15/07/2025                                                                            
                                    
                                                                            
                                            My journey with the mentoring spans over two decades. And thereโs one truth Iโve come to understand deeply. 
Relationships aren't built by accident. Theyโre built by intention. And shared values.
I was in my twenties when I gave my very first industry workshop. It was at the Durban International Film Festival, and I was representing the SABC. I had been asked to speak to a room full of 100 festival attendees. I had prepared my slides. Rehearsed my points. But when the day finally arrived, and I stepped in front of that crowdโฆ I froze.
I looked out into the sea of faces, not sure how to begin. My heart was pounding. And then, I made a spontaneous decision โ one that has stayed with me ever since. I picked out a few people in the audience, made eye contact, and simply asked: 
โWhat did you do this morning?โ
The answers were as ordinary and as extraordinary as life itself.
โI brushed my teeth.โ
โI made breakfast.โ
โI missed my flight.โ
โI had to deal with a family emergency.โ
And in that moment, the room changed. The tone shifted. People relaxed. We connected as human beings. People with messy mornings, anxious hearts, unexpected detoursโฆ people with stories.
That moment reminded me, and everyone else in the room, that storytelling always begins with authenticity. It set the tone for the entire workshop. And enabled me, through the intention of connecting with my audience, to engage with the shared value of why we were all there โ to learn from each other. 
 
And more than that โ it shaped my entire approach to mentorship. And my work.
Today, I sit in the role as the Chair of the Writers Guild South Africa. And this lesson is even clearer:
Just as relationships aren't built by accident โ neither is an industry.
An industry is built with intention. With shared values. With people who are willing to do the hard work โ together.
At WGSA, our mission is to protect, empower and develop performance writers in South Africa. We are committed to the growth of our creative sector. To the innovation that will future-proof our storytelling. To the sustainability that ensures our artists arenโt just surviving, but thriving. 
We are sitting on a continent rich in culture, story, talent, and innovation. But to unleash that potential โ we have to move with intention.
And we have to align around shared values.
We must champion:
Industry Regulation
Fair play
Equity
Real transformation
And an unwavering dedication to our Craft.
And we must reject โ at every turn โ the forces that threaten to undermine us:
Exploitation
Gatekeeping
Racism and Misogyny
Corruption
Because every time we choose integrity over shortcuts, every time we choose collaboration over competition, every time we mentor someone, uplift a peer, open a door that was closed to us โ We are building something. Not just a career. Not just a project. But a future. A legacy. An industry. 
One intentional connection at a time.