
16/05/2022
Not quite the post I was hoping to put up today 🥺
But sometimes trying to be all, do it all and have it all just takes its toll on us 😖
Social media is an exhausting place to be. It’s ever changing, fast paced and it never.switches.off 😔
As a social media manager, I’ve spent a shocking amount of time on social media lately… figuring out strategies, creating content, scheduling and posting, testing, engaging, analysing data, adjusting etc. and that’s just the social media side… then there’s talking to clients, doing business admin, doing course after course to stay on top of it all…
But I’m also a mum and over the last couple of months, I’ve found myself getting frustrated with my kids because they wanted to play or chat when I had work to do.
Last week, my youngest said something that broke my heart because he’s only 3.5 y old and yet understands so much… he said to me ‘Mummy please put your phone down, I want you’. And of course, I replied ‘Just give me a few minutes to finish my work’ 😞 then he said ‘Is your phone more important than me?’ 😢💔
That evening, I couldn’t sleep. His words kept playing over and over in my head and I realised this is not what I wanted when I started.
I wanted flexibility so I could be there for my children when they need me… but I’m not.
I have location freedom, so I can work anywhere… but it turns out, taking your work wherever you go means you’re always working, which in my case, defeats the purpose.
So I’m taking some time off social media to reset, refocus and readjust.
I’m going to give myself some time to rethink my goals, refocus and find a way to help my clients without compromising the most important relationships in my life.
I will be back soon with a fresh approach, clearer boundaries and a better way to balance my personal and work lives.
Until then, I hope you all have a prosperous time and if you ever need to get in touch, drop me a message!
Lots of love to you all,
Alex x