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26/12/2025

#17019

Hi all, I need to know one thing. It all is not my intention, I need advice. I married through arranged marriage. Before marriage, one person loved me. I didn’t love him because I was not interested at that time. I didn’t know about the values of love. After marriage, after living with my husband, now I know what love is. Also, my married life is not going well. I need to end this, but I have one doubt. The person who loved me before marriage still hasn’t gotten married. I met him before 1 year. He told me now also he is ready to accept me. At that time also I tried to save my marriage, but now I can’t. Can I marry the person who loved me before marriage? It will be suitable, but I think he will see me as second. I lived with another one before him. He may accept me, but he will not like me the way he liked before. I am afraid about that. For a woman, it is a second marriage. For him, it is a first marriage. Also, he will think I married him because I failed in my marriage. I also suspect him he also dont finr any girl thatswhy he say ok for my marruage Does this work well? Will it create problems in life? Can he accept me and live a peaceful life?

-Girl

26/12/2025

#17018

My neighbor women who is 37yo lost her husband who is 39yo yesterday by heart attack. I am in their next house since 2023. Two years everyday she shouts at him at morning evening night during weekdays and anytime during weekends.

Shouting shouting shouting all the time. He died and she is crying now.

Peaceful family is healthy, toxic family gets their members being unhealthy and losing life. So try to have happy family.

-Guy

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26/12/2025

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26/12/2025

#17017

"Hello everyone 🙂
I'm working in IT field, recent ah company switch panen , ipo join pana new company la really I don't want to mingle with anyone , previous company la friends irunthanga and company politics, selfishness, jealousy nu neriaya paathu iruken adhunala maybe ipo iruka company la distance maintain panitu nama undu work undu nu iruken ..ipdi irukurathu enaku romba peaceful ah iruku , no emotions no dramas , just work mudichitu veetuku varanum .. idhu crt ah ila ofc la friends vachikanuma ? Just give me an idea.."

-Girl

26/12/2025

#17016

"Hi all

⚠️ Sry for a Long post. Just give some ideas or advice (not memes pls)

I'm 24M.. From my age ""9"" I was inculcated by my family against being in relationships and doing love marriages.

Initially I was under movie influences and wanted to experience the love, but in later days around 16 age I myself don't support these things and feel it cringe when others do. 😖

I had attraction for some girls in various part of life, but I never confessed or proceeded. Because I believe, just because I like someone doesn't mean they're mine. 😢 Being raised by sisters, I tend to give the same respect to other girls and don't want to disturb anyone in name of crush, love or anything else.

I had feelings for a girl (best frnd) and felt she too has the same. But unfortunately someone else came inbetween and influenced her on his side. & I'm okay if she leads a happy life with any other person also. I wish good for her. But got trust issues on opposite gender.

Recently, in a office get-together, my manager and juniors started to narrate their love stories and I felt left out as I don't belong to any generation 😔

[In short I'm a combination of ""Kootathil Oruthan"" & ""Nitham oru Vanam"" Movie Lead character]

My thought is...
Is it wrong being myself? Or being a pampered kid of parents? Because peer group treats me like a odd one. Couldn't mingle with girls even as a frnd due to hesitation and past traumas. My clg frnd literally told ""I'm damn sure you are incapable of doing love marriage atleast improve yourself to do arrange marriage"" 😏

Give some (genuine) thoughts or ideas or similar experiences."

-Guy

25/12/2025

#17015

M26. I am in relationship with one of my office colleague. We are communicating mostly through MS Teams, as my parents use or check my phone often. But deleting the msgs after every conversations and hiding the same is difficult and tedious.
Pls advice any other way of communication. WhatsApp is strict No. Need to protect this relation ship for some time before moving with marriage plan.

Admin - pls post.

-Guy

25/12/2025

#17014

I'm 40 F. First marriage, divorced within six months, he was having affair. Second marriage 7 yrs was good my husband was nice taking care of me. We where taking IVF treatment for baby. But previous year suddenly he got lung infection and died.So I didn't continue the treatment. Now I'm all alone. If we check jadagam they are telling some mangalaya dosam. So only marriage relationship is not continuing. My parents becoming old insisting me for to marry again. For me I'm not ready for it. Already faced lot of problems. Friends please tell solution for me.

