03/12/2025
We met on social media, after several chats, we got to know each other & fell in love. I immediately opened up to him making him understand that I'm a single mom of a 4-year-old girl. He told me it was okay, saying he already knew. I asked how, he said he saw my post celebrating her 4th birthday. At least that made me feel relieved. We dated online for about a year, glory be to God, we're still in love. And finally he proposed, we fixed a date for this coming February.
To cut the long story, Actually, He's been here for over 2 weeks now, but he's saying that he's disturbed by the fact that I have a child. He loves me very much, intensely wanting to marry me, but he doesn't think it's possible anymore since he just realized he can't be with another man's baby mama, & seeing my daughter will always remind him that l've been with another man before him. So, he suggests giving my daughter up for adoption while we get married, travel abroad, & start a new life & family.
To be totally honest, I'm confused. All these years, I've been providing & raising my child alone. His father doesn't even care if we exist. This could be my only chance for a better life. I love this guy very much; he's wealthy & successful. I've suffered too much & don't want to lose him, especially considering I'm a single mom in my 30s & might not find another husband. Please, don't judge me. Any woman in my shoes would be confused. Help guide me through this. I just so much love this guy, and I don't want to lose him pls A help me"