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07/10/2024

Varume kana usisachade mwana wevanhu unomudzosera kumba kwavo nyangwe ak*tadzira sei. Izvi ndozvinozoita k*ti mudirwe mafuta akabhoiliswa makarara.

06/10/2024

Hi Nicole i don't know what to do anymore because of what i read from other posts. I've been dating my guy for 2 years. i found out recently that he's married and has a 4 months old daughter. his family knows me and treats me like im their child but for the 9 months he's been married i never found out. almost every weekend he will be with me im a virgin so now im worried what if he's only after that. my family and his do gatherings once every 2 months but i never found out about the marriage. i asked him to be frank with me he said the lady did something to get pregnant i love you only. He also says it was a once off thing but the lady kept the pregnancy and since it was his child he married her but never touched her but supports her and the daughter. trust me he has never done anything to my body without asking for permission even when i give in he always controls himself and says we should wait for marriage like i said uk*thi no s*x before marriage. hes been good to me since day 1, he never changed always there for me even ndikava stranded time ipi ane ari ready to come to my rescue even ndikamuka kana na 3am he answers. his pay ndini ndoplanner what to do with it inin yangu anoti ita zvaunoda nayo apa aitoti if you don't trust me ndakuudza the wife k*ti mari mopihwa nabae wangu. i need advice guys his family the mother always posts me my muroora even the dad.
help with advice if im to continue or (edited)

06/10/2024

Hi Nicole..ndinewo nyaya yangu ..I once met this guy who was was divorced with 3 kids ..so he was ndikuda mukadzi wekurora achachengeta vana vangu and handichada vamwe vana ndikamuti but ini handina vana ka I also want mine akati wakura already and there is a possibility yek*ti hauzvare apa I was less than 40years and aiva kuma 40years so better tiite zvevana vedu ihhh I was hurt and ran away with my life 🤣🤣🤣..so this guy only wanted someone who can be mother to his kids not kurora zve love (edited)

06/10/2024

hie Nicole
I was married to a man who had 2 kids from his previous marriage.We dated for 2 years ,back then I was the kumbumura washen typical girlfriend.
Aiwa rudo ndaipiwa ,He would meet my every need and I thought that was love.Kumba kwedu he was the mukwasha even before we got married.He would ask mama havana here chavarikuda ,if anything he would provide.
Ayewa we got married zvakanaka zvinengei.Ndokuitawo wangu mwanakomana.Kungosvika nek*toita mai kumhuri hombe .He had a lot of responsibilities kumba kwavo as the only son, 2 sons from previous marriage.Mama vake passed away kudhara so apparently I had to fill the gap .The family needed a mother ,his father would say.
I was young yet I had to be a mother to the whole family.Trust me I was good at it.
I neglected myself and concentrated on everyone else.I became the mother to the 2 boys and everyone else.
While I was good at mothering his family he was good at cheating.Asi semwana akadzidziswa k*tu Mwari vanovenga kurambana ,I stayed,the biggest mistake I ever made.
5 years into the marriage he realised he was still in love with his baby mama.It took me years to heal from our last conversation ,"if you want to stay you can stay but you will always be the maid" ,he said

This is it,he never loved me ,he loved what I could do.
He loved what I offered.
He wanted a mother and maid for his family and I suited that position very well. (edited)

06/10/2024

Nicole hide Been typing and deleting but I'm also one of those who are married but zvaramba. we got married in January and if we count the number of insults and abuse I have endured chero akaroorwa 10 years ago arinani. vanhu vese vandinoshand navo are my boyfriends, I'm not allowed to do any activity kubasa outside going to work and coming home. his salary handiizive and the problem started pandakati if I don't see yours I cant give you mine. at one point, he asked for his roora back, I calculated the amount and deducted all the monies i had loaned him and his family ndikati huya utore. my parents tried to give it back akaramba and left with his belongings. After 1 hour he came back apologized and we decided to continue as a couple. I have received death threats almost everyday, I will attach pictures for you alone please don't share. Recently we had a major fallout and he asked me to send everything that belongs to him and that we are over. I did pack everything of his and sent it to his workplace, I think iye he didn't think I would do that because each time yaaiti hunza zvinhu zvangu ndairamba. When I did, he started sending me pictures (nudes) of his, as he claim "fiance". His side of the family literally gave up helping and MIL told me k*ti ndokuda asi uyu munhu uyu haagarike naye nesuwo takamukonewa. From my end my family told me to come home, just yesterday my dad was at my place upping my security because of the threats that he has been sending. i laugh sometimes when I see young women obsessing over marriage. After this I don't see myself settling, unfortunately I suffer from PCOS and my chances of conceiving are 50/50 which is another thing he wld use against me.

