04/07/2026
So many of the struggles we don’t talk about, self-abandonment, performance and perfectionism, promiscuity, insecurity, poor self-image, feeling worthless, being overly consumed with appearance, emotional distance, fear of closeness, shutting down, addictions, self abandonment, defensiveness, rejection, people-pleasing, fear of man, don’t just come out of nowhere.
They are often the fruit of conditional love and unmet needs.
We all needed acceptance, affection, attention, affirmation, security, comfort, encouragement, support, appreciation, and respect while growing up. When those needs weren’t met, we learned to cope instead of heal.
But coping is not the same as freedom.
Jesus wants to heal it!!
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will remove your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” Ezekiel 36:26
“Take away the stone from the heart of flesh, and give a heart that can feel again.” (see also Ezekiel 11:19)
“For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.” Proverbs 23:7
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18
Healing requires honesty.
It requires forgiveness.
It requires repentance.
It requires surrender.
It requires release.
We have to bring the bitterness, anger, rejection, fear, and lies to Jesus and lay them at the foot of the cross. It was never yours to carry.
It’s time to:
• break agreement with lies
• confront what’s been buried
• feel what you’ve been avoiding
• and allow God to restore what was broken
You don’t have to stay stuck in cycles of fear, insecurity, striving, or emotional shutdown. You can walk in truth, freedom, and identity in Christ.
✨ If any of this resonates with you, if you’re tired of the cycles and ready to heal. I know a wonderful class that starts today. If you can’t get started today, I have other resources/ministries to share with you. 
This is a space to walk through real healing, face what’s been hidden, and partner with Jesus to break free from the pain and patterns that have held you back.
📩 DM me for details.
It’s time to stop coping…
and start living healed, whole, and free. 🙌