Chats With Flo

10/31/2025

When you are married to a pastor or work in ministry, you will experience seasons of loneliness. You pretend that everything is okay. People expect you to have it all together—and because you don’t want to let anyone down, it feels easier to put on a mask. You get so used to being there for others that you don’t feel free to share your own struggles. But remember—God is the safest place for your pain.”

❤️ You don’t have to be perfect to be powerful. Take the mask off, breathe, and let God meet you where you really are.

📖 From my book From Fear to Flourishing 💕 — for every pastor’s wife who’s ever felt unseen or unheard.
Get your copy today at 👉 https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/3a58e9049c

10/27/2025

In this clip from my live video, I share one of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned as a pastor’s wife — how to step back and allow my husband to lead the church and our home. 💒

As wives in ministry, it’s easy to want to help or even step in when we don’t agree, but God called our husbands to lead — and He holds them accountable for their decisions. Our role is to pray, support, and trust God’s order.

This message is not just for pastor’s wives but for any woman learning to embrace her role in marriage and ministry.

✨ Download my free 7-Day Guide for Pastor’s Wives to help you strengthen your confidence, balance ministry and marriage, and find peace in your calling: https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/97daf897dc

💬 Let me know in the comments — have you ever struggled with stepping back and letting your husband lead?

📖 Watch the full live video for more encouragement and insight! https://www.youtube.com/live/JgOPTm9aZyA?si=3fm6G2VRhosZHdud

10/16/2025

Being married to a pastor comes with expectations that most people will never understand. From balancing family and ministry to constantly being “on,” it can feel like you’re carrying invisible weight.

In this clip, I share a few paragraphs from my book From Fear to Flourishing—a reminder that while the role of a pastor’s wife is full of sacrifice, it’s also full of purpose. When we shift our focus from pressure to purpose, we can rediscover the joy in serving, supporting, and growing in grace.

If you’ve ever felt unseen or overwhelmed in your role, this message is for you. ❤️



👉 Learn more about From Fear to Flourishing here:

https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/3a58e9049c

10/16/2025

When you work in ministry, it’s easy to get caught up in helping everyone else — and silently carry your own struggles. 💔

People often expect you to have it all together, but even ministers, pastors, and leaders need encouragement too. In this clip from “The Loneliest Seat in the Church,” I share what I learned about keeping things hidden, the importance of having a spiritual confidant, and how God used my darkest season to birth my YouTube ministry.

💡 Takeaway: You don’t have to carry the weight alone. God sees you, and He’ll send someone to strengthen you in your season of weakness.

📖 Want to go deeper? My book From Fear to Flourishing is written to help women in ministry find healing, confidence, and purpose in their calling.

👉 Watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/-wa6mnYuMAQ?si=4rVuozOupcBb4qpY
✨ From Fear to Flourishing (Book): https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/3a58e9049c

10/11/2025

💬 Ask Me Anything About Being a Pastor’s Wife! 👑

I’m going LIVE this Saturday at 9 AM for a special Q&A — your chance to ask the questions you’ve always wanted to ask about life, ministry, marriage, confidence, and more!

✨ I’ll be answering your questions LIVE and giving you real, honest encouragement from my own journey.

📅 Saturday @ 9 AM
🎥 YouTube Live — Chats With Flo

Drop your questions in the comments ⬇️
If it’s personal, email me at [email protected]
💌

Let’s grow and flourish together! 🌸

10/11/2025

💬 Ask Me Anything About Being a Pastor’s Wife! 👑

I’m going LIVE this Saturday at 9 AM central for a special Q&A — your chance to ask the questions you’ve always wanted to ask about life, ministry, marriage, confidence, and more!

✨ I’ll be answering your questions LIVE and giving you real, honest encouragement from my own journey.

📅 Saturday @ 9 AM
🎥 YouTube Live — Chats With Flo

Drop your questions in the comments ⬇️
If it’s personal, email me at [email protected]
💌

Let’s grow and flourish together! 🌸

Are you a pastor’s wife with questions about ministry, marriage, or finding your place in your calling? 💕Join me LIVE this Saturday at 9 AM for a special Q&...

10/09/2025

If l follow your emotions, they’ll confuse you—but when you learn to recognize God’s voice, everything changes. In this clip, I share how I learned to lean on God’s strength instead of my own and how to tell when He’s calling you to serve.

You don’t have to feel perfect or “spiritual enough” for God to use you. The enemy wants you to doubt your calling, but God’s strength is made perfect in your weakness. 💪🏽

If you’ve ever felt unprepared, unworthy, or unsure of your purpose, this message will remind you that God chose you for a reason.

✨ My new book, From Fear to Flourishing: A Guide for Pastors’ Wives, is available now! You can order the e-book, paperback, or hardcover on Amazon. It’s written to help pastors’ wives and Christian women overcome self-doubt, grow spiritually, and walk boldly in their purpose.

👉🏽 https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/3a58e9049c

10/09/2025

💬 Ask Me Anything About Being a Pastor’s Wife! 👑

I’m going LIVE this Saturday at 9 AM central for a special Q&A — your chance to ask the questions you’ve always wanted to ask about life, ministry, marriage, confidence, and more!

✨ I’ll be answering your questions LIVE and giving you real, honest encouragement from my own journey.

📅 Saturday @ 9 AM
🎥 YouTube Live — Chats With Flo

Drop your questions in the comments ⬇️
If it’s personal, email me at [email protected]💌

Let’s grow and flourish together! 🌸

Are you a pastor’s wife with questions about ministry, marriage, or finding your place in your calling? 💕Join me LIVE this Saturday at 9 AM for a special Q&...

10/07/2025

No one really talks about the hard parts of being a pastor’s wife 💔—but I am.

In my new video, I share the truth behind the smiles and how to find peace in your calling. 👑

🎥 Watch now → https://youtu.be/Wh-za2hQaOY?si=teFDFD2IfQ2VQvmJ

📖 My new book From Fear to Flourishing goes even deeper—get your copy today!

👉 https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/3a58e9049c

Being a pastor’s wife is a calling filled with blessings—but also with struggles that no one talks about. In this video, I share what no one tells you about ...

10/01/2025

🎉 It’s here! My new book From Fear to Flourishing launches TODAY!

If you’ve ever felt unseen, battled comparison, or wondered if you’re enough, this book was written for you. 💕

👑 Inside, you’ll find encouragement, practical tips, and God’s truth to help you flourish in your unique calling.

📖 Get your copy:
✨ E-book → https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/3a58e9049c
✨ Paperback → https://a.co/d/4nKuFak

I know this book will be a blessing to you. 🌸

Florence Annette White is a co-pastor, First Lady, and author with over 33 years of ministry experience alongside her husband. Through her YouTube channel, books, and online community Chats With Flo, she encourages pastors’ wives and Christian women to flourish in faith, family, and ministry.

09/30/2025

Balancing ministry and marriage isn’t easy. In this clip, I share one of the hardest lessons I had to learn as a pastor’s wife—the challenge of having a busy husband whose time is often pulled in many directions. 💔

Watch the full video now on YouTube 👉 https://youtu.be/_dsl3GZGulg?si=bOPxabGk6kQBmn3z

🎉 Plus — my new book From Fear to Flourishing: A Guide for Pastors’ Wives will be available Wednesday, October 1st! 📖

👉🏽 https://chats-with-flo.kit.com/3a58e9049c