06/10/2024

Goodmorning Sis Nicole please hide ID firstly I would like to say I found a big sister that I don't have have been hesitating to send a message to you .Today I found the courage especially on this topic yekuroorwa I will try to make it short as possible .So I met a guy and we started dating some time last year and takanetsana within a month akanditi let's stop talking for a week and I did listen to him .Fast forward within 4months of our relationship anga atondiramba kathree and I still accepted him in my life why because he was always promising to marry i feel I was desperate for marriage and I ignored every advice given by those close to me including my own mother .So after we had broken up the third time this guy came back into my life and I accepted because he had said he had changed just out of desperation of getting married I accepted but he did not changed now this time he showed me flames to an extent that he failed to respect my own parents akavafonera achivaudza k*ti mwana Wenyu handichamude apa remember this person angaasina kubvisira also akavaudza that we had be intimate but it can not make him marry me ,not only that pandakarambwa ndaive kumba kwavo ndakadzingwa kunge imbwa Kerri and I also lost my job at the same time because I was now investing in a relationship that never existed but it only existed musoro mangu .I thought I loved him but it was not love ndaiti KO community ichati chii .My world shattered and the words dzaakandiramba nadzo ndidzo dzirikubuda pano k*ti he never loved me and he can't build a family with me .I was hurt but I later on accepted it .So now as I was reading all this messages I was like yaa true they are other people who marry for the wrong reason and it will cost them . A month later the guy returned again and his said I want to marry you I am not growing any younger and you are the typical girl I want to stay with forever I want you to be a house wife uchichengeta vana vangu and he really knew that I am that kind of person that does not like to be a stay at home mom ndoda kuzvishandira I can't be someone's housewife with all that I want archive in life i ran away with my life and dignity .I lost myself after all this and I am working on myself from scratch and your page and your guidance is helping me keep on the good work sis Kerri

06/10/2024

NICOLE . I didn’t know about you until I saw a colleague’s WhatsApp status. First of all you are God sent and you’re to me a God’s mouth piece! Nek*ti unotumwa Mwari vanoti vanhu vangu vaparara nekushaya zivo and iwewe wauya kuzopa zivo! Achatadza kuk*tererawo waedza keep it up!!! Panyaya yako yandiunza pano yek*ti kuroorwa kuratidza k*ti unodiwa here apo. Inini I was late in the marriage race my friends, cousins workmates and school mate of the same age had families and most vatove nevazukuru Kerry. Then this mtaks whom I had seen as a friend for a while asked me out, at first I was not sure about our age difference as he was 6years younger than me but apart from that he ticked all boxes. Aiziva rudo or so I thought, he made me feel loved and valued. In two months of dating he proposed marriage and cows came home, five months down the line I realized he was seeing his old girlfriends and his baby mama as well. Aita yaalover nguva yaada. He would come back home late and do as he wished. I then base chats with his buddies and he was telling a friend of his that “he can do as he pleases because mukadzi waakaroora mukuru kwaari and haana mamwe ma options she has no basis to ask me where I go and what I do ndiri jack pot rake haawane murume akaitaseni ne age yake vezera rake chaivo vakamusiya” my tears broke. I confronted him directly and he said you are overthinking it. It occurred to me that he never married me for love but for security reasons ONLY. To make him feel safe that he can never be cheated nor questioned. We are still married but not for long. I am working on my exit plan.

06/10/2024

Hi Nicole please post anonymously
Ini hangu i agree k*ti people don’t always marry for love as I can relate
My husband and I met through a friend tese tatichangobva kunyiswa ne mjolo
In my mind it was jus some relationship “ye k*tamba” while I waited for my main man k*t tizogadzirisane sezvo yaive long term relationship
Zvisinei hazvo I got pregnant “mu k*tamba” 3 months into the relationship
I told guy ahana kuramba ff takaroorana (because of nhumbu)
We were so awkward together infact taisatozivana much but I thank God we created room to know each other fully and learn to really connect
Now we are that couple yekwa Tongai Moyo (nemumvura mese)
Well we’re not perfect but haaa I’m grateful, sometimes I wake up ndomutarisa akarara k*t Mwari makaita henyu makandipa uyu maiziva henyu zvakandifanira.
8 years and 3 kids later zvirikuita kuno😊