29/06/2025
I have been married twice, I loved them,currently going through the second d!vorce- Frank edoho of who wants to be a millionaire
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Well, I hope its not too early to have an opinion in this, from what we have learned from others marriage is commitment and that word entails a lot of things, I quote ' the thing that happened was their faúlt not mine' well that is the popular slang from a Narc, accountability is definitely not in their Dictionary. How can 2 persons be at fault? when you for one can't see the beauty in what you have, definitely you loose it. When nurturing is one sided definitely there is no marriage in the first place. Imagine 😃 it was when you and your second partner watched your previous wife doing fantastically well in a role I am sure you doubted her capacity, then you admitted you are wr0ng at that point, well Oga, 😉 kindly marry 3rd 4th and 5th. No be you be 1st nor be you go be last.
How can you say because you love someone so much you base your happiness on them. No sir, that is transactional, you want to be happy so you expect something from them, and when they are not fulfilling that part it becomes an issue, on the contrary when you love someone genuinely, you just naturally love to see them Happy and this is vis a viz regardless of expectations the expectations become secondary not primarily.
Oga follow Qds blog na here update dey drop steadily on Narcissism. Read, learn share, so peeps can upgrade their behaviour. Even though its generally accepted that No change comes from Narcissistic individuals, As a Narc, if you can’t change, don't go about destroying others.