Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

A special evening before our clinic at Empress Stables & Sanctuary. If you are in the area please join us for a lively a...
07/24/2025

A special evening before our clinic at Empress Stables & Sanctuary. If you are in the area please join us for a lively and engaging evening talking about horses and humans and connection!

Join us for a Friday Night Soirée with Riding Far, LLC!!!!

When 📆 - August 8th 5:30 pm

Where 📍- Empress Stables & Sanctuary

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Can’t wait to see you all there🍹

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Psych Saturday: This Land Is Your Land

We live in a world where the focus is on difference. Difference in beliefs. Difference in perspective. Difference in understanding. Difference from what I remember. Difference from what I want. Difference from what I need.

From an early age, we organize our experiences into categories. As infants, we distinguish between okay and not okay, me and not me. As adults, we develop an appreciation for subtle differences in scent, sound, sight, touch, taste, proprioception, and intuition. Combined with a nervous system wired for survival, an ultimate threat detection and defensive response system, we are naturally primed to distrust difference. It’s easy to let this defensive stance take root and grow.

At the same time we are designed for connection. Connection is at the root of our nervous system’s regulation. It is essential for the experience of safety and security and opens the door for the experience of playful exploration, love, and joy. It is in connection that we find common ground and the delight of shared experience. If we notice difference, it not difference as danger but difference as richness and the wonderful textures of life.

Yesterday, I spent time with my mother, who, as many of you know, struggles with memory loss and requires intensive support. At times, I get lost in my grief, preoccupied by the difference between what is now and what used to be, or between how I wish she could be and the reality of what is. Finding ways to communicate and share time, space, and experiences that feel meaningful for both of us can be challenging.

One of my mother’s gifts to me as a child was music. From the moment I was born she shared her joy of singing. She will proudly tell of her first radio appearance at the ripe old age of 10 on one of the early precursors of American Idol. When I visit her now I bring my guitar and we sing and she remembers. She remembers from a difference place in her being. It is a deep and integrated remembering. Not like remembering a name, or date, or day of the week. More like remembering a state of being that also brings a sense of safety and deep joy with it.

One of the songs we sang yesterday was an old Woody Guthrie tune, This Land Is Your Land. It was a powerful reminder that we all share this world, with its similarities and differences. If we keep our eyes and hearts open as we wander through our lives, we can connect and share the wonder of it all; ourselves, each other, our horses, and the countless wonders of our world. And, perhaps at some point, we can all sing harmony. ~ Paul

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07/12/2025

Psych Saturday: Softness and Lightness

My work as a therapist involves holding space for people to experience their emotions in a rich, textured way. Often, these feelings stem from profound life challenges; loss, traumatic injury, or life-threatening illness, to name a few.

Some clients resist giving themselves permission to fully feel their natural emotional responses. They minimize their struggles or compare them to others’ hardships, saying things like, “These are first-world problems,” or “Others have it worse than I do.”

Others experience their pain differently, where it overshadows everything else. They become consumed by grief, worry, sadness, or anger. For a time, in their world, nothing else seems to matter.

Last week, I had the privilege of riding with Pippa Callanan. If you haven’t heard of her, I enthusiastically recommend looking her up and seeking an opportunity to audit a clinic or ride with her. She is remarkable in countless ways. During this clinic, she guided me to explore dynamic balance in movement in a way that felt fresh and enlightening. I learned to maintain awareness, offer support or correction when my horse, Nubble, and I lost balance, and then soften and allow without micromanaging once we found it.

Today, I will visit my youngest sister, who is battling end-stage cancer and has recently transitioned to comfort care. I am deeply aware of the contrast between her experience and my own struggle with a host of strong, complex emotions. I want to honor her and be present in a way that is connected and authentic. Yet, I also recognize the dangers of ignoring or minimizing my own feelings, as well as the risk of losing balance and letting my emotions consume me entirely.

I will strive to apply the lessons of balance and lightness from my ride to my time with my sister today. I aim to honor her and all that she faces while maintaining awareness of my own experience. Hopefully, I can find that balance and then soften, allowing us to be together in a space of compassion, empathy, softness, and lightness.

Life is challenging for all of us. Love and honor both yourself and others. Here’s to finding softness and lightness as you seek and hold your own balance in life and relationships. ~ Paul

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