Chats With Flo

09/17/2025

📖✨ New Book Alert! ✨📖
Launching Oct 1st 🎉

💐 Perfect for Pastor’s Wives
💐 Women in Ministry
💐 Christian Women growing in God

👉 Pre-order the eBook TODAY!
https://a.co/d/dDKhlcQ

09/16/2025

Are you a pastor’s wife struggling with fear and insecurity? You’re not alone. In this short clip, I share 3 powerful tips to help you move past self-doubt, build confidence, and embrace your calling.

💐👉 Watch the full video here for even more encouragement:https://youtu.be/Dvda_q2B9HA?si=eujcxfEZEvoEDF-_📖

And don’t miss my brand-new book: From Fear to Flourishing: A Pastor’s Wife Guide to Overcoming Insecurity & Thriving in Ministry.✨ Order today: https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/3a58e9049c

You are called, equipped, and chosen. Don’t let fear hold you back—you are meant to flourish!

09/15/2025

🌸✨ **Exciting News!** ✨🌸

My **new book launches October 1st** 🎉 and I couldn’t be more excited to share it with you!

📖 **Order the eBook today!**
📚 The **paperback and hardcover** editions will be available to order on **October 1st**.

This book is written straight from my heart to encourage, equip, and empower:
💐 Pastor’s wives who want to thrive in their role
💐 Women serving in ministry who need strength and encouragement
💐 Christian women who desire to grow deeper in their walk with God

Inside, you’ll discover:
✅ How to embrace your calling with confidence
✅ Keys to balancing ministry, marriage, and personal growth
✅ Encouragement to overcome fear, insecurity, and self-doubt
✅ Practical wisdom to help you flourish in your unique role

This is more than a book—it’s a **guide to thriving as a woman of God** no matter where you serve. 🌿

👉 ✨ Order My New Book (eBook + Amazon Options) ✨
https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/3a58e9049c

Let’s grow together, ladies—because when you flourish, the people around you flourish too. 💖

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09/09/2025

Have you ever wondered, “Can God really use me?” 💭

As a pastor’s wife, it’s easy to battle with fear, insecurity, and constant comparison. But here’s the truth: God doesn’t call the qualified—He qualifies the called. 🙌

I just uploaded a new video:
👉 Can God Really Use Me? Overcoming Fear & Comparison as a Pastor’s Wife

If you’ve struggled with public speaking, insecurity, or feeling “not enough” in your role, this is for you. 💛

🎥 Watch here: https://youtu.be/Dvda_q2B9HA?si=ik-j1C4NmwqMZTbe

✨ And don’t miss the BIG ANNOUNCEMENT I share at the end of the video—it’s something I’ve been working on just for you!

Do you ever find yourself asking, “Can God really use me?” Maybe you struggle with fear, insecurity, or constant comparison as a pastor’s wife. You’re not al...

07/24/2025

Lonely, but Called. 💔💜

If you’re a pastor’s wife or a woman in Christian leadership…
And you’ve ever felt emotionally disconnected, misunderstood, or just alone…
This video is for you.

🎥 Why Being a Pastor’s Wife Feels So Lonely
https://youtu.be/-wa6mnYuMAQ?si=2msc1ddS6aLSNvio

You’re not the only one feeling this way—and you don’t have to keep carrying it in silence.

✨ I also created a free devotional to help refill your soul this week.
https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/5bef53f201

You’re not just surviving… you’re being shaped to flourish. 🌸

What’s Inside:​ ✅ Daily scriptures to ground you ✅ Devotionals to speak to your unique calling ✅ Reflection questions and prayers ✅ Encouragement for your marriage & ministry

07/17/2025

🚨 Premiering Today at 2 PM CST! 🚨
Pastor’s Wives — Don’t believe the lies!
The enemy wants you discouraged and stuck. In today’s new video, I’m exposing 3 lies he tells pastor’s wives and how you can fight back with truth. 💪🏾✨

🎥 Join me LIVE at 2:00 PM in the chat!
👉🏾 https://youtu.be/YZC5YWXVlTU?si=XQzZTHPvZyK9FsEB

Tag a fellow pastor’s wife who needs this reminder. ❤️

Satan loves to lie to pastors’ wives. He whispers that you’re not enough, not wanted, or not worthy—but God has the final say. In this video, I expose 3 lies...

07/08/2025

💐 New Video Alert! 💐
What I Wish I Knew When I Became a Pastor’s Wife.

No one hands you a manual when you become a pastor’s wife—but I created this video to share the real lessons I’ve learned so you don’t have to go through it alone.

