Sir APM Lukwesa

25/07/2024

SECRETS TO HAVING A STRONG RELATIONSHIP

If you desire a loving and lasting relationship with your partner, you and your partner need to adopt the following habits below:

1. COMMITMENT: Commitment is very important if you desire to have a strong relationship with your partner. You have to decide to stick with your partner and make the relationship work irrespective of the flaws your partner might have. Couples who renew their commitments everyday, in words and deed, are on their way to having a strong relationship.

2. KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE: When you put your relationship on social media, you invite the public to your relationship. Keep your private matters private. It’s a relationship between you and your partner and not between you, your partner and the public.

3. KNOW WHEN TO LET THINGS SLIDE AND LEARN HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICTS: Finding ways to reduce the frequency of conflict in your relationship by letting go of the little things will help you build a strong relationship with your partner. Arguments are normal in a relationship but you should make sure you never insult your partner during an argument. Always listen to what your partner has to say during an argument.

4. LEARN TO LISTEN: Speaking less and listening more is important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. It’s important you always pay close attention to what your partner has to say. Ask your partner how his/her day went and listen to him/her talk about their day.

5. MAKE TIME TO DATE: Spending quality time with your partner is important if you desire to build a strong relationship. Nothing substitutes for time together. No matter how busy you are, always create time to go out on dates with your partner.

6. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER: Whether it be something as simple as watching a movie neither of you has seen, or something as extreme as skydiving, trying new things together as a couple is important if you want to have a strong relationship. Trying new things together keeps the excitement and passion going in your relationship.

7. COMPLIMENT YOUR PARTNER: You shouldn’t save the compliments for big events alone, make complimenting your partner a regular occurrence. You make your partner feel special and noticed when you compliment him/her and this helps build a strong relationship

8. NEVER PUT EACH OTHER DOWN IN PUBLIC: How you treat your partner in front of others matter if you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner. Never ever put each other down or say anything negative about your partner in public. Only say supportive and kind things to each other in public and save disagreements for when you both are alone.

9. NEVER GET TIRED OF SAYING “I LOVE YOU”: These three little words “I love you” are important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. No matter how long or hard your day was, always end your day by telling your partner how much you love him/her. End your day with the words “I love you”.

10. LEARN HOW TO COMPROMISE: You have to understand the value of compromise if you want to build a strong relationship. You may not always want to do what your partner wants but if it’s important to your partner, do it with a smile on your face.

11. Pray and Play Together: Couples that pray and play together stay together. Hand in hand each morning before you face the vicissitude of life, read a devotional and pray together.

Take turns to pray for your marriage, your challenges &your children. If its your turn to pray, lift your spouse's burdens to The Lord and thank God for the wonderful spouse He gave you.

Never miss an opportunity to celebrate life's milestones together. Celebrate anniversaries and birthdays. Make it simple and sweet. Play and laugh together. Be merry with the person you married and watch your love for each other grow from strength to strength.
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Class dismissed 🥂

25/07/2024

I called a married lady who was owing me money, but she didn't pick my calls.

I called 10 times more, still no answer. Knowing that her husband was not at home, I decided to send her this message:

"Hello Sisy, I'm not calling for the money. I just wanted to tell you that 2 girls were fighting over your husband in town today. It was a big fight and he was just there watching, until one of the girl managed to escape into his car and they drove off".

After some minutes, she called me but I ignored her. She kept calling and I found 21 missed calls from her and a message which read:

"Where was the fight?
Where did they go?
Did you Notice those girls? Please tell me, I am falling apart."

I just read and didn't respond. She called again, 5 times and I didn't answer, then another message from her:

"I have your money, please can we meet, so you tell me more?"

Then i replied, "Okay, you can Send it through my Horizon Bank South Sudan so that when I pass by the filling station to refuel, then I will pick you and drive you to one of the Girl's House because I know them."

After 2 mins, I checked my account balance, my money was fully paid.

I then switched off my phone and then I went to attend South Theatre Academy -STA😂😍😂
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Class dismissed 🥂

25/07/2024

A man who truly loves u will only break up with u for (these reasons, so be careful

1. Cheating.
2. Lack of respect.
3. Too much lies.
4. Too much pride.
5. U are insulting.
But remember a man who is just using you, he will never break up with you because of this because he knows very well that he is taking you no where 😳😳😒😣 I think you picked something.
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Class dismissed 🥂

22/07/2024

Joseph said to his brothers, “Come closer to me,” so they came near. Then he said, “I am Joseph your brother, whom you sold into Egypt.
Now, do not be upset and do not be angry with yourselves because you sold me here, for God sent me ahead of you to preserve life!"
Genesis 45:4-5

LESSONS TO LEARN FROM JOSEPH'S STORY;
●You can be hurt by those close to you.
●Forgive those who trespass against you; don't retaliate or seek revenge.
●Talk to those you forgive. Bridge the gap.
●Help and support them when in need.
●Never despise or look down on anyone in life - you may need help from the same person in future.
●All things work together for the good of those who love God.
●See good in every bad situation.
●The tables can turn - a prisoner can be a president; the despised can be favoured; the barren can become a mother of many children!
●Dont give up on your dreams.
● Remember the God-factor; He raises the zeroes to become heroes; the nobody to become somebody.
●Wait patiently for God's appointed time.
●When people "sold you," see it as God "sent you."
●Always remember that with God all things are possible!
●God is with you always, even in the pit, in prison, and in prominence.
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Class dismissed 🥂

21/07/2024

POSSIBLE REASONS WHY YOUR HUSBAND DONT WANT TO HAVE S*X WITH YOU.

1. CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE
No matter how sexy you are or dress, if you have a bad attitude, your husband will struggle to desire you. If you are ever complaining, negative, bitter, cold; he will keep off

2. CHECK HIS STRESS LEVELS
S*x starts in the mind. When a man is mentally strained, his p***s will struggle to erect. Worry and desire don't mix

3. CHECK YOUR HYGIENE
Your husband might want to do stuff to your body but if you don't keep clean or take showers, he might find it difficult to do more than just pe*******on

4. CHECK HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH P**N
A husband who is addicted to p**n or ma********on will rarely make sexual advances on you, you will be in competition with the fantasies in his mind and on his phone, not to mention his hand. If he is addicted, don't judge him; support him to break the habit

5. CHECK YOUR TONE
The wife's tone can easily turn off a man. A wife's tone can even make a husband keep coming home late, not because he is cheating but because her tone is unwelcoming. Does your husband enjoy your company or do you expect him to love your presence even when you are harsh to him? If he won't enjoy your presence, he won't desire you

6. CHECK YOUR PAST RESPONSE TO HIS ADVANCES
Many wives turn down the husband's advances then expect he will easily come back when she eventually wants pleasure. Men get tired too. The more you poor cold water on his advances, the more you push him away

7. CHECK IF YOU PRAISE ANOTHER MAN MORE THAN HIM
If you are ever praising your pastor, ex, father, brother, boss, favourite celebrity or another woman's husband whilst you belittle him; you will bruise his ego. Men make love with their ego. Bruise his ego and you will discourage his fire for you.

8. CHECK HOW YOU TREAT HIM IN PUBLIC AND PRIVATE
If you disrespect him or talk down at him in front of others or the children, it will affect him just like it would affect you if he did it to you.
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Class dismissed 🥂

21/07/2024

Did you know why do female cats scream during mating?

It is well observed that a female cat will scream, screech or become very aggressive during or just after mating with the tomcat. When cats mate they caterwaul and it can be quite loud.

The reason for this aggressive behaviour is that the tom cat’s p***s has little barbs or spines on it.

When the p***s is inserted the spines lay flat, but when withdrawing the p***s, the spines cause a raking action on the female’s cat’s va**na, causing pain, and so the female reacts by attacking the male.

Why does the tom cat’s p***s have spines?

Female (virgin) cats who have not mated do not ovulate. The pain caused the first time the female cat mates causes shock, initiating the ovulation cycle (this will take a little over 24 hours to actually begin).

The female is then ‘on intense heat’ for around 3 days. A queen may mate as quickly as 30 minutes after the first copulation.

Why does the male (tomcat) bite the female on the neck during mating?

This all explains why the female cat is so angry and tries to swipe the male, and also why the male has to be very careful not to get injured – hence why he holds the female by the neck (scruff of the neck).

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Class dismissed 🥂

20/07/2024

Being silent doesn't mean You have nothing to say, sometimes silence is the best way to avoid unnecessary drama
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20/07/2024

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18/07/2024

Mostly, women chase those who don't chase them, and love those who don't care for them.

They will abandon the good guys and go all out for those b@d boys who barely have any serious intentions towards them aside that of having fun with their b***s and coochies with them.

After they have been used, reused, overused, damaged, shattered, battered, broken, destroyed, acquired lots of body count, have taking more abortion and contraceptive pills than a balance diet and dumped by the b@d boys, they will now want to fall back to the good guys.

The only time the good guys become their spec is when they are damaged and the b@d boys are no longer interested in them.

When most ladies are fresh, ripe, beautiful, less d@maged, innocent, they reject the good guys.

The only time the good guys become an option is when most of these ladies bectnow single moms with a factory of babies.

The only time they need a real man is when all hope is lost, that moment where they're tired of playing bed to bed midfield, playing around, taking abortion pills, sucking community c***s, jumping from one hotel to the other. Age catches up with all ladies and they need to retire.

The good guys take the leftovers while the bad boys eat her fresh.

They will friend zone the good guys until they are tired of being wh**es, being passed around like toys by different men, and that's may be after 12 years.

At that moment all that matters to them is fun, fun, fun until when they have been destroyed then they seek for the good man to save them.

My brother, never be that good and understanding man.

If she rejects you in her prime, don't have anything to do with her in your prime.

If she friend zone you in her prime, enemy zone her in your prime.

You deserve much better.

You must not be that understanding man who will accept rubbish into your life

Let me tell you this; such women hardly change for any good.

They have seen more than you can see. You can't tame any one of them.

If she says she has repented, fine, let her repentance be for another man but not you.

Be wise, the hole phase is real.
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Class dismissed 🥂

17/07/2024

17/07/2024

MEN READ THIS & SAVE YOURSELVES

The beginning of your downfall with a woman is when you start making her too comfortable, pedestalizing her, treating her more than she deserves.

You need to understand that women are very very egotistic creatures and when you try to be everything she wants you to be in her life, she will start treating you like trash, her treating you like stems from the fact that your excessively nice behavior towards her.

She will start seeing herself above you, she will start feeling that you don't deserve her, she will start thinking that she's doing you a favour for dating you.

Understand life.

Once you give a woman everything she wants and needs from you, in no time you will become boring to her and she will start loosing interest in you.

This is why you must always withhold some of what she needs from you, its not wickedness. Its called maintaining balance and leadership.

Being nice won't pay you when it comes to women, it will only ruin you.

Be wise.
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Class dismissed 🥂