24/08/2026
ONE — I WENT THROUGH HELL, BUT GOD FOUND ME ❤️🩹
I fell in love with this guy 6 years ago. We had a child together, and I truly believed we were building a life together.
When I was pregnant, he slept with a girl from next door. 💔
I found out. We talked about it, we solved things, and he promised me he would never do it again. And you know what? I forgave him. I chose to stay. I chose our family. I chose to move forward.
But guess what? It happened again.
This time, something inside me broke.
He started changing towards me. No matter how much I tried to make things work between us, he no longer wanted me the way he used to. He told me he wanted us to separate. He told me he loved me as his child's mother, but not as his woman anymore.
What hurt me even more was knowing that he could still be intimate with another woman, while with me, everything had changed.
He called me names. He harassed me. He told me I was crazy.
Guys… I went through hell. 😭
I became depressed and stressed. I cried. I questioned myself. I started asking, “Why me? What did I do to deserve this?”
My body also started going through things I couldn't understand. I experienced heavy bleeding, and emotionally I felt like I was falling apart.
Eventually, we sat down and tried to find out what was really happening between us. We even went to someone for help because we were constantly fighting.
And somehow, everything kept pointing back to that other woman.
She became part of the reason our relationship was falling apart. She was still in his life, and he eventually chose to continue dating her.
But there is something else I haven't even spoken about yet.
His family had a meeting about everything without me being there. Afterwards, his aunties called me, harassing me and calling me names. The disrespect I received was painful.
There are so many things that happened behind closed doors that I am not ready to speak about yet.
For a long time, I felt like I had lost myself.
I cried like a child. I asked myself over and over again, “Why me?”
But today, I am healing. Slowly. Bit by bit. ❤️🩹
I am learning that sometimes you can love someone with your whole heart and still be hurt by them. Sometimes you can give someone everything and they can still choose someone else.
But that does not mean you are worthless.
And through everything, God found me. 🙏🏽
When I couldn't find myself, God found me.
When I was broken, God comforted me.
When I felt alone, God stayed with me.
I am not completely healed yet, but I am healing.
And maybe my story will help another woman realise that she is not crazy. She is hurting. And there is a difference.
For now, I am choosing healing over explaining myself. I will tell the whole story when I am completely ready and strong enough to talk about everything.
Until then, please give me time.
PART TWO WILL COME WHEN I AM READY. ❤️🩹🙏🏽
