Thandiwe karara ZW

11/11/2025

Thank you so much 💜💜💜

11/11/2025

19/09/2025

Narcissists are mean and really cruel at the end of the relationship because they don't care anymore.** They know the game is over - the mask has slipped, and you've seen their true self, the one they try so desperately to hide from the world. This realization infuriates them. You're no longer their loyal admirer, the one they could manipulate and gaslight into submission. Instead, you've become a threat someone who holds the truth, and that terrifies them more than anything. They punish you not because you did anything wrong, but because you dared to see who they truly are. Narcissists live in a fantasy where they are the victim, the hero, the misunderstood genius. When the illusion shatters, and the control is lost, they lash out with cruelty, coldness, and often shocking indifference.

This behavior is a desperate attempt to regain control and dominance over the situation. By twisting reality and blaming the victim, the narcissist can maintain their distorted self-image and avoid feelings of guilt or shame. The narcissist's need to rewrite history and distort reality is a testament to their fragile ego and inability to cope with the truth.

As the relationship ends, the narcissist's behavior becomes increasingly erratic and cruel. They may use tactics like smear campaigns, hoovering, or even outright harassment to try and regain control over their victim. However, these attempts are ultimately futile, and the narcissist is left to deal with the consequences of their own actions.

In the aftermath of the relationship, it's essential for the victim to prioritize their own healing and recovery. This may involve seeking support from trusted friends, family, or professionals, as well as engaging in self-care activities that promote emotional well-being. By focusing on their own needs and desires, the victim can begin to rebuild their sense of self and move forward with greater confidence and clarity.

15/09/2025

I swear Zuka is a female 😒😒

12/09/2025

Normalize treating men how they treat you
watch how fast they fold.

12/09/2025

Solo dates are therapy Had lunch all by myself at Lattitude hotel the view there is breath taking and refreshing staff is friendly and very patient the food is amazing i enjoyed it ,if you are in Capetown or happen to visit this is one of the places you should visit you can go chill there for sunset with the ocean view perfect spot to gather with friends and catch up 👌👌

12/09/2025

I wish heaven had cash app or ewallet. I know my ancestors see me struggling 😩😂 GM

12/09/2025

So you also wake up and sit on your bed then start deciding whether to go to work or fake your own death😭😭😭😭

11/09/2025

Munondiudza kuti ndisapinde nemoyo ,ndewenyu here moyo wacho😂😂