🎥 In this video, I open up about the 6 traits that helped me survive and thrive, the mistakes I made, and how I learned to lead without losing myself.

✨ If you’re a new First Lady or have been serving for years, this video will remind you:
➡️ You don’t have to be perfect
➡️ God called you—not a version of you
➡️ Support, boundaries, and grace matter

📥 Don’t forget to download your Free 7-Day Devotional Guide for Pastor’s Wives to go deeper in your calling and confidence.

📺 Watch here: https://youtu.be/3a1jY0nlfls?si=cmpiegfDC_rfOmv2

📘 Download the guide:
https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/5bef53f201

Are you thriving as a pastor’s wife—or just surviving? In this video, I’m sharing 6 powerful traits every First Lady must develop to flourish in ministry. Fr...

07/03/2025

🌸 Pastor’s Wives, This Is for You! 🌸

I created a FREE 7-Day Devotional Guide to help you flourish in your calling, stay encouraged, and walk confidently in your role as a First Lady. 💐

Whether you’re just starting or have been in ministry for years, this guide is filled with truth, love, and strength for your journey.

📥 Download it here: https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/5bef53f201

🎥 AND don’t miss my new YouTube video series just for pastor’s wives!

Start with “Are You Called to Be a Pastor’s Wife?”
👉 https://youtu.be/4x6yVyQpOA4?si=5jU18faHd2Dxu-A2

Let’s grow together. 💛

Are you dating or married to a pastor and wondering, “Am I really called to be a pastor’s wife?”You’re not alone—and this video is for you.In this heartfelt ...

06/30/2025

🌸 **First Ladies, This Is for You!** 🌸

Are you wondering if you’re truly called to be a pastor’s wife—or just trying to keep up with the expectations?

🎥 I just launched a brand-new video series created *just for First Ladies* like you! 💕
➡️ **Watch the first episode here:** https://youtu.be/4x6yVyQpOA4?si=YNxW8leNe1klqING

📖 PLUS—Grab my **FREE 7-Day Devotional Guide** to help you grow in confidence, clarity, and calling in your role as a First Lady.

✨ Get your free guide now: https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/5bef53f201

You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Let’s grow and flourish—together! 💐

Are you dating or married to a pastor and wondering, “Am I really called to be a pastor’s wife?”You’re not alone—and this video is for you.In this heartfelt ...

06/16/2025

🌸 Struggling to Get Along with Your Husband?
I’ve been there.

For a while, I didn’t think things would ever get better in my marriage. The constant tension. The misunderstandings. The loneliness—even while sharing the same house.

But then God whispered something that changed everything:

“Submit to your husband.”
Whew. That wasn’t easy to hear—but it was the beginning of real transformation.

💛 In my latest video, I open up about what that looked like for me, why submission isn’t weakness, and how submitting to God helped me become a better wife.

👉 Whether you’re married or hoping to be one day, this message is for you.
Watch now & let’s grow together:

📺 https://youtu.be/S7kFZo9yafU?si=g403xrhnu-y1VEVA

✨ This is part of my Heart of a Godly Wife series.
So many women are already being helped by it—join us!
👇
Tag a friend who needs this.
Drop a 💬 if you’ve ever struggled with submission in your own walk.

06/03/2025

This is the video to watch if you want to memorize the scriptures and learn how to meditate on God‘s word.

After watching it, let me know what you think about it.

May God bless you.🙏🏾

Want to know how to memorize scripture and actually remember it long-term? In this video, we break down a fun, effective 7-day plan using an actual scripture...

05/15/2025

Today’s Day 11 of our Heart of a Godly Wife video series, and this one is close to my heart.

👉 “Why Submission Honors God (And Changes You Too)”
Watch now: https://youtu.be/CDfhDLnXZtk?si=QM3h3QbbUITdUzuu

So many Christian wives misunderstand submission—and honestly, I did too. But when I finally saw that true submission is an act of worship to God, not weakness or control, it shifted everything.

💛 Submission honors God when it’s given freely.
💛 Submission transforms you from the inside out.
💛 And it draws you closer to your husband and to the Lord.

If you’re in a season of learning to yield your heart to God and walk in His design for marriage, you don’t want to miss this one.

📲 Here’s what to do:
1. Watch the video.
2. Leave a comment with your thoughts—I’d love to hear from you!
3. If it blessed you, please like and share it with a friend.

✨ And remember—I’m uploading daily videos (shorts and long-form) this month! So check the Video and Shorts tabs on my channel each day to keep up.

Let’s keep growing together as Godly wives.