New Mercy Moms

27/11/2024

It’s holiday season, but your heart is broken after you lost your child.

Here’s a little article I wrote on my grief during this time of year.

This is helpful for friend and family of bereaved parents to read as well.

27/11/2024

It’s holiday season, but your heart is broken after you lost your child.

Here’s a little article I wrote on my grief during this time of year.

This is helpful for friend and family of bereaved parents to read as well.

Listen to the story of my journey of navigating grief during the holidays and finding hope in the midst of pain. Join me in finding hope in the midst of loss.

12/11/2024

When the unimaginable happens in life, we naturally ask "What am I going to do now?" But perhaps, the better question is to ask "What is God going to do?" as our eyes are forced to look to him
To quote my dear friend and counselor - "Our pain will push us somewhere. Our pain needs to push us to God."

Watch the video to see what God is doing! Bringing life from what only felt like death.

At New Mercy Moms, we are reaching tens of thousands of mothers all over the world with the hope and healing of Jesus.

Send a Care Box to a bereaved mother you know:
https://newmercymoms.com/care-boxes

Donate to help us tangibly show grieving mothers that Jesus meets them in their grief:
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19/05/2024

16/05/2024

Final Call: Last Day to Make Your Impact!
Today is the last day of our campaign, and we are so thankful for your generosity so far!

If you haven't had a chance to join in, it's not too late! Every donation and every share can make a huge difference. Let’s give it one final push to reach our goal together. Your support means the world to us and to the grieving moms we're helping.

Let's make this final day count!

12/05/2024

On this Mother’s Day, we pause to recognize those among us whose celebration is touched by sorrow—the mothers who mourn. In the often quiet pain of this day, may the Lord fill you with moments of peace amid the memories, comfort from those who love and surround you, and a loving reminder of His nearness to each and every one of us.

I wanted to share a song for this day to express what sometimes can be hard to say.

It's Called "Rest in You" by All Sons and Daughters. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qmTrdR1JL5s

In the very end it says " You Cannot change, yet You change everything" As we grieve the loss that we cannot change may we remember we have a God who is Constant and Faithful and He promises to change our mourning into joy one day. We will probably only experience this in part here on earth but we remain hopeful and expectant because of our Beautiful Savior who died and rose to bring us full and abundant life with Him.

11/05/2024

Honestly, after my son Jack passed away, I would be filled with dread as Mother’s Day approached. The thought of sitting in church, surrounded by families celebrating their children, while my arms ached for my baby Jack, was unbearable. I wished for illness to avoid the day, to not have to face the reminders of what I had lost. Seeing other children, especially those around Jack's age, was a painful echo of my emptiness.

I missed Jack with an intensity that words can scarcely describe. The joy observed in other mothers, their laughter and their embraces, felt like a spotlight on the void in my life. The contrast between their celebrations and my mourning was obvious.

But the truth is, there were other mothers who struggled silently. Friends who had lost their own moms, and mothers who had lost their children, old and very young. Because I grieved so openly, some felt comfortable sharing their own pain and loss with me. It helped me feel not alone.
There's no right or wrong way to experience this day. Some find solace in solitude, taking time to reflect and remember in quiet. Others may seek the company of loved ones who understand and share their loss. You might light a candle, write a letter to your child, or spend time in a place that was special to you both. These small acts are a powerful way to connect with your child’s memory.

Remember, it's okay to smile and laugh on this day, too. Finding moments of joy doesn't diminish the depth of your love or the reality of your loss. It's a testament to the resilience of your heart, capable of holding both sorrow and joy.

10/05/2024

Supporting a friend who is grieving the loss of a child on Mother's Day can be both crucial and challenging. This day, often filled with celebrations of motherhood, can bring complex emotions and a heightened sense of loss for those who have experienced such a profound grief. Choosing words that validate a bereaved mother’s feelings and honor her child’s memory can be a profound gift on Bereaved Mother’s Day. It’s about creating space for her grief, acknowledging her motherhood, and affirming that her child’s life, no matter how brief, is significant and remembered.

Here’s a guide to help:
What to Say:
“I’m remembering your child with you today.”
“Your love for your child is beautiful and visible.”
“Would you like to share a memory of your child with me?”
“Your child’s story has touched my heart in profound ways.”
“I’m here to listen if you want to talk about your child.”
“How can I support you best today and in the days to come?”
“I’d love to know more about your child if you feel like sharing.”
“Your journey has been incredibly tough, but you’re not alone.”
“Would you like to do something special to honor your child’s memory today?”

What Not to Say:
“It’s time to move on.”
“At least you have other children.”
“You can always have more children.”
“They’re in a better place now.”
“It will all work out for good, you just have to have faith.”

07/05/2024

Hey everyone! Quick update on our fundraiser: we've raised $425 so far. Huge thanks to everyone who's jumped in so far; your support is truly incredible.

We still need to raise roughly $9,000 to reach our target, so let's keep this momentum going! Remember, if you donate or raise $200 or more, you'll snag an exclusive New Mercy Moms T-shirt as a thank you. 🌟👕 Sneak Peek Coming soon.

Thank you again for your generosity and support! Lets do it!

05/05/2024

Today, we pause to honor and remember Bereaved Mother's Day.

To all mothers who carry the love and loss of a child, your strength is seen, and your loss deeply matters. In the midst of sorrow. May you find the unfailing hope that Jesus promises—'Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.' (Matthew 11:28)

You are not alone in this journey; together, we hold on to truth and healing in His embrace. Kathy's written an encouraging and informative podcast all about this special day. Take a look here on our blog https://newmercymoms.com/blog/bereaved-mothers-day

Remember that today is a day to pause, reflect, and honor the unique journey of motherhood that continues beyond loss. In our deepest valleys of loss, we find Jesus walking beside us, becoming our strength when our flesh and our heart fail.