The Curvy Butterfly

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24/04/2026

Layering lab, episode: *the one that got away* šŸ“ø

Next up: T-shirt mini dress layered over wide-leg trousers with just a little peak of lace at the hem.

In the mirror? 10/10 confidence.
On camera? Served.
At the family braai when my someone took a pic? Immediate *ā€œnope, that’s a failā€* moment šŸ˜‚

I also accidentally deleted the last part of this video while filming.

And you know what? We’re posting anyway.

Because content creation isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up, experimenting, and reminding ourselves that real life isn’t curated angles 24/7.

Some looks hit, some miss in photos, but if *you* felt good in it — that’s the win. No one’s perfect and this is life. We wear the outfit anyway 🫶

Outfit Details:

Pants
Sandals
Scrunchie
Lace wrap
Bag
Necklaces

17/04/2026

ā€œLayering makes you look biggerā€

Myth: āŒ

Me in 4 layers looking like a snack: āœ…

Welcome to my Layering Lab Series, where we prove your plus/mid body can handle all the fabric if you know the science šŸ‘©šŸ½ā€šŸ”¬

Today’s experiment:

Step 1: Took a mini T-shirt dress. Cute, but my thighs said ā€œabsolutely notā€ to it solo.

Step 2: Threw a lace tiered skirt under it. Now it’s a top. Math.

Step 3: Realized the lace was giving ā€˜peek-a-boo with my knickers’ energy.
Fixed it with a polka dot nighty (old ) underneath. Yes, a nighty. We’re resourceful here.

Step 4: Looked up and saw I’d accidentally built a fabric tower on my torso.
Added a scarf to cut it in half. Call it fashion.

Step 5: Used the Rule of Thirds – 2/3 chaos up top, 1/3 floaty skirt at the bottom.

Proportions: balanced.

Step 6: Hair UP with a scrunchie .
Because when the outfit is serving volume, my neck needs to make an appearance or I’ll look like a stylish marshmallow.

Step 7: Sandals
Because even mad scientists need to walk.

Result: Comfy, covered, still got my shape, and I re-wore 3 pieces that usually rot in my closet.

Supporting acts:
White bracelet
Black resin bangle old
Ring .za
Bag

That’s a Layering Lab win!

What’s the ā€œtoo much fabricā€ rule you were told?

Drop it below and let’s test it next week in the Lab šŸ‘‡

15/04/2026

Effortless chic in an easybreezy way — and I mean that literally ✨

I know what you’re thinking: ā€œOne size fits most? I’m a size 18, nothing ever fits me.ā€

I’ve been there. But proved me wrong about 2 years ago.

These oversized fits actually fit. This dress is proof. Size 18, and I feel amazing in it.

Wearing something vs. styling it with intention are two different things.

I’ve styled this piece so you can see it work through every season — because confidence isn’t about the size on the tag. It’s about how you choose to show up.

And this?

This is what gives me the confidence to walk out the door and take on the world.

Jacket
Headband
Shoes .sa
Bag
Ring .za za
Necklace

13/04/2026

Just popped into .on.nutans today for a quick refresh ✨

One weft row moved up + my tape extensions (.safrica ) reinstalled and I’m feeling brand new šŸ¤

If you didn’t know… this place is NOT just a hair salon.

Hair, skin, laser hair removal, tanning, pedicures, lashes — literally a one stop beauty shop.

Shoutout to my Sonja the owner for always taking such good care of me and who is the sweetest human alive!

She even put contact on my diary so it wouldn’t scratch šŸ¦€

Ib: .with.zee_

09/04/2026

Me pretending I’m not obsessed with PRX Skin Booster

No injections āœ…
No recovery time āœ…
No pain āœ…

Just brighter, tighter, smoother skin that makes my Ring Light jealous.

My pores left the chat

Follow along because I have 2 more sessions to go for and dm Dr M if you need more details.

09/04/2026

Made for women in motion šŸ’›

From school runs to beach walks, this beauty does it all.

Vegan leather, vintage brass, maroon-red lining. Waist strap or crossbody sling.

Secret back zip for grab-and-go moments.

P.S. Pair it with the gingham set — available now on my website, made by .

And the bow blouse? She comes in all the colours…

VeganLeather

08/04/2026

Orange alert! 🧔

on Pampoenkraal Laan, Durbanville is going all out for King’s Day on April 25th!

Get ready for the biggest Dutch celebration, complete with all your faves like Bossche bolle en custard slices - but ORANGE!

You can even buy all these Dutch treats online! They’re celebrating at BOTH Durbanville and Tanzanite locations!

Want to join the orange-fest? Keep an eye on their stories for the RSVP link, and you can WIN one of two R1000 Vouchers.

Plus, did you know, if you rock up in activewear any day of the week, you get for 5% off, no questions asked! šŸ‡³šŸ‡±šŸ‘‘

27/03/2026

I went in for the skin screening consultation thinking I had a pretty good handle on my skin, and it was quite a humbling experience.

Seeing my skin analysed up close made me realize there’s more going on than I thought — but that honesty is exactly what I needed.

It opened up the conversation of what the target areas would be going forward and the treatments that make sense for me.

I left with a personalised treatment plan tailored to my goals.

It was also a valuable space to ask questions, get real insight into my skin health, and talk openly about expectations.

Ready to finally understand what your skin actually needs?

Comment SKIN below and I’ll DM you the booking link + more info.



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