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🤎Happy Thursday ! Has the burden of being perfect kept you from pursuing your dreams, completing that goal or held you b...
12/18/2025

🤎Happy Thursday !

Has the burden of being perfect kept you from pursuing your dreams, completing that goal or held you back from your God given purpose?

This post is for you!!

Perfectionism can be rooted in many sub emotions and to break free we need tools!
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Join the Slay Perfectionism challenge to get support within a safe community, feedback, tips and resources to slay perfectionism and be free to all God’s called you to be!

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12/17/2025

Real talk: This is what “slaying perfectionism” looks like at 6:30 AM. 🥱

My desire was to stay in bed. My discipline said, “Get up and move.” My toddler had other plans (of course 😅).

But here’s the truth I’m holding onto today:
✨ Showing up is half the battle.
✨ Discipline will take you further than desire.
✨ Progress—no matter how messy—is ALWAYS better than perfection.

I had to let “perfect” go the moment my little one ran into frame. And that’s okay. Because the goal isn’t a flawless routine; it’s a faithful one. It’s pouring into myself in the middle of the mom life, not instead of it.

If your own inner critic is loud about your progress (or lack thereof), I see you. That’s why I created resources to help us quiet that voice for good.

📖 My “Perfectly Imperfect” Starter Kit is live now (link in bio)—your first step to understanding your perfectionism patterns.

📘 And the expanded “Quiet the Critic” Devotional Workbook is coming soon—a 5-day deep dive to build a life of grace, not grit.

Here’s to showing up, even when it’s messy. You’ve got this.

Found this mug in the back of the cabinet while we were all recovering last week. The word “JOY” felt almost ironic at t...
12/11/2025

Found this mug in the back of the cabinet while we were all recovering last week. The word “JOY” felt almost ironic at the time. But it got me thinking.

Worldly joy says, “Feel happy when your life looks perfect.”
Biblical joy whispers, “You can have a deep, settled gladness even when everything is a mess.”

That’s the secret, isn’t it? Perfectionism tells us we can only feel good when the house is clean, the kids are happy, and the to-do list is done. It ties our delight to our performance.

But the joy God offers? It’s a fruit of His Spirit. It doesn’t wait for perfect circumstances. It shows up in the middle of the mess, the sickness, the overwhelm—not as a fake smile, but as a stubborn, quiet knowing that He is good and He is here.

This is the heart of slaying perfectionism: trading the exhausting chase for conditional happiness for the unshakable gift of His joy. It doesn’t mean you won’t get frustrated. It means your peace isn’t ruined by it.

So here’s to choosing joy—not as a feeling we muster, but as a truth we cling to.

What’s one small thing anchoring you in true joy this week?

🥹Wow, I blinked and you became a man! 🥳Happy 21st Kalib Micah Thomas!! 🎉🤎I love you! 🎶🎵🎤 Lalala ,wait till I get my mon...
12/11/2025

🥹Wow, I blinked and you became a man!

🥳Happy 21st Kalib Micah Thomas!! 🎉

🤎I love you!

🎶🎵🎤 Lalala ,wait till I get my money right!!IYKYK🤣

🎂🎉🎁❤️😘

Good morning! It’s okay to be scared but it’s not okay to hide. Do the thing!
12/08/2025

Good morning! It’s okay to be scared but it’s not okay to hide. Do the thing!

✍🏾🗓️Planning for the week. Do you use a planner or a notebook to get or keep things straight? Between all my side hustle...
12/07/2025

✍🏾🗓️Planning for the week.

Do you use a planner or a notebook to get or keep things straight?

Between all my side hustles, kids schedules birthdays and work I wouldn’t keep it together without writing down and truth me told it is still a challenge.😊😩🤦🏾‍♀️

If it isn’t in my planner, it didn’t happen. Lol 😂

Good morning! Whatever your going through hold this verse near.
12/05/2025

Good morning! Whatever your going through hold this verse near.

Good morning!
12/04/2025

Good morning!

12/04/2025

🗣️Decree this over yourself, family and household!! After being down for a few days! This decree was added to my arsenal along with rest, hydration and laughter!

The God’s word is medicine too!

Save for later and share!!!

📖Scripture reference:

Psalm 107:20
Proverbs 4:20-22
Proverbs 16:24
1 Peter 2:24

Made ginger tea for everyone. This helps settle an uneasy stomach. A great staple to keep in your cabinet! I prefer fres...
12/02/2025

Made ginger tea for everyone. This helps settle an uneasy stomach. A great staple to keep in your cabinet!

I prefer fresh but ground or teabags, they have a longer shelf life.

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