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07/07/2025

Abeg make I ask question…with wetin life don show you so far ,you still dey vex for your papa?You don see say your papa no lazy ….na him ticket cut ..e no lazy

02/07/2025

Hello THoA family ,

Our sister needs an advice from us ..but her post looks like she has already made up her mind ..yet she wants an advice from us …

Please read and advice ..Do not judge her ..If you don’t have an advice ,just scroll and pass biko

Good evening.
Please I would like to seek your advice on something important.
I had a child out of wedlock and I have been the one taking care of that child from the beginning. The father of my child asked for forgiveness for so many years but I later forgave him. Fast forward to now . He is telling me that if I would permit him to take the child abroad. He isn't living abroad but his family members do. I told him NO that I can't let another person raise my child when I'm still able and alive. I have been doing that for years so what's the big deal ? Gid has been there for him. I'm grateful to God.
His brother told me that he would like the child to live well that he doesn't want the child to suffer.
I was like my child isn't suffering we are doing fine and I'm not going to let you all set your eyes on her .Mind you they haven't seen the child physically and I will not let them no my address. How do they expect me to live my 6yrs old child to travel abroad while I'm here? Who is going to take care of her like I do? If they want to train the child or support in bringing the child up then they can do that but I will not allow anyone take my child away from me. NEVER!!!! I have been through a lot.
I hope I'm making the right decision

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17/05/2025

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I was once the center of attention of every man , the most admired, the most talked about. In my youthful days, beauty o...
13/05/2025

I was once the center of attention of every man , the most admired, the most talked about. In my youthful days, beauty opened many doors. I was loved, I was desired. But guess what? I’m still not married.

Not because I wasn’t enough, but because beauty alone isn’t what keeps a man. Some came for the face, not the soul. Some wanted the shine, not the substance. I learned the hard way that a woman must be more than just beautiful.

Build your mind. Know your worth, have values, be whole on your own. Marriage will come when it’s right, but don’t sit and think beauty is all you need. Life demands more than looks, work on yourself, grow, be the kind of woman that doesn’t just turn heads, but touches hearts. Because in the end, beauty fades, but character stays.

– Adunni Ade

26/02/2025

You will see children fighting over inheritance but you won't see them fighting to take care of their parents.why ? Why is this so ?

17/02/2025

“I checked my wife's phone yesterday and found out she is seeing someone, she sends him her nvdes, he is a well known politician in kaduna and i am so heartbroken.

I Really Love her and I can't wrap my head around what i saw. l had to check it over and over again. Whenever she goes out to buy something, they meet up and he even brings her back home.

We have 2 children together, her actions does not show off anything. I’ll never have guessed.

She knows how much I trust her, it’s been two days and I can’t seem to believe it.”

A distressed lover cries out

I'm a married woman who finds herself in a very tight corner of life. The fact is that, I am a corporate lady but a very...
17/02/2025

I'm a married woman who finds herself in a very tight corner of life. The fact is that, I am a corporate lady but a very private hook-up lady, before I got married 3 years ago to my husband.

To be fair, my female friends envy my success but the truth is that, they do not know what I do privately, to be the person I am. Fortunately, I got married to my dear husband, but started the hook-up thing once a while.
My serious concern is that just as I accepted my 3rd meeting with a man who liked my profile, it turned out to be a disaster.

Unfortunately, the man turned out to be a friend to my husband. I decided I won't sleep with him but he rather insisted to do it or tell my husband. Eventually, he had me for free, without paying anything and I lost 2,000 dollars just like that. My issue is whether am safe or he will still tell my husband everything, after sleeping with me. What should I do?

Story by omolabake,

Troubled Wife

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13/02/2025

Nobody making 10k usd a month will like to teach you how to make money from same source...your registration fee is their source of income..

No company will teach you how to trade Forex to make money from their platform...once you fund that wallet ...they pull the plug ..

That is why you make money from a demo account but lose your account once you go live...

It's all scam ....

I paid a camera man In full to cover my traditional marriage in July 2024. Paid part as booking, then balanced up a nigh...
12/02/2025

I paid a camera man In full to cover my traditional marriage in July 2024. Paid part as booking, then balanced up a night before because he insisted.
He confirmed all payments and sent a receipt.
Ladies and gentlemen, my mind was off there coz I believed everything was settled. On the deal day, he was supposed to be in my village by 10 to just record events going on at the moment. That was how this guy didn’t show up and we couldn’t reach him.

Was my day ruined? NO!
It was phone that was used to capture our moments.
My makeup artist could’ve done better in capturing, but she had another job. I didn’t bother calling him the next day and he didn’t call. I waited for him to call and state his excuses, he still didn’t for 2 good weeks and he was busy posting on instagram. People who reached out to him on my behalf complained of how arrogant he sounded and feels I can’t do anything. I didn’t even bother calling him out, I allowed the case to die like truly I can’t do a thing.

I reported the case to top officials which nobody knew coz they might inform him. They wanted to pick him on a day he was working, I said no, let the couple’s day not be ruined. He was picked up on September 5th and was released 31st of January. Before his release, I was tagged a wicked and bad person, but non of those got to me. I only made sure he didn’t do jobs last season so he’ll lose a lot of money and clients.

I am a very good and loving soul. But I return energy 100% and more. You can’t do bad and go free. I am a strong believer of Christ but I believe in vengeance.
Forgiveness is of the Lord.

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