03/11/2024
Listen up, Men!
Let’s cut to the chase—if you spend your life bending over backward, sacrificing everything, and putting yourself last for a woman, you’re setting yourself up for a world of pain. Here’s the harsh truth: if you die risking your life for her, she’ll move on, and another man will take your place. And if you drain your wallet to impress her, she’ll blame you when you go broke and jump to the next man who has his finances together.
This isn’t about being cynical or heartless; it’s about understanding human nature and protecting yourself. A woman respects a man who respects himself first. When you put her on a pedestal and place yourself second, you’re communicating that you’re less valuable, that your needs and goals don’t matter as much. Guess what? She’ll start to believe it too. Women are wired to gravitate toward strength, ambition, and independence. If you lose sight of your own purpose and make her the center of your universe, you’ll find yourself abandoned when she senses that you’re no longer a challenge or a leader.
The problem isn’t that women are heartless; the problem is that too many men put themselves in positions of weakness because they’ve been sold a lie about “sacrificial love.” Real love is built on mutual respect, not blind sacrifice. If you’re constantly giving, giving, giving—money, time, energy—without taking care of yourself, you’re not loving her; you’re setting yourself up to be used and discarded. Women sense weakness, and when you put yourself last, you’re projecting insecurity.
Think about it: if you’re the type of man who sacrifices his dreams, goes broke, or puts himself in danger just to keep her happy, you’re not building attraction. You’re building dependency. And dependency is the opposite of respect. She wants a man who’s driven, who has his own life, who won’t drop everything just because she needs attention. She wants a man who leads, not one who begs for her approval.
Stop thinking love is about proving yoursel
