12/12/2025
Common mistakes women make when dating online.
Mistake one having feelings too soon.
Having early feelings means you do not know him well yet but you already like him trust him and imagine a future.
Signs.
After a few days of talking you feel the two of you match and he seems special.
You wait for messages and check your phone all the time.
You want him to reply fast.
You feel disappointed when notifications are from family friends or service numbers.
You feel restless and cannot focus when he is silent.
Why do women catch feelings early.
Because women need connection.
When you talk and feel cared for your emotions rise fast.
And when emotions rise too quickly three things happen.
Men become cold.
They feel you expect too much too soon while they have not done anything yet.
They do not feel as much as you but they feel pressure to respond.
And when everything comes too easy without effort they lose interest.
Then he pulls away and disappears.
You feel disappointed easily.
Imagination is always better than reality.
When you meet him you feel let down because the real person is not like the one in your head.
You choose the wrong person or get used.
When emotions lead your logic becomes weak.
You ignore red flags like.
He does not want to meet.
He asks to borrow money.
He asks for sensitive photos.
Because you have feelings you excuse him saying maybe he is busy maybe he is shy.
And in the end you get hurt.
So what is the right way.
Do not let your feelings go deep before he does something real for you.
Your feelings must follow actions not words or imagination.
How to do it.
Do not text for long.
When you are new to each other texting too much easily makes you attached.
Instead when he texts you reply happily.
You can ask a simple question but after talking a bit you stop first.
Do not share personal stories.
If you feel you are about to talk about heartbreak cheating pain your past or your future plans.
Wrap it up with a cute line like I will keep it a secret I will tell you when we meet.
And when you meet do not share those things unless you two are close.
Sharing too soon makes a man think you are complicated.
When you catch yourself imagining.
If you smile to yourself or stare into space for a moment.
Shake your head to break the thought.
Remind yourself imagining again.
Do this enough times and you will laugh at your own thoughts.
When you find yourself waiting for messages.
If you keep checking your phone to see if he texted or is online or you feel like texting him.
The way to handle it is you allow the feeling but do not act on it.
Do nothing at that moment just go do something else.
In short your feelings should only grow based on a man’s actions.
Not based on his words or your imagination.
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