08/07/2025
We all need to be able to communicate with each other. Many people communicate in ways, not the same way you are I do. Sometimes it’s a personality thing, sometimes it’s cultural, sometimes it’s generational, sometimes it’s just the way we hear or listen, or other things. Just a little extra time and effort to improve communication where they may not usually be any, goes a long way.
Thirty kindergarteners at Hickerson Elementary gave their beloved custodian the most heartwarming birthday surprise ever. Mr. James, a 60-year-old deaf janitor who has been part of the school for 15 years, is more than just a staff member—he’s a daily presence of kindness and quiet strength. Known for teaching students bits of sign language and showing them that communication isn’t just about spoken words, Mr. James has touched many lives.
So, on his 60th birthday, two teachers came up with a meaningful plan. Over the course of several weeks, they taught their students to sign “Happy Birthday” in American Sign Language. When Mr. James entered the classroom, he was greeted by 30 little hands moving in perfect unison, signing the song just for him.
Overwhelmed by emotion, Mr. James was brought to tears. “This is the best birthday present you could’ve given me,” he said, deeply touched by the effort and love shown by the children.
But this wasn’t a one-time gesture. The teachers make it a daily practice to teach their students how to communicate with Mr. James, helping them learn to sign “thank you” and “I love you.” These everyday acts of inclusion go far beyond academics.
This story reminds us that the most meaningful lessons are often those of kindness, empathy, and connection. Mr. James proves that being different doesn’t make you any less—it makes you irreplaceable.