13/07/2025
TELL ME I'M WRONG - DON'T BE THAT GUY
When a Woman Says “Let’s See Where This Goes,” You’re Already Wasting Your Time
She won’t say yes. She won’t say no. She’ll just keep you circling.
Because she doesn’t want you to walk away. But she also doesn’t want to commit.
And if you’re not careful? You’ll waste the most expensive resource a man has: Time.
Let’s break it down:
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1. Dating Is Not Free When You’re a Man
Dinner. Drinks. Uber rides. Birthday surprises. Even a "simple date" isn’t simple when you're the one paying.
Add 2 hours planning the date. 2 more hours driving, talking, watching her eat while she talks about "just vibing."
Now you're out 10 hours and almost a grand. All while she’s still "getting to know you."
That’s not dating. That’s an unpaid audition.
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2. Women Say “Let’s See Where This Goes” to Delay Accountability
They want your effort. Your attention. Your investment.
But not your expectations.
She’ll play coy. Act like she’s unsure. Tell you she "needs time."
But in truth? She knows you’re not the one. She just doesn’t want to lose the perks.
So you get strung along. And she gets:
Free dinners
Free therapy
Free male attention
Free gifts
While you're being taxed for a title you don't even own.
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3. Your Time Is a Monetized Asset
Every hour you spend texting her? Is an hour you could be mastering your craft.
Every weekend you spend entertaining her? Is a weekend your competition is working.
Modern dating isn’t just emotionally expensive. It’s financially devastating.
Because you’re not just paying in dollars. You’re paying in hours. In headspace. In momentum.
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4. Big Investments with No Commitment Is Bad Business
Some men go all in. Pay her rent. Buy her a car. Drop R20,000 on a ring.
Just to "show her you care."
Meanwhile, she’s still saying: "Let’s see where this goes."
Let me help you out: If she doesn’t know where it’s going, it’s not going anywhere.
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5. The Sunk Cost Trap Will Keep You Begging
You’ve spent money. Time. Emotion.
Now you’re stuck trying to "make it work" because of what you've already poured in.
But that’s not love. That’s fear of loss.
You’re chasing return on an investment that was never mutual to begin with.
And she knows it.
So she keeps smiling. Saying "I’m just not ready yet."
While collecting every benefit of a man you should’ve saved for a wife.
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6. Stop Applying for a Role She Has No Intention to Fill
She wants the perks of a relationship. Without the responsibilities.
And you? You're auditioning for a position she won’t even name.
You deserve clarity. You deserve direction. You deserve a return on your energy.
If she can’t commit? Walk.
You’re not a placeholder. You’re a man.
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7. When a Woman Is Serious, You’ll Know It Instantly
There will be no games. No delays. No emotional gymnastics.
She’ll match your energy. Mirror your effort.
And most importantly? She’ll name what she wants.
Because real women don’t waste time. They build.
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Final Word:
Modern dating is expensive for men. And the cost isn’t just financial.
It’s the lost hours. The dead-end conversations. The energy you could’ve invested in building your legacy.
So next time a woman says, "Let’s just see where this goes"—
Tell her you know exactly where it’s going:
Nowhere.
And walk away.
Because kings don’t wait for someone else to define the destination. They set the course.
