22/08/2020
Being a woman is scars,fears,love,anger and forgiveness.
We always celebrate women's day and women's month,it's put on the media,we remember the women of 1956 March and how brave they were. They Stood together despite their race, age or any other issues they faced in that era. These women had one goal in mind equal rights with freedom and they succeeded in it. This doesn't mean they had no fear or their lives were spared because they're woman,they had a goal to achieve.
As women we are deceived because we love and believe in love,we are raised and trained for marriage,children,taking care of a household but we never taught/prepared what to do when none of that happens. I would like us to forgive such teachings and understand the era our mothers where raised in and the woman before them. Some of us have felt the love of our mother while other have never seen or heard I love you from their mothers.
The society has women and men who are scared by their mothers and will die without getting an apology. A young girl being r***d by her father or uncle and her mother telling her to shut up and stop telling lies about her elders, a young man who's assault physically and sexual but he will never speak because men need to be strong and he should have been able to fight his perpetrator off. Again I ask we forgive our mothers and woman who have hurt us because they didn't know better then what they were giving us.
The society always play a major role of what a woman should be or behave,forgetting that most boys are not given the same teachings. Take a young woman who has children out of wedlock,she is shamed for it and her children are called busted children,however if a man comes with children the woman must love and care for them as her own. As strong,loving,caring and devoted women can be they need to be heard,loved and cared for. I understand we live in times were we as women bring each other down and gossip,again this has always been normal but it can change