were challenging, as I've already written about, but I had fantastic competition and good people around me. What consistently stood out to me most this season is how genuinely wonderful the people in this sport are. I’ve received help, advice, and kind words from more people than I could possibly name, and I’m so grateful.

With the show season winding down, I’ve been feeling quite reflective. I keep thinking about my pony, our journey together, and the my regard for the Nokota breed. Soon, I’ll sit down and share Kola’s full story for those who'd like to hear.

I’ve learned an enormous amount this year. A special thank you to Pippa Callanan and Stephanie Jennings for your guidance. Building on my education and horsemanship is always a big priority, and I feel I’ve grown because you both.

None of this would be possible without the support of our amazing sponsors. I’m beyond thankful for the encouragement and belief I feel every single day.

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All of this and I haven't mentioned our incredible Riding Far team at home, Tara and my family, supportive clients, those who lent trucks trailers and hauled us around while the truck was down, an endlessly patient vet (Hartland Equine Veterinary Services, PLLC) who has dealt with my disorganized bs, Victoria Solzbach shoeing around the show schedule, and everyone else I've failed to mention. You guys mean the world to me.

~Justin

10/30/2025

Early rides will leave an impact on the rest of a horse’s life. How they are handled and touched by people early in life will set expectations for all other interactions. My main focus is acceptance and understanding of the rider and the aids. It’s what makes true communication possible. This is a three year-old stud c**t who is well on his way.

Zeus has been a pleasure to have in training and has come a really long way in the time he's been with us. It's been fun...
10/28/2025

Zeus has been a pleasure to have in training and has come a really long way in the time he's been with us. It's been fun to keep you all updated with his progress and now I am honored to offer him for sale. I'm looking forward to helping this special horse find a home!

Zeus | 17.1hh | 5-Year-Old Percheron Gelding | Solid Black

Zeus is a barn favorite. He is easy to have around, leads, ties, ground ties to be groomed, stands quietly for the farrier, and hauls like a pro.

Zeus is a very straightforward ride with an excellent foundation and has been in full training with me for 8 months. He is solid walk, trot, and canter, steps easily into rein back, and is beginning lateral work. He has been introduced to a variety of Working Equitation obstacles.

On the trail, Zeus is incredibly quiet and confident and has navigated all kinds of terrain, water, and bridges. He is happy leading or following.

He comes with radiographs of all four feet (March 2025), is up to date on vaccines and Coggins, and has no known medical issues.
Located in Charles Town, WV.

Priced in the low-mid 5 figures.
Feel free to reach out! More video upon request.

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What are your intentions this week??
10/27/2025

What are your intentions this week??

10/27/2025

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10/27/2025

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10/26/2025

Join us for a practical, thoughtful look at how you and your horse can find calm, consistency, and confidence together.

We’d love for you to join us for our upcoming free live webinar:
𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗠𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗥𝗼𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗥𝗼𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗲
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Psych Saturday: Rhythm and CadenceI love words. The way they capture subtlety in meaning. The way they nuance understand...
10/25/2025

Psych Saturday: Rhythm and Cadence

I love words. The way they capture subtlety in meaning. The way they nuance understanding, much like how the golden light of morning creates magic in a photograph.

As amazing as words are, their greatest power and influence shine when they join together, bringing meaning to life through the complexities and richness of language.

Language, for all its beauty, is often predictable. I’m no linguist, and in fact, you might even call me language-poor, but I do know that every language has its rules and conventions. Each has its own rhythm, its own routine. That predictability can make it dull and lifeless. Yet somehow, under the same structure, it can also be alive, fascinating, and inviting.

So what makes the difference? What are the magic ingredients that lift the ordinary into something inspired, transforming a routine from lifeless pattern into living expression?
In music, we talk about rhythm, the pattern of sounds and silences, the heartbeat of timing and duration. We also talk about cadence, the flow and feel of that rhythm, its rate of movement, and the rise and fall that signal beginnings and endings.

I think about my horse, Revel. People have called him lazy, or as one person put it, “profoundly efficient.” I used to tell everyone he hated ring work, that he would shut down with the usual routines. I believed that story, until recently.

What I’ve come to realize is that routine isn’t the problem. Routine is simply a framework, one that can sink into drudgery or rise to the level of inspiration. The difference might just be in how we play with rhythm and cadence.

Revel and I are exploring that space between repetition and revelation. We’ll let you know what we discover.

~ Paul

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I stood in front of Kola’s stall at the championship show, the clock ticking down to ride time, and realized I wasn’t re...
10/24/2025

I stood in front of Kola’s stall at the championship show, the clock ticking down to ride time, and realized I wasn’t ready for this.

Kola has taken his new life as a “show horse” in stride, except for one thing: dark, windowless stalls. They are the last place this formerly wild horse wants to be, and who can blame him?

By the fourth and final morning, he had had enough. I had just finished brushing him when I ducked into the tack stall next door. In that brief moment, Kola managed to cover himself in hay from head to toe and splash water all over his legs in a fit of frustration. I came back around the corner, tall boot in one hand and brush in the other, and just short-circuited. I didn’t know how to deal with it. I didn’t know how to get him ready without the walls coming down.

Now that we’re home and rested, I can laugh about it, but the truth is I was prepared. I knew what to do. I just didn’t have the bandwidth. The excitement and stress of the show, worrying about Kola, juggling schedules and sleep and warmups, all took a toll. I had slipped out of the routines that keep me grounded. I wasn’t sleeping enough, eating consistently, or giving myself the space to reset. My tolerance for stress and my usual resilience had run out.

I have always thought of preparation in terms of practice and planning, doing the work so my horse and I can perform when it counts. But this experience reminded me that preparation also means protecting the routines that meet my core needs, especially when life pulls me out of rhythm. That’s a big focus for me heading into next year.

If this resonates with you, I’d love to hear your stories. What routines help you stay grounded when you and your horse are out of your normal flow?
~Justin

10/23/2025

Have you ever lost your horse going into the show ring?

10/23/2025

Varying the type of work we do with a horse and keeping them engaged is one of the best ways to prepare them for life. Different questions, varying terrain, and new puzzles keep them mentally flexible. To develop confident horses requires the rider to be consistent while we create situations that change.

Take this quiz to reveal how your daily habits impact your calm, focus, and balance.When something changes your daily pl...
10/23/2025

Take this quiz to reveal how your daily habits impact your calm, focus, and balance.

When something changes your daily plan, how do you respond?
A. It throws off my whole day.
B. I get flustered, but recover.
C. I adjust quickly

Before a riding or lesson, do you have a routine to center yourself (breathing, visualization, checklist)?
A. Never — I just tack up and go.
B. Occasionally — when I remember.
C. Always — it keeps me calm and ready.

How do you handle unexpected challenges (bad ride, weather change, tense show environment)?
A. It overwhelms me.
B. I try to push through.
C. I stay composed and adapt.

If you answered mostly A’s or B’s…

You might be interested in our upcoming FREE webinar on Stress Management and Role of Routine.

We’ll dive into practical tools to help you stay calm, confident, and consistent — both in and out of the saddle.

👇 Comment “YES” below to get the link to save your seat and receive the replay after the webinar.

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