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Let me show you how to save yourself when you tell a story and no one laughs or understands.Here’s the magic sentence yo...
06/11/2025

Let me show you how to save yourself when you tell a story and no one laughs or understands.

Here’s the magic sentence you need to remember.

“I told that story and no one laughed — guess it wasn’t funny.”

“I told that story and no one reacted — guess no one understood.”

Say it gently and keep a cheerful tone.

That way, people will think, “Okay, she knows what happened.”

Usually, they’ll laugh along, say “It was funny,” or say something to help you out.

Because no one wants you to feel awkward.

And that’s it — end the story and switch to another topic.

That topic is done; don’t try to save it anymore.

Honestly, having an awkward moment like that is completely normal.

Let me tell you a story.

Once, I interviewed a foreign woman.

She was very serious, writing down every word I said.

After hearing her story, I felt empathy for her.

So at the end, I wanted to leave her with a wise message.

Suddenly, inspiration struck me.

I came up with a deep life quote — one I thought even a forty-year-old might not fully grasp.

I said, “I’ll give you a really good quote, get your pen ready.”

And I said, “Don’t spend time on people who aren’t worth it, but when they are worth it, spend your time.”

We looked at each other, nodded for three seconds… and silence.

Totally awkward.

In my head, it sounded brilliant, but once I said it out loud — it wasn’t.

And since she didn’t speak Vietnamese well, she didn’t understand a thing.

Of course, she didn’t write it down either. 😂

That’s when I realized — no matter how good you think your words are, sometimes your joke or message just won’t land.

It’s like you reading this post right now and not finding it funny at all.

Which means I’m the one who isn’t funny this time. 😆

But that’s okay — not everyone gets your rhythm.

So when your story “falls flat,” just take it lightly.

It’s perfectly normal.

Anh My

06/11/2025

Why Do They Pull Away When You Care More?

05/11/2025

Should You Wait When He Says “I Need Time to Think”?

When you like a man and he keeps saying, “I’m busy,” or “I have things to deal with,”it means he’s not ready for love.Ma...
05/11/2025

When you like a man and he keeps saying, “I’m busy,” or “I have things to deal with,”

it means he’s not ready for love.

Maybe he just broke up, got divorced, is still involved with his ex, focused on work, in debt, or simply wants freedom.

“Not ready for love” still means he has feelings.

He still feels attraction, interest, sparks — but doesn’t want a serious commitment.

And when someone isn’t ready, you can’t make him change by caring more or waiting longer.

The best thing you can do is let go and move on.

In other words, leave him alone.

Someone who isn’t ready still wants people around, but only in ways that suit him.

For example, when he’s sad, he texts you.

When he’s bored, he asks you out.

When he wants something physical, he calls you at night.

In short, someone who isn’t ready still wants company, but only on his terms.

What he doesn’t want is commitment.

So the pattern is always the same.

He comes to you when he needs something, then disappears again.

Because he doesn’t want attachment, he won’t care about your daily life.

He only shows up when he’s lonely or empty — then leaves.

Many women don’t understand this, so when the man comes back, they start hoping again.

You think he cares again, likes you again, or has changed.

But the truth is, you’re just the most convenient person at the moment.

If you have feelings for a man like this, stop.

Don’t comfort yourself with thoughts like “He’s just busy” or “He’s going through a hard time.”

Don’t believe that trying harder will make him change.

Those thoughts only make you hope more and hurt more.

Start by saying no to his invitations.

Reply less to his messages and don’t ask questions that keep the conversation going.

When you do that, he’ll realize you’re no longer there for him whenever he feels lonely.

And as you contact and meet him less, your feelings will also fade, making it easier to let go and move on.

Anh My

No matter who you are, there’s someone out there meant for you… BUT…if you know how to speak gently, there could be ten ...
04/11/2025

No matter who you are, there’s someone out there meant for you… BUT…if you know how to speak gently, there could be ten of them.

Because speaking gently is the fastest way to create a good impression.

In love, men are drawn to women who speak softly.

And women also love men who talk gently.

Because gentleness is a sign of subtlety.

And subtlety is rare — when you have it, people notice you.

Let me show you how to speak gently without any special training.

And honestly, no book will teach this.

1/ Speak a little softer.

It instantly makes your voice sound more pleasant.

2/ Don’t stress words unnecessarily.

Overemphasizing makes your tone harsh.

3/ Avoid heavy adjectives like “extremely,” “so much,” or “very.”

They make emotions feel exaggerated and heavy.

4/ Don’t frown while speaking.

It gives the impression that you’re upset.

5/ Tell your close friend, “If I talk too loud or sound harsh, remind me.”

After getting corrected two or three times, you’ll start becoming more aware and naturally improve. 🤣

In short.

– Speak a bit softer.

– Don’t overemphasize words.

– Avoid intense adjectives.

– Don’t frown.

– Ask someone to remind you.

Start with whichever feels easiest for you.

Focus on fixing one thing at a time, and once it becomes natural, move to the next.

Remember, gentleness is a sign of subtlety.

And subtlety is what men remember — and fall in love with.

Try it yourself. 😉

Anh My

I see many women struggling to figure out how to “get over it” after being rejected.You like someone, you confess your f...
03/11/2025

I see many women struggling to figure out how to “get over it” after being rejected.

You like someone, you confess your feelings, but they say they only see you as a friend.

Then you start trying to “move on.”

But honestly, this isn’t something you need to get over.

Liking someone who doesn’t like you back is completely normal.

When you meet enough people, there will always be a few who make your heart skip a beat, but they don’t feel the same.

That’s okay.

If they don’t like you, that’s fine.

You’ll feel sad for a few days or a few months, and then you’ll meet someone else.

That sadness only lasts a short while after rejection, and then it fades.

So not everything in life needs to be “overcome” or “fixed.”

It’s the thought that you must overcome it that makes a small thing feel serious.

And when you treat it like something serious, it gets harder to move forward, so you try harder to “get over it” — and end up stuck in that loop.

In reality, being rejected is just a normal part of life.

Sometimes all you need to do is change your perspective.

You’ll see that there’s really nothing to fix at all.

So the best way to get over rejection is to see it as nothing worth getting over. 😉

Anh My

Many women ask, “Why does the more I love, the colder he becomes.”The answer is this. It’s not because you love too much...
03/11/2025

Many women ask, “Why does the more I love, the colder he becomes.”

The answer is this. It’s not because you love too much.

It’s because you love the wrong way.

People rarely value what comes too easily.

For example, if someone gives you five million, you’ll spend it freely.

But if you earn that same five million yourself, you’ll protect it carefully.

Love works the same way.

When someone keeps receiving love without effort, they stop valuing it.

That doesn’t mean you should love less.

It means you should love better.

Loving the right way means loving while still remembering yourself.

Loving the wrong way means giving endlessly while the other person does nothing and still receives everything.

For example.

You always do what he wants, even when you don’t like it.

He’s wrong but you stay quiet, afraid to upset him.

You apologize even when it’s not your fault.

You keep chasing him while he doesn’t care.

When that happens, he gets used to being loved without effort.

And because of that, he stops valuing you and grows distant.

Loving the right way looks different.

Don’t keep enduring everything.

Speak up when you’re hurt, upset, or need clarity.

Let him see that you also need to be heard, understood, and respected.

Keep your own life.

Have your job, hobbies, and friends.

Don’t spend all your time waiting for him.

Because when you have nothing else, you depend on him to make you happy.

And when he doesn’t, you feel even more lonely.

Make him put in effort.

Don’t make him feel like he can have you anytime he wants.

Show him that your love isn’t automatic — it needs care and effort.

For example.

If he forgets a plan or a promise, remind him.

If he’s disrespectful, step back — stay silent, create distance.

That’s how he realizes you don’t accept poor behavior.

When he sees you pulling away, he’ll understand you have boundaries and that he must change.

If he wants to see you, both of you arrange it together — not just him snapping his fingers and expecting you to come.

In short.

A relationship lasts only when both people try.

It’s not “loving too much” that makes someone distant.

It’s “loving while forgetting yourself” that makes them lose interest.

Because that kind of love is unbalanced.

It teaches the other person not to appreciate what they receive.

When both people keep putting in effort, they value and protect the relationship.

Without effort, distance and coldness always follow.

Anh My

If you want to attract a serious man, the simplest way is this.Dress modestly.Avoid revealing clothes that show too much...
02/11/2025

If you want to attract a serious man, the simplest way is this.

Dress modestly.

Avoid revealing clothes that show too much skin.

A modest outfit shows you are serious about relationships.

Men who want something long-term will see you as the right kind of woman.

And men who only want short-term fun will naturally stay away.

Because those men usually chase what’s easy, quick, and revealing.

If you don’t offer that, they’ll pass you by.

Or after a short time, if they can’t get what they want, they’ll leave.

On the other hand, if you dress too revealingly, people may see you as easy and not serious.

That image attracts men who only want casual flings.

Here’s a little tip.

You should wear a dress when you have an important date with a man. 💃

Because a dress shows your femininity more than anything else.

And femininity is what truly attracts men.

When you combine modesty with femininity, your charm doubles.

Keep following me, because I’ll explain this more deeply in my next posts.

Anh My

Have you ever been in this situation.A man has bad habits, and he promises you he’ll change.He does change — for a few d...
01/11/2025

Have you ever been in this situation.

