12/07/2025
My peaceful view from my patio, loving my new space that has given me lots of time to reflect. Yesterday I wrote about the full moon energy and releasing things and today I was faced with 2 situations that hit me all at once testing this very thing! How did I do? I failed miserably. I wish I could let go of things but it’s pretty hard when they keep popping up in front of you. There are only 2 options cut off or accept . It’s very black and white for me .
Things you can accept
1. Your emotions
You’re allowed to feel hurt, angry, or disappointed. Emotions are valid – they don’t make you weak.
2. That you can’t change others
You can only control your boundaries and reactions, not someone else’s choices.
3. Growth takes time
Letting go is a process. It’s not failure—it’s unfolding.
Things to cut off
1.People who ignore your boundaries
If they’ve shown you who they are, believe them.
2. Guilt for protecting your peace
Choosing yourself isn’t selfish. It’s survival.
3. Repeating the same painful cycles
If it keeps hurting, it’s time to step back. Healing isn’t found in chaos.
