06/22/2026
There is a beautiful parallel between the patience required to smoke the perfect brisket and the patience required to raise a child.
For Forward Times Sports Writer John Hickman, learning to tend the fire from his uncles wasn’t just about barbecue—it was about learning how to show up for his village.
Now, two years into his own fatherhood journey, he’s realizing that the best parenting happens when you learn to slow down, embrace the learning curve, and appreciate the process.
From burning a rack of ribs to navigating late-night toddler fevers, growth doesn’t happen overnight.
It takes time, practice, and the willingness to get back on the grill (and back to parenting) after a tough day.
Celebrate the beauty of taking your time this Father’s Day season.
Read John’s full, heartwarming editorial on fatherhood and the art of the slow smoke here:
https://www.forwardtimes.com/editorial/slow-smoke-fatherhood-and-the-beauty-of-taking-your-time/article_fe4b87c1-cbe7-4683-af1f-4a7c8437eed8.html
🗣️ Forward Fam — what is the greatest lesson fatherhood (or a father figure) has taught you about patience?
Let us know in the comments below! ⬇️