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12/07/2025

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12/07/2025

12/07/2025

This man newly packed into my compound with his wife and three grownup children. Ever since they moved in, the man has been nice to me. He is an okada man, whenever he sees me on the road, he takes me wherever I'm going without collecting a penny. There was a day he saw me in the market, but because he already had a passenger waiting, he took my grocery bag, and still gave me money to enter okada and come home. In fact, he has given me money more than twice.

Fast-forward to last night. He had a fíght with his wife, and his children pμrsued him out of the house with a cμtlass. Around 11pm, someone knocked on my door, it turned out to be him. He begged me to let him spend the night in my house. Because of how good he has been to me, I didn't know how to turn him down. I let him in, and gave him food to eat.

As he was eating, we began hearing angry voices echoing from outside, banging on my door and screaming “Husband th!ef!”.

It turned out to be his wife and children. I didn't even know how they found out. I opened the backdoor, and the man slipped out. Unbeknownst to us, another neighbor was in the backyard at that. So as the man stepped out, she raised a fresh alarm and the wife and her children ran over to the backyard.

Their voices rose even higher. The commotion continued for long but I didn't go out to meet them. I'm not sure, but I think the caretaker intervened before calm was restored.

But right now, I'm scared. I don't know how to face the neighbors and the woman in the morning. Everyone now thinks I'm a husband snatcher while I honestly do not have any negative thoughts. All I did was try to help a good neighbor. I never knew it would escalate to this. I need advice on how to confront them

12/07/2025

What will you do?

12/07/2025

Pastor

12/07/2025

Every married man has that one girl he is loving more than his wife.

12/07/2025

I grew up without my father simply because he died few years after the Nigerian Civil War with Biafra after suffering from stray bullets that hit him in popliteal veins that caused him thrombosis which he suffered from pulmonary embolism until he past away.

The trauma of growing up without my father made me h@te everything about Biafra because every event at school and many things that had to be involved me providing my father always triggered the trauma in me.

Millions of Igbo Men, Children and Women were slaughtered like chicken, homes and businesses were destroyed. Up until now, no compensation were made to affected families, all they got was an ordinary apology made by Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu.

The most beautiful thing is that our fathers accepted the apology and moved on in agony which led them to start eating so many rubbish like rat 🐀, lizards 🦎, birds 🐦 and so many useless things because there was no access to food, no access to medical treatment, no roads, no water and many other life support.

This same trauma nearly affected my mental health until after writing my NABTEB, I decided to leave Nigeria for good, right now I have traveled over 5 countries where democracy and law is being respected and I'm not planning to come back anytime soon or investing in Igbo land again, the past mistakes I made was investing into commercial properties around Imo State and I can never make that mistake again or advice anyone to do so until the m@dness and insecurity in Igbo land is put to stop and this is exactly why Igbo billionaires are failing to industrialized Igbo land.

Right now I'm just wondering how one man who called himself a messiah came up to provoke a wound in a healing process just for self-Infliction only to put millions of future generation in the same trauma most of us went through during and after Nigerian 🇳🇬 Civil War with Biafra.

Our Igbo people said, Ònye chọma ihe gburu nna ya, ihe gburu nna ya erie isi ya, because this life is truly very simple if only you can allow your past mistakes to be a teaching lesson for you because only a foool can repeatedly trying to achieve whatever he lost through the same old pattern.

Because to achieve a great goal in life, you must learn how to use different methods to do things because if you continue using the same old patterns, you must equally get the same old results.

Ònye nwere ntị ya ṅụrụ.

12/07/2025

✍A four year old girl walks in while her father is dressing in the bedroom. She looks at his privates and points at his ??? and ask, "Dad! What's that thing betwēēn your legs?" The dad replies, "I don't know." 🤷‍♂️

She goes to the kitchen and finds her mom, "Mom.🤔 What's that long thing betwēēn dad's legs?🙄" Her mom instead of explaining things to her, replies, "I don't know." 🤷‍♀️

A week later, when her mom was coming home from work, the little girl ran to her and says,
"Mom! You refūse to tell me the name of that thing between dad's legs. I have finally figured it out myself😋. It's a toothbrush!"😋

The mom laughs, then ask, "How do you know that?" The little girl explains, "When I came back from school this morning, I saw aunty Nana (the Maid) knēēling in front of dad, brushing her teeth with dad's toothbrush and sure enough, there was toothpaste all over her mouth😂"The mum faīnted!.. 🙆‍♂️

12/07/2025

Since I got married, my husband has always said clearly that he doesn’t owe my family anything. When he was working and doing well, he never sent anything to my people. Anytime my mum asked me to tell my husband to help her with something, I would hustle from my own money and send it to her. She usually thought it was from my husband and would even call to thank him.

Now things have changed. Since the beginning of this year, my husband’s business has been going badly, and this December he doesn’t have money to send to his own mother or buy things for her. So I went to the market with my own money and bought enough foodstuff and rice to send to my mum. I was arranging everything to send today when my husband saw it and asked what I was sending to his mother.

I told him that I was not sending anything to his mum because I didn’t budget for her. That was when trouble started. He began to in$ult me and called me w!cked. He said I don’t treat his mother the way I treat mine and that I’m supposed to send to both mothers, not only my own.

I asked him a simple question, when last did you ever send anything to my mum or see her as your own mother? You never did. So why is it now that I should see your mum as mine, when you never saw my mum as yours?

Since then, he has been carrying face and refusing to talk to me. But honestly, I don’t feel guilty. I’ve always been the one taking care of my mother from my own pocket, and I don’t think it’s fair for me to add his mother to my responsibility when he never added mine to his.

Please people, did I do anything wrong? I really need sincere advice.

12/07/2025

Na wa for some husband sef!