Love Truth and Freedom Movement

13/12/2025

12/12/2025

WHY IS PO*******HY DIFFICULT TO RESIST?

For most people p**n is difficult to stop watching. Why is that? First of all, it is because p**n is exciting to watch – it is a super stimulus. Yes, we are s*xually wired, and this means we become s*xually aroused by anything that is s*xually stimulating. The challenge, however, is p**n hijacks this natural curiosity by breaking all boundaries of what is s*xually possible to do. In other words p**n will provide all possible s*xual fantasies in a huge dose. You can't refuse to watch because it's too much for your mind to handle. Imagine someone offering you a mouthwatering dessert 🍨 or your favourite food in huge quantities. Nor easy to resist. So once you watch it, p**n seems to give the idea that there is more to watch, more exciting than what you just watched (and there's always more). So you start searching and scrolling down the p**n websites looking for the next dopamine hit, and you are gone. You feel you can't resist the urge because you really want to explore the urge. P**n gives you a reward with no effort from you. In a normal human relationship there is a process to follow before people are ready to have s*x, but with po*******hy you feel like all these thousands of women or men want to have all types of s*x activities with you NOW. It doesn't help either that p**n is accessible to anyone; people are sending leaked s*x videos to each other on social media platforms (e.g., WhatsApp). In fact, it seems as if you do not need to actively seek out po*******hy; it comes to you automatically. Our day-to-day experience is more about resisting a s*xual temptation that is being pushed to you. Most movies include a s*xual scene, and most online videos feature someone being s*xually suggestive; it is nearly impossible to be active online without encountering some form of nudity or s*xually provocative content. Our minds are constantly being primed to accept s*xual content, and over time our guard becomes lowered and we stop resisting. Lastly most people generally don't see anything wrong with indulging themselves with s*xually explicit content once in a while. It has become something we believe we can't avoid. This means we are more open to watching people have s*x than we realise or admit. We are possibly living at a time when people are more open to random s*x with strangers – the "perfect" p**nographic script (who would not want free random s*x whichapparently has no negative consequences? This is a perfect s*xual fantasy).

We must make a conscious effort to stay away from anything that is s*xually immoral.

1 Corinthians 6:18-19: "Stay away from s*xual immorality! All other sins that people commit are outside of the body, but s*xual immorality is a sin against your own body. Don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit that is within you, that you received from God?"FBV

12/12/2025

Stop trying to be disciplined. Start making bad choices harder to make.

You don't resist junk food—you don't buy it. You don't fight distractions—you delete the app. You don't battle temptation—you never put yourself in the room with it.

Willpower is a finite resource. Environment is a system.

One depletes. One compounds.

Design your surroundings for the person you're trying to become. Then you don't have to fight yourself every day.

The people with the best self-control? They rarely use it. They just set up their life so they don't have to.

12/12/2025

12/12/2025

A lot of us grew up thinking toughness was the goal.
Hold it together. Don’t break. Push through.
But surviving isn’t the same as getting better.
If you’re constantly on edge, constantly defending, constantly pretending you’re fine… that’s not healing — that’s exhaustion.
You deserve more than survival.
You deserve spaces where you can finally breathe, be honest, and be safe enough to grow.
This week’s article digs into why safety matters more than we think — and why healing can’t happen without it.
Read it here: https://###church.com/men/when-safety-is-in-short-supply.html

12/12/2025

12/12/2025

P**n has lied to you about consent.

Despite what is often depicted in p**n, real consent is informed, mutual, and can be revoked at👏any👏time👏

Learn more in our FREE docuseries, "Brain, Heart, World": https://ftnd.org/bhw

11/12/2025

"Escaping the Tornado" is a powerful real-life story of addiction, heartbreak, healing, and redemption. One woman’s journey through the storm of po*******hy addiction in her marriage reminds us that God can calm even the fiercest winds.

If you or someone you love is caught in the tornado, don’t battle it alone. Read the full story and find hope in the healing: https://humans*xuality.org/escaping-the-tornado-overcoming-po*******hy-addiction

11/12/2025

GOD ALWAYS PROVIDES A WAY OUT

1 Corinthians 10:13: "You won't experience any greater temptation than anyone else, and God is trustworthy. He won't allow you to be tempted more than you can bear, and when you are tempted, he will provide for you a way out so you can stay strong." FBV