Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

12/17/2025

No matter how mundane, we can breathe life into an activity by connecting to the deeper purpose, slowing down, and being present.

12/16/2025

🏆 Guess the Weights Contest! 🏆

Who’s gained and who’s lost weight this year? We have given you last year’s weight as a guide. 🤔🐴

👉 Kola
👉 Nubble
👉 Joey

Drop your best guess for each horse’s weight in the comments ⬇️

✨Riding Far cap and note book for closest for all 3 horses!

🗓️ Closing date will be Friday December 19th at 8am!

Put your guess down below now! 👇🏻

What are your intentions this week??
12/16/2025

What are your intentions this week??

12/15/2025

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Psych Saturday: Her First SquirrelMy dog Bugsy caught her first squirrel yesterday.At first, I was not sure what had hap...
12/13/2025

Psych Saturday: Her First Squirrel

My dog Bugsy caught her first squirrel yesterday.

At first, I was not sure what had happened. She did’t come in when I called, which was unusual. About an hour later she was ready, and when I opened the back door I found a half-eaten carcass lying squarely in the middle of the lawn.

Bugsy was clearly proud of herself.

I have to admit, it was impressive. I have shared my life with ten dogs over the last forty-plus years, and this was the first time one of them actually caught the squirrel they had been chasing. How many dogs spend a lifetime in pursuit, always falling a step or two short of the prize?

Lately, I have been thinking a lot about achievement and about reaching for the brass ring. We live in a world that celebrates champions and honors accomplishment at the highest level. Look no further than the equestrian world and the themes that dominate so many advertising campaigns. Count how many promise a path to greatness.

I did a quick scan of advertising in the equestrian space and found that roughly 90 percent of horse-related ads either explicitly or implicitly allude to or promise a pathway to winning.

�“From beginner to winner.”�
“Training to win.”�
“The winner’s edge.”�
“Powering champions.”
The list goes on.

I have to assume these messages persist because they work.

We are raised in a culture of competition at almost every level. From the earliest ages, we are introduced to competitive sport. Lead-line classes before children can even hold themselves upright. Soccer at two or three years old (Herd Ball), with coaches holding up giant arrows so toddlers know which direction to run.

We compete for grades, recognition, school acceptances, jobs, leadership roles, money, and, not to forget, power.

I have two other dogs. I wonder if Bugsy caught that squirrel to best Lilly and Tia.
That feels hard to imagine.

I believe Bugsy was responding to something deeper, an authentic drive that fueled her patience, passion, and persistence. A drive that kept her in the hunt for the three years she has been with me and will likely keep her in the hunt for years to come.

What would it be like if we fueled our children’s passions rather than setting them up from the very beginning for judgment, competition, and comparison?

What would our relationship with horses look like if it were grounded in that same passion for discovery rather than a constant jockeying for blue ribbons or personal and professional validation?

I wonder what we might accomplish. ~ Paul




❄️Don’t miss out!!🚨We’re kicking off our 𝗥𝗶𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗙𝗮𝗿 𝗪𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗪𝗲𝗯𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗿 𝗦𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 with a practical, thoughtful session designed ...
12/12/2025

❄️Don’t miss out!!🚨

We’re kicking off our 𝗥𝗶𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗙𝗮𝗿 𝗪𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗪𝗲𝗯𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗿 𝗦𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 with a practical, thoughtful session designed to bring more clarity, confidence, and kindness into everyday barn life.

𝗘𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗮𝗿𝗻 — 𝗙𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗪𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗪𝗲𝗯𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗿
📅 𝙈𝙤𝙣𝙙𝙖𝙮, 𝘿𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧 𝟏𝟓
⏰ 𝟏:𝟎𝟎 𝙋𝙈 𝙀𝙎𝙏
💻 𝙊𝙣𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙒𝙚𝙗𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙧

Communication can be messy. Between riders and horses, instructors and students, and even barn mates, messages don’t always land the way we intend. What we meant isn’t always what others hear—and that gap can create tension, confusion, and disconnection.

In Effective Communication in the Barn, we’ll explore:
• Common communication breakdowns with horses, students, and barn mates
• A simple model of communication you can use anywhere
• Why intention and impact drift apart—and how to bring them back together
• The role of energy and information in every interaction
• How repair—not perfection—is the foundation of strong relationships

At the heart of this webinar is one core idea:
𝗚𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗿 𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿. .

You’ll leave with:
• Tools to communicate more clearly
• A better understanding of what gets in the way
• Skills for truly listening—to horses and people
• More confidence in day-to-day barn interactions

If you spend time in the barn, this webinar is for you—riders, instructors, students, parents, barn staff, or boarders.

🚨Visit our events page or visit our linktree in our bio to save your seat today!🪑

We’d love to have you with us as we kick off the series.

12/12/2025

Tacking up isn’t just prep, it’s where the conversation begins.
Selene shows how small moments can create huge responsibility and acceptance in a horse.

𝐐𝐔𝐈𝐙 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄!!!Intention vs. ImpactTake a moment and answer the question below — your response might surprise you.⏱️Want re...
12/10/2025

𝐐𝐔𝐈𝐙 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄!!!

Intention vs. Impact

Take a moment and answer the question below — your response might surprise you.

⏱️Want real-time tools to handle these
moments with clarity and confidence?

👇🏻Comment YES down below for the free webinar link!🔗

At Riding Far, we believe true harmony between horse and rider begins long before the first stride.It starts with clear,...
12/09/2025

At Riding Far, we believe true harmony between horse and rider begins long before the first stride.
It starts with clear, consistent communication, the kind your horse can trust, understand, and confidently respond to.

Every cue, every release, every moment of awareness shapes how your horse interprets your riding. When our intention matches our impact, the ride becomes lighter, clearer, and more connected. This is the heart of effective communication… and it’s the foundation of every successful partnership.

If you’re ready to deepen your connection and learn the communication tools we use every day at Riding Far, join us for our
Free webinar:

𝐄𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐚𝐫𝐧
📅 Monday, December 15 • 1 PM EST

❄️ The first event in the Riding Far Winter Webinar Series

👇🏻Comment “YES” down below for the link!

P.C — Erin Gilmore Photography

12/08/2025

Part 4: Our Final Triple Crown Feature

To wrap up our series, we want to give a huge shout-out to Karen, Sandy, and the entire Triple Crown team. Thank you for supporting Riding Far and helping us give our horses the high-quality nutrition they deserve.

From our easy keepers to our hard workers, Triple Crown keeps every horse feeling and performing their best. We are truly grateful. 🐴💛🌾

12/07/2025

Part 3: Triple Crown Senior Gold
A barn favorite for a reason. Triple Crown Senior Gold is highly digestible, low in sugar, and packed with fiber — making it gentle on the gut while still helping our horses maintain weight, shine, and overall wellness.
It’s not just for seniors; it’s for any horse that needs a softer, safer fuel source. 🌾💛

Part 4 coming soon… our final feed breakdown!

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