03/02/2026
A Nigerian man has sparked online reactions after emotionally disclosing the challenges of raising his newborn alone. According to him, his girlfriend abandoned him with their baby just two weeks after birth, leaving him feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. In a viral video shared on TikTok, the distraught father stated that the baby's constant crying has made it impossible for him to work or function normally. He confessed that the pressure led him to consider a painful decision he never thought he would make. "My girlfriend left me with a two-week-old baby. The child has been crying nonstop. I can’t work, I can’t do anything. Two days ago, I took her to an orphanage so I could do what I want to do," he said. However, he revealed that this decision took a significant emotional toll on him, and the night he returned home without his baby, he felt an overwhelming sense of guilt and couldn't sleep. The next day, he returned to the orphanage and took his baby home, admitting that he couldn't live with the thought of abandoning his own child. "The day I took her there and got home, I couldn’t sleep. The next day, I went back and carried my baby. I no go fit oo. I carried my baby oo," he added. The man appealed to women, stating that he desperately needs someone who can help him care for the child. While some users offered words of encouragement and support, others argued that raising a child should not be reduced to seeking a caretaker under emotional pressure. One commentator wrote, "Parenting is not a joke, especially alone. I pray he gets real help." Another said, "Single father in the making, you all will know how it feels."