-Girl

24/12/2025

#17013

This incident happened yesterday night and we all are back home. I am staying In Bangalore with my college batch mates who all got offer in same company.

3 girls and 2 boys in a 3bhk house. Our parents and lovers knows it. One among the 3 girls were on relationship with another tamil guy who runs few cafe. My friend got to know him through few parties. He is a very nice guy. But my friend is not so good. She booze with other guys in office and sometime stays with other office and school mates apartments.

Her bf warmed her few times and yesterday night he came and conversation heated up. She started using abusing word on him. He just ran towards her and put a smack on computer table and left. She got her hip injured. Gracefully it was not deep injury. After treatment we did a complaint in nearby police station. But his father came and spoke compromised. But that smack she will never forget.

I liked it. But for my friend I kept my face as paavam.

-Guy

24/12/2025

#17012

Friends new year party nu sollitu scam panranga. 800rs pass nu they sent gpay and we paid. After that no replies. Pondy new year party nu scams are going on. We shared 4800 for 6 and lost the money. Please be careful.

-Guy

24/12/2025

#17011

I really don't understand why people always digging into others private life rather living their own life.when v limit ourself asking those type of ques still how they take advantage and asking life updates ? People who follow up our lives and having grudge inside with no good intentions and waiting for us to fail. Moo** poitu un life a parunu solidalama nu sometimes irritate agudhu. After all giving insults and known that v really don't like them asking questions about our personal life. Really frustrating how to avoid these kinda person's. Finally they named as relatives.. ____ nu thittavum mudila. Pour your suggestions. Frustrating ponnu...

-Girl

24/12/2025

#17010

"Hi i posted here before in this forum thank you all for your support. I am a disabled professional. The current job market for disabled candidates is extremely limited, and this role is my only source of income—I am the sole earning member in my family. Leaving without an alternative is not an option for me right now.
I am facing heavy internal office politics. Earlier, I was naïve and approached HR hoping for support, but I later realized that HR is closely aligned with management, and raising concerns there has not helped my situation. In fact, it may have made things more complicated.
Despite this, I genuinely want to grow in my career, perform well, and protect my job. I am hardworking and committed, but navigating politics—especially as a disabled employee—has been very challenging. any advice from you will be very helpful"

-Guy

24/12/2025

#17009

"25M...This is for the girl I saw on a train last Thursday, 18/12. I started to my hometown from Chennai Central after finishing my Office at 3.50 noon.

For the first 15-20mins it was just a normal train journey as I travel frequently from Chennai to me hometown. I booked a side upper for the first time in 3 years as I had to finish some office tasks. As soon as I opened my laptop a guy asked me if I could switch seats as he was with his friends and he was allotted a seat in different compartment.

I agreed to switch as he had the SU too...and I believe that it happened coz I was destined to see that beautiful cutie pie-the one with the really cute smile....I couldn't take my eyes off her throughout the 5hr journey and I still cannot describe those moments in words. She was neither super modern nor too old fashioned but man she was tooo simple yet cute with that nice smile....with a adidas hoodie and a denim with embroided sandals and yes with a cute cute smile. I don't know if she was speaking tamil or kannada coz I speak another T language. She was traveling with her friends and not sure if she's a student or a working professional. To be honest I've seen many girls during my school, college and office but was never in a relationship even though many proposed as I wanted to stay out of such things but man this girl...she was too cute for me and for the first time I had butterflies in my heart...

I am kinda introvert who doesn't know how to initiate a conversation but can talk long once someone starts. Despite that I gave my everything to talk but I couldn't and finally dared to drop a note with a nice quote and my IG handle hoping to be contacted. I feel like I shouldn't have dropped a note instead initiated a conversation or atleast should have handed the note directly but that was all I could do at that moment.

I don’t know if my note reached you, and that’s okay even if it didn’t or if you chose not to respond.

It has been 5 days since then and I couldn't stop regretting on why I didn't even say a hi to her but whatever was bound to happen has happened and I am really happy that I was destined to see her....I was having a really bad year but girl you gave me that extra push that I needed.

I am writing this in belief that either you or your friends see this and if life gives a second chance, I’d love to meet you again to see you smile and say hello. "

-Guy

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