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Chapter 2 — The Small Things That Go UnnoticedLove rarely breaks in a single moment.It often cracks slowly, almost silen...
15/08/2025

Chapter 2 — The Small Things That Go Unnoticed

Love rarely breaks in a single moment.
It often cracks slowly, almost silently, in the little things we fail to notice. A missed “good morning,” an unacknowledged effort, a compliment that was never said.

When respect and admiration begin to fade, not through arguments, but through quiet neglect, the bond starts to weaken.
A man who feels unseen will eventually begin to seek the feeling of being valued elsewhere.
A woman who feels unappreciated may start questioning her worth in the relationship.

It is in the small acts—listening when they speak, saying “thank you” for everyday efforts, remembering what matters to them—that love stays alive.

When partners stop cherishing the little moments, they unknowingly start creating distance.
By the time the silence is noticed, it has already grown into a wall.

Cherish the small things. They are the quiet language of lasting love.
In many relationships, the danger is not in the loud arguments, but in the silent cries that go unheard.
A man can stand strong in the storm, but the absence of appreciation slowly eats at his spirit. He may never say it aloud, but every unacknowledged effort, every unnoticed sacrifice, and every unspoken “thank you” becomes a brick in a wall between him and the one he loves.

Women often long for words of affection and acts of tenderness, while men long for admiration, respect, and recognition of their worth. When a man feels unseen, he may begin to question whether his place in the home is truly valued — and this doubt is dangerous.

The tragedy is that many relationships fall apart not because love was never there, but because love was taken for granted.
It is in the daily gestures — the look that says I see you, the words that say I am proud of you, and the actions that say I believe in you — that a man finds the fuel to remain devoted and faithful.

Before love breaks, notice the silent cry.

📖 BEFORE LOVE BREAKS — Chapter 1: The Silent DistanceIt never begins with shouting.It begins with quiet.A subtle silence...
14/08/2025

📖 BEFORE LOVE BREAKS — Chapter 1: The Silent Distance

It never begins with shouting.
It begins with quiet.
A subtle silence that grows between two people who once couldn’t wait to talk.

At first, it’s just tired evenings, distracted “how was your day?” and the feeling that the other person is listening but no longer hearing. Then slowly, the laughter fades, the eyes stop lingering, and the hands forget to reach for each other.

Love doesn’t usually break in a storm — it breaks in the drought.
In the missing little things.
In the unspoken words.
In the absence of appreciation.

The truth is, every heart longs to be seen, to be valued, to be admired. When that need goes unmet, it becomes the first crack in the glass — invisible at first, but dangerous if left unattended.

This is why we must notice when the distance is still small. Because once it grows, repairing it will take more than just “I’m sorry.”

💬 Tomorrow: Chapter 2 — When Respect Becomes Rare.

Before Love Breaks – Chapter 1The Silent CracksIt does not happen overnight.A love that once felt warm and unshakable sl...
13/08/2025

Before Love Breaks – Chapter 1

The Silent Cracks

It does not happen overnight.
A love that once felt warm and unshakable slowly begins to grow cold. Not because the two people no longer care, but because the little acts that keep a relationship alive are no longer present.

At first, it is subtle — a compliment that is never given, a word of thanks left unsaid, a listening ear that is no longer offered. These small omissions seem harmless, but they begin to pile up like dust on a once-bright window, dimming the light that used to shine so clearly.

Respect begins to fade, not because one has committed a great wrong, but because the other no longer sees them as they once did — admirable, capable, worthy of appreciation.

Many relationships do not break because of betrayal, but because of neglect.
It is the neglect of admiration. The neglect of affirmation. The neglect of seeing each other’s value and reminding each other of it daily.

If a man feels unseen in his own home, he will start looking for eyes that notice him.
If a woman feels unheard in her own heart, she will start listening to voices that understand her.

Before love breaks, it sends warnings.
The question is — do we hear them in time?
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"Africa’s pain is not only in her poverty — it’s in the hands that profit from keeping her poor.Until the chains of corr...
13/08/2025

"Africa’s pain is not only in her poverty — it’s in the hands that profit from keeping her poor.
Until the chains of corruption and monopoly break, the sons and daughters will keep rising."

We are excited to announce that starting today, we will be sharing one chapter every day from Before Love Breaks right h...
13/08/2025

We are excited to announce that starting today, we will be sharing one chapter every day from Before Love Breaks right here on this page.
A journey through love, respect, and the lessons that can save a relationship before it’s too late.
Stay tuned for Chapter One later today. ❤️📖

Scars of HonourThey thought the pain would break you,but it shaped you.They thought the scars would shame you,but they b...
12/08/2025

Scars of Honour
They thought the pain would break you,
but it shaped you.
They thought the scars would shame you,
but they became your crown.

Your story is not over —
it’s just beginning.

— From the book Scars of Honour

Africa, Your Scars Are Not Your ShameThey are proof that you have fought,proof that you have survived,proof that you sti...
11/08/2025

Africa, Your Scars Are Not Your Shame
They are proof that you have fought,
proof that you have survived,
proof that you still stand.

The world may see wounds,
but we see wisdom,
we see strength,
we see honour.

— Tonderai Makayi

Africa’s sons are awakening.Eyes once dim now burn with vision.Hands once idle now build with purpose.The chains of igno...
09/08/2025

Africa’s sons are awakening.
Eyes once dim now burn with vision.
Hands once idle now build with purpose.
The chains of ignorance are snapping,
and the drums of destiny are calling.
A new dawn is not coming —
it is here, and we are rising

💔 Before Love Breaks 💔*"Love rarely ends in a loud explosion.It fades quietly…When appreciation stops.When admiration dr...
09/08/2025

💔 Before Love Breaks 💔
*"Love rarely ends in a loud explosion.
It fades quietly…
When appreciation stops.
When admiration dries up.
When presence turns into routine.

Choose to speak love.
Show it.
Protect it… before it breaks."*

— Tonderai Makayi

💔 BEFORE LOVE BREAKS | DAILY WISDOM“When a man no longer tries to explain how he feels, it’s not because he doesn’t care...
08/08/2025

💔 BEFORE LOVE BREAKS | DAILY WISDOM

“When a man no longer tries to explain how he feels, it’s not because he doesn’t care — it’s because he’s already been dismissed too many times.”

Many relationships break not because of lack of love, but because voices go unheard.
Before love breaks, listen.
Before he stops talking, ask again.
Before the silence becomes normal, fight for the connection.

📘 Before Love Breaks — A heartfelt book by Tonderai Makayi
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📝 BEFORE LOVE BREAKS“Love doesn’t die suddenly. It fades in silence—when appreciation stops, when admiration dries up, w...
08/08/2025

📝 BEFORE LOVE BREAKS
“Love doesn’t die suddenly. It fades in silence—when appreciation stops, when admiration dries up, when presence is replaced with routine.
Speak love. Show it. Before it breaks.”

— Tonderai Makayi

THERE IS STILL HOPE FOR AFRICAWe have cried.We have lost.We have been misled.But we are not defeated.From the ashes of b...
07/08/2025

THERE IS STILL HOPE FOR AFRICA

We have cried.
We have lost.
We have been misled.
But we are not defeated.

From the ashes of betrayal,
A new generation is rising —
Rooted in truth,
Driven by purpose,
Awakened to rebuild.

Africa’s sons and daughters —
This is our time to rise.

✍️ Tonderai Makayi
📚 Author of Still I Rise | The Spirit Still Speaks | When Freedom Fails | I’m Not Above the Word | Before Love Breaks
📲 WhatsApp: +258 861 824 080
🔗 Facebook: Tonderai Makayi

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