08/09/2025
Helo Ma.
I have seen you helping a lot of people and giving them clear clarity.
I've been seeking professional advice from many people but I don't seem to get the response I'm looking for.
My husband found me with one child and married me when he was one year old. 2017 we had our own child together. Both of them knew him as both their father. We were staying at his parent's house while he was still building our house. In 2021 I left and went home because of personal issues with his family but we were still seeing each other as we were waiting for our house to finish so we can move in with our children.
In 2022 we went to sign for civil marriage in court. We were supposed to move to the house the very same year. All of a sudden my husband changed. He stopped coming to see us. When I called him, he blocked my number. He started reducing the money he used to give us, saying that he's only supporting his child. I was devastated. I took him to the maintenance court and they ordered he pays child and spousal maintenance.
Since then I've been in an emotional rollercoaster. I heard he moved into the house but I never went there because I'm sc.ared of what I might find. I've not seen him in a long time. He neglected us and blocked every means of communicating I tried to make with him.
What do I do in this situation. I'm currently living at home but my family is no longer good to me. They feel like I have overstayed my welcome. I want to go to the house, but I feel like a complete stranger to him. Please assist me.
Thanks 🙏