31/12/2024
Dear Men, This will save you from unnecessary stress in 2025 🙏
In 2025, it's time to avoid high-maintenance relationships with women who lack visible sources of income. To achieve greatness, a man needs a partner who is an asset, not a liability. A supportive partner uplifts you, whereas a superficial one drains your resources. Your primary duty to a girlfriend is respect and courtesy; you do not owe her financial maintenance or the burden of footing her bills. Free yourself from this outdated mindset. If she mentions her wig is due, share a job advert instead. If you feel the need to maintain someone, prioritize your mother, caring for her is a blessing that attracts divine favor.
Reflect on the choices you made in 2024. Consider how much you spent on transport money for girls, many of whom now flaunt luxury items while you struggle financially. Let 2025 be a year of reprioritization and personal growth. Investing your resources unwisely, particularly in fleeting relationships, can derail your progress. Redirect that energy into building yourself financially and personally to attract women who bring value, ambition, and stability into your life.
Stop financially maintaining women you are not married to. It’s like nurturing a lizard and expecting it to transform into a crocodile. A wife is like a seed; when nurtured, she flourishes, bringing growth and prosperity into your life. On the other hand, financially dependent romantic relationships are akin to watering weeds. The more attention you give them, the more they consume the space meant for productive endeavors.
If you’re dating a woman who doesn’t pressure you financially, pays her own way, and values her independence, recognize her as a treasure. Women like this do exist. They may not bleach their skin or enhance their bodies surgically. They may wear their natural hair and avoid flashy lifestyles. Yet, these qualities signify authenticity and reliability, better a modest, genuine woman than one whose beauty fades with a simple wipe of a hot towel.
One of the gravest mistakes a man can make is assuming that a woman he financially supports loves him unconditionally. While it's possible, it’s far more likely she loves the benefits of your wallet. The only way to discern true affection is to withdraw financial support. Genuine love endures even without monetary contributions; anything else is transactional and fleeting.
Romance built on financial dependency is as unreliable as a politician's campaign promises. Adopt this golden rule in 2025: do not give money to any woman who isn’t your wife. If she stays, she’s committed to you. If she strays, you’ve saved yourself from unnecessary heartbreak. Let this be your guiding principle, no exceptions.