A man has bad habits, and he promises you he’ll change.

He does change — for a few days — then everything goes back to the same.

I see many women stuck in this cycle.

They get hurt, then wonder, “Should I give him another chance.”

You need to understand this.

When you first start seeing someone and already notice something feels wrong, stop right there.

Don’t keep going.

If you do, you’ll sink deeper and end up with a broken heart. 💔

It usually takes six months to three years to realize you can’t change him.

The exact time depends on how stubborn you are.

Some people take fifteen years of marriage to realize it.

The truth is, your intuition warned you from the start.

If you felt something off early on, it only gets worse later.

Especially if he’s lazy, controlling, short-tempered, or violent.

Sometimes he genuinely wants to change, but he simply can’t.

A person’s behavior and habits come from many things combined their environment, family, friends, beliefs, and old emotional wounds.

So change is very hard.

After thirty, and especially after thirty-five, those patterns are deeply rooted.

That’s why you shouldn’t think you can change someone.

If you see signs he’s not right for you from the start, stop.

Don’t believe love can transform him.

Don’t let emotions blur your judgment or make excuses for his flaws.

Instead, choose a man who already knows how to control his emotions.

That’s the kind of man you can build a lasting relationship with.

If you’ve been together a long time and can’t let go, the only thing you can do is adjust your expectations.

Because bad habits might lessen slightly, but they won’t disappear.

That’s how you stay peaceful even in an imperfect situation.

Anh My

If you’ve only known a man for one or two months and he’s already talking about marriage and children, you need to be ca...
31/10/2025

If you’ve only known a man for one or two months and he’s already talking about marriage and children, you need to be careful.

It may sound romantic, it may feel like he’s serious and sincere, but in reality, this is a trap many women fall into. 🚩

The truth is, this kind of man isn’t looking for someone to love.

He’s desperate and wants to get married and have kids as fast as possible.

Sometimes, he just wants a wife — anyone will do.

He doesn’t care whether there are real feelings between you.

He doesn’t care if you’re compatible.

In short, he doesn’t care about emotional connection at all.

If you end up with a man like that, you already know how it will end.

He won’t love or cherish you.

Over time, the relationship will grow dull and cold.

And if you marry him, you’ll be stuck in a tiring marriage for decades.

So when you see this sign, walk away immediately.

A man talking about marriage and children too soon isn’t being serious or romantic.

It’s a sign of desperation — someone just trying to marry and settle quickly.

Don’t let yourself be fooled.

Anh My

There are small details that, if done right, can make you look ten times more attractive.– For men: remove your mask and...
30/10/2025

There are small details that, if done right, can make you look ten times more attractive.

– For men: remove your mask and put it away neatly before walking in to meet a woman.

Don’t wait until you’re greeting her to start fumbling with it.

You’ll lose points immediately.

– For women: don’t walk in holding your helmet awkwardly.

Leave it outside neatly before entering.

– When you walk into a café, don’t look tired or complain — this applies to both men and women.

“It’s so hot, the road made me exhausted.”

“I got caught in the rain on the way here, so annoying.”

Don’t say that.

Walk in calm and cheerful.

In short, leave all your “street accessories” outside.

Fix yourself up before you enter — do everything once and properly, not in front of the other person.

Walking in all messy like that ruins the energy immediately. 🤣

But what if the other person is the one being clumsy.

If you arrived first and see them from afar struggling to take off their mask, just look away as if you didn’t see anything.

Pretend you didn’t notice, so they don’t lose their image.

In the end, what makes you more beautiful is subtlety.

And subtlety means paying attention to small details.

Here’s a little tip.

If you arrive first, order a bottle of water in advance.

When they show up tired from the road, smile and say, “I ordered this for you, let’s toast!” it’s both thoughtful and charming.

Anh My

When you meet someone for the first time, there’s a tiny moment that matters a lot.If you miss it or do it wrong, you mi...
29/10/2025

When you meet someone for the first time, there’s a tiny moment that matters a lot.

If you miss it or do it wrong, you might lose points and make the other person feel awkward.

That moment is this.

❌ Not making eye contact.

You look down, stay busy, or avoid their eyes because you feel shy.

When that happens, the other person feels unwelcome and senses a lack of confidence.

The right way is simple.

Smile, look straight into their eyes, nod slightly, and say, “Hello.”

Right away, they’ll feel your confidence through your eyes, your smile, and your nod.

You’ll come across as both confident and friendly.

Here’s a little tip.

When someone is about to walk toward you, glance around to spot them early and greet them from afar.

When you do that, they’ll feel your warmth immediately.

You won’t even have to say much — they’ll already have a good impression of you.

And that makes the rest of the conversation so much smoother. 😉

Anh My

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