23/10/2025
Hi everyone, I really need some honest advice, please.
I’ve been married for 3 years now, but unfortunately, my husband and I haven’t been able to have children. After years of trying and feeling broken inside, I made a mistake that I’m deeply ashamed of. I got involved with another man. I know it was wrong but at that time I was desperate and depressed.
Not long after that, I fell pregnant but sadly, I had a miscarriage. It completely broke me. I felt like less of a woman and hated myself almost to a point of committing su***de. A few months later, I found out I was pregnant again.
Now here’s where my dilemma is; I’m not sure who the father of this child is. I believe it could be my husband’s but the other man insists it’s his. He’s even threatening to expose everything and ruin my marriage if I don’t acknowledge the child as his.
I love my husband and don’t want to lose him or my baby. I’m scared, confused and emotionally drained. I know I’ve made terrible choices but I really just want to fix things and protect my family.
Please, what can I do to handle this situation the right way without losing everything?
