Luckson G Kakole Inspired

04/12/2024

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03/07/2024

Six (6) darkest manipulation Tactics women used to control you.

Understanding these behaviors can help you recognize and address them in your relationships.

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1). Emotional Blackmail: Emotional Blackmail is one of the most insidious forms of manipulation. It involves using guilt, fear and obligation to control someone for example a woman might say if you loved me you would do this for me.

I can't believe you would hurt me like this. these statements can make you feel responsible for her happiness or distress leading you to comply with her demands to avoid guilt or fear of losing her

2). Gaslighting: gaslighting is a psychological tactic where the manipulator makes you doubt your own perceptions and reality. A woman using this tactic might deny events that you clearly remember twist facts or accuse you of being overly sensitive or paranoid over time this can erode yourself confidence and make you more dependent on her version of reality giving her more control over you.

3). Playing the Victim: playing the victim
playing the victim is a manipulation tactic where someone portrays themselves as helpless or wrong to gain sympathy and control.

A woman might exaggerate or fabricate stories of how others have mistreated her to elicit your pity and support. This can make you feel compelled to protect and care for her often at the expense of your own needs and boundaries

4). Silence Treatment: The Silent treatment involves refusing to communicate or acknowledge your presence as a form of punishment, when a woman uses this tactic she creates a power imbalance by making you desperate for her attention and approval. This can lead you to apologize or concede to her demands even if you're not at fault just to end the uncomfortable silence and restore communication.

5). Triangulation: Triangulation is a tactic where a woman brings a third party into your relationship to create jealousy, competition or insecurity. she might flirt with someone else ta

02/07/2024

principles of integrity:

1. Be honest in all interactions
2. Keep your word and fulfill commitments
3. Take responsibility for your actions
4. Treat others with respect and fairness
5. Stand up for what's right, even when difficult
6. Maintain confidentiality when required
7. Give credit where it's due
8. Avoid conflicts of interest
9. Be transparent in your dealings
10. Admit mistakes and learn from them
11. Follow through on promises
12. Respect others' property and rights
13. Uphold ethical standards consistently
14. Refuse to engage in or tolerate corruption
15. Communicate openly and truthfully
16. Make decisions based on moral principles
17. Lead by example
18. Strive for excellence in all you do
19. Show empathy and compassion
20. Maintain professional boundaries

These principles can guide ethical behavior in personal and professional life.

28/07/2023

It's a beautiful thing to serve the Lord.
After a speaking session during love is a verb week of prayer.

02/05/2023

The LORD knew what scientist have now discovered - that repetition creates new neural pathways in the brain and thus changes habits and automatic behaviours.
This is why Moses kept saying - remember, don't forget - or as Paul said "be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may discern what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God." Rom 12:2. This why the LORD instituted the feast days to help them remember-
Deut 6:4-9

Roughly half of your brain is made of grey matter (where neural pathways are forged and reside) and the other half is made of white matter. More on this in a moment. First it’s key to know that neurons that fire together, wire together. This means to learn something new, to set a new habit in place, repetition is required. When you practice something deeply, intentionally, and with some element of struggle a neural pathway is formed. Neurons are now firing together in a new sequence, and thus are wiring together as a collective. Repeated firing signals that this neural pathway is important. Repeated firing with deep practice and either struggle or ecstasy, alerts oligodendrocytes and astrocytes that this pathway needs to be upgraded, or insulated, and the process of myelination begins.
The newly forged and repeatedly fired neural pathway is then insulated like an electrical wire wrapped in a protective coating. This pathway (grey matter) is strengthened via the myelin (white matter) insulation and it is transformed from the equivalent of dial up to broadband. Heavily myelinated neural pathways are up to 300 times faster—they’ve been optimized for speed and efficiency. They’ve also become the default behavior, as the brain will choose the most highly myelinated pathways (because clearly they are the most important). This is how we form new automatic behaviors, also known as habits or habitual behavior choices.

Neural Pathways

11/02/2023