Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

Have you ever walked into the barn and, while everything looked fine on the surface, something felt off?No one was yelli...
01/13/2026

Have you ever walked into the barn and, while everything looked fine on the surface, something felt off?
No one was yelling. No doors were slammed. Horses were groomed, lessons were taught, chores were done. And yet, the barn felt tight. Conversations were clipped. People avoided one another’s eyes. Horses were tense in ways that had nothing to do with weather or workload.
There are times when conflict is loud and obvious. As uncomfortable as that can be, at least it is visible. It is out in the open, where we can choose to address it in the moment.
Other times, conflict lives under the surface. Underground.
When that happens, it is often the smallest things that crack it open. A student shuts down or becomes argumentative during a lesson. A horse refuses a jump or ignores an aid he has responded to easily a hundred times before. A casual comment between barn mates lands sharper than intended.
And suddenly, where nothing was “wrong,” we realize that a great deal has gone unseen and unresolved. Conflict, it turns out, has been alive and well all along.
Moments like these have shaped how Justin and I understand conflict, especially in barn environments. Rather than seeing conflict as someone trying to get their way, or as a referendum on who is right and who is wrong, we have learned to look beneath the surface and ask a different question.
What needs are present here?
The needs of our clients.
The needs of our horses.
And, just as importantly, our own needs.
Notice I did not say conflicting needs.
We do not believe that differing needs are what create conflict. Conflict lives in the strategies we use to get our needs met. Conflict tells us that needs are present and that our current strategies are not working.
Needs are universal.
Strategies are negotiable.
Conflict lives at the level of strategy.
When we stop asking “Who’s right?” or proclaiming “You're wrong!” and start asking “What needs are going unmet here?” curiosity replaces blame and creativity replaces force.
This shift, from judgment to curiosity and from control to creativity, is at the heart of the work we will be exploring in our upcoming webinar, 𝘊𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘭𝘪𝘤𝘵 𝘙𝘦𝘴𝘰𝘭𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘉𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘉𝘦𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘥.
If you have felt that quiet tension in the barn, or found yourself unsure how to move forward when conflict shows up, we invite you to join us -
𝗠𝗼𝗻𝗱𝗮𝘆, 𝗝𝗮𝗻𝘂𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝟮𝟲 - 𝟳𝗽𝗺 𝗘𝗦𝗧.

𝗪𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸? 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 “𝗬𝗘𝗦” 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗲’𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂.

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01/12/2026

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01/11/2026

Routine looks different for everyone. Some find comfort in returning to familiar rhythms after a break, while others may value routine but struggle to make room for self-care. What do routines mean to you?

Psych Saturday: More Than a Nervous SystemIf you’ve been working with me or listening to me speak recently, you already ...
01/10/2026

Psych Saturday: More Than a Nervous System

If you’ve been working with me or listening to me speak recently, you already know that I spend a lot of time talking about the nervous system and regulation. It matters. A lot.

And lately, as seems to happen with so many meaningful ideas, I’ve been increasingly disturbed by the way valuable information about one aspect of our physiology has been co-opted for marketing purposes, profoundly distorting and oversimplifying how it gets applied to life with horses.

Over and over, I see ads and posts promoting methods, courses, tools, and tricks that promise to solve almost any problem:
�Nervous System Reset for Horses.�
Holistic Equine Stress Management Certification.�
Equine Polyvagal Pathway Course.�
Calm Horse, Calm Rider Workshop.�
The Rider’s Guide to Equine Vagus Nerve Techniques.

These are just a few of the offerings riding the current wave of nervous system enthusiasm. And don’t get me started on the promises. Serenity, tranquility, calm, zen, harmony, all apparently available for the investment of a few hours online and a couple hundred dollars.

To be fair, I haven’t taken any of the courses, classes, or certifications mentioned above, so I can’t speak to the quality of the material itself. Some of these offerings may provide solid information, useful techniques, and a well-organized learning process.

What I can say with a great deal of certainty is this. It’s more complicated than that.
The mammalian nervous system is still, in many ways, a mystery. What we know, though it grows every day, pales in comparison to what we don’t. And even that growing body of knowledge represents just one piece of an extraordinarily complex system we call a horse. The same, of course, is true for us.

We are more than a nervous system.

We live in a world primed to grab new ideas and spread them quickly, especially when they offer both understanding and simplicity. Every new insight carries the risk of becoming a trap when it turns into the “one true lens” through which we filter all experience.

So here’s my thought for today.
�Be curious.
�Learn from many perspectives.�
Be wary of theoretical demagogues.�
Embrace complexity.

And remember, we are all more than a nervous system. ~ Paul

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01/09/2026

Resolutions don’t resonate for some people. For Justin, they imply failure or that something went wrong the year before. For others, resolutions can feel motivating, hopeful, or grounding. This is a reminder that there’s no single right way to reflect or move forward.

01/08/2026

New year, new beginnings, and a fresh blanket of snow ❄️🤍

01/08/2026

New year, new beginnings, and a fresh blanket of snow ❄️🤍

01/06/2026

Wellington is thinking about joining the circus 🎪 Give us a ❤️ if you’d come watch him perform his special disappearing act!

01/06/2026

Wellington is thinking about joining the circus 🎪 Give us a ❤️ if you’d come watch him perform his special disappearing act!

New year, new intentions!!! What are your intentions this week??
01/06/2026

New year, new intentions!!!
What are your intentions this week??

01/05/2026

Day 12 🎄✨
The final day of Riding Far’s 12 Days of Christmas! What an amazing countdown it’s been—thank you for celebrating, supporting, laughing, loving, and being part of our Riding Far family. Merry Christmas from our barn to yours! ❄️❤️

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