09/01/2026
Dear ladies,
Dating is not a source of income A relationship should never replace your hustle or your sense of responsibility. Find something to do, secure a job, launch a business, learn a skill then date for love, companionship, and growth, not survival.
Depending on a man for basic needs puts unnecessary pressure on the relationship and slowly kills respect, both for yourself and for him. A man should complement your life, not become your employer or your emergency fund.
When you have your own, you love freely, you choose wisely, and you stay because you want to, not because you have no option. Build yourself first, secure your independence, and let dating be about connection, respect, and purpose.
Love is sweeter when it’s not mixed with desperation. Drop ❤️
