05/29/2026
When our girls were little, an older parent told me that when their kids turned 13, they celebrated by taking a trip with just that child and the parents.
This year, our youngest turned 13, and David and I took our last “13th birthday trip.” 🥹
Honestly, it’s never really been about the trip itself. It’s about the conversations that happen when you finally get uninterrupted time with just them.
“What are you most excited about as a teenager?”
“What makes you nervous?”
And then comes the question that always makes us take a deep breath before asking…
“What are we getting right as parents, and what are we getting wrong?” 🫣
That question can be humbling, eye-opening, and incredibly insightful coming from a 13-year-old.
These moments are so special, and I’m thankful we’ve made this tradition part of